There are outliers and anomalies here and there, but for the most part, ARMYS portray BTS members as strong, independent men capable of making their own decisions. They won't blame the company and cry about "mistreatment" if a member doesn't have a solo project. Instead, they respect what the members choose whether it's style, dating, tattoos, or anything else.
I feel like this way of portraying BTS has benefitted the group positively, as it challenges harmful stereotypes and makes them seem more credible as artists.
More fandoms should adopt this strategy.
I feel like the constant infantilization of idols actually does more harm than good. People cry mistreatment when their bias in a group doesn't get a solo project even if the particular idol might not even want a solo. People essentially push for a heavier workload for their favorites even if the members might have other obligations or need a break. They put pressure on the company to give them what they want, neglecting the members' feelings and well-being. This potentially causes burnout and affects the group's longevity.
Meanwhile ARMYS are cool with whatever they get thanks to one simple mindset:
"Whatever BTS decides, I'll respect and support."
This makes it easier for the members to coordinate their solo projects and group projects while also maintaining a healthy work-life balance. They also feel TRUE support from their fans instead of feeling like they're only there to give in to fans' demands.