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hybe is so ridiculously stupid it's so embarrassing to watch

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why are yall fighting over someone else's opinion

if she doesn't like the movie because its for children then she doesn't like it because its for children. period.

condescending or not, someone else's opinion isn't worth this discourse. like, at all.

you got me there

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I mean yeah if you’re a celebrity you have to be more cautious than a regular person that can’t be helped, they make a living out of being in public eye.

Also I really hope you don’t talk to your friends in that dismissive manner. Especially if they like a genre. If my friend called kpop kiddish and that’s why she won’t listen to it, I would indeed like her a lot less.

I know how to talk to my friends and they know how to talk to me, but thanks for the concern. We've been friends for a very long time, and will be friends for much longer.

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again, if she said - i tried it, didn't like it because it's not for me - nobody would have said nothing. but she didn't say that. she even said that "It was the worst when the boys started posing in gat." what she said is essentially "ofc i didn't like it, it's a kids film".

if she likes mentioned disney films or not is irrelevant, those are great films. they might not be for her, but they are iconic films.

her tone is the issue here and how condescending she sounds.

But at the end of the day, it's hard to read tone over text. And it's human to make mistakes sometimes, or accidentally word things harsher than you meant to, or even be unintentionally rude. We all have moments were we could've said things differently and/or in a kinder way. Nobody is going to respond perfectly to things all the time, even with simple conversations. And making a determination of someone's character based on one conversation is really unfair.

There's nothing wrong with saying "It was the worst when the boys started posing in gat". She didn't find it funny, clearly. It's normal to over-exaggerate things we like and don't like. She is just talking casually, I talk like that to my friends, especially when I am talking about something I didn't like. Regardless, it is an opinion that she is allowed to have. I don't think it makes her an edgy, condescending person for her to hate the pose scene. Though, I personally found it to be hilarious.

I could never be an idol for reasons as simple as this. Everything I say could be taken so extremely and intensely, especially when I make a normal, human error while having a conversation. That's so stressful.

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and yet she still trashed it. if you want to criticize a film at least finish it, it's common sense.

lion king, aladdin, little mermaid, tangled, beauty and the beast, lilo and stich, are also kids films. "for kids" means suitable for kids and family film. i'm not a kid and i don't have kids but i love it. why did she even start it in the first place? to say publicly she's above it?

she literally could have said - i tried watching it, it's not for me, but i'm glad others liked it. literally that. instead, she's condescending, trashing the film she didn't even finished.

Why continue watching something you're not enjoying??? Just take the review with a grain of salt if the reviewer admits to not having finished the film, or completely disregard it. You're just assuming the worst.

She didn't start it, she answered a fans question about it. Someone asked her if she watched it and these were her replies. Yes, she did watch it. She just didn't finish it. And she explained why. And the fan asked more questions and gave more details about the movie. To which she responded.

Maybe she just doesn't care for those movies you listed? She may not like family films and/or films intended for kids. I interpreted her last message as something along the lines of "Oh, I checked the genre of the movie, and it's a kids movie". Because 1) it is a kids movie. It's listed as such on netflix. And I personally believe the implication was "I don't like kids movies". But that's just me assuming she had neutral or normal intentions, combined with the fact that in the past she has bluntly stated she doesn't like stuff like this.

I don't know what her intentions were, but nobody really does because we're not in her head. I think it's just not necessarily fair to assume she's trying to be mean, especially when conversing with a fan. And I don't think it's right for anyone to insult her and label her as a rude person based on this short interaction...

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she didn't say her honest opinion, she trashed it even tho she didn't even finished it. she wanted to sound so edgy, calling it a "kids film". even she explained what she didn't like that would be fine but she didn't do that. she sounds like a person who thinks so highly of herself.

I think we're just assuming a lot based on a few short sentences.

"I did watch it but I didn’t think it was for me. Like I got chills down my neck… Made me feel weird. It was the worst when the boys started posing in gat." - This is fine. She doesn't think the film was for her, that's a normal response. She explained that it made her feel weird. That's also fine.

"Oh, I’m dead, LOL." - She is engaging with the fan humorously

"There’s a tiger in it? I guess I didn’t watch it that far." - This is just her showing she didn't watch too far into the movie. Nothing bad.

"So I wondered what the genre was. When I looked it up, it was categorized ‘For Kids.’" - This could've been worded better, but it's not really enough to assume she has a bad personality or had any ill-intentions... Maybe she truly just does not like things intended for a child's audience? That's fine, that's her preference. If she is trying to be condescending, then it is what it is. But there's not really enough to go off of, in my opinion. Different strokes for different folks, as one popular allkpop user says.

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No one said she has to keep quiet.

Sorry, I misinterpreted your meaning of "It’s better to either keep quiet or give some legitimate criticism". I just meant that she isn't obligated to do either of those things, because she has the right to say as much or as little as she wants. But now I see what you meant, too.

very nice

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Idk imo it is indeed close minded response to give. This is one of the biggest movie your country has released in a while and it’s being appreciated and everywhere and you dismiss it as a “kids movie” ofc you will face backlash.

It’s better to either keep quiet or give some legitimate criticism. Being condescending will get you hate. No doubt about that.

Imagine if everyone dismissed SNSD or idol music as “kids music”. In fact this frequently happens IRL people do dismisses all idol related things are being for kids. And kpop fans do get angry at it a lot as well.

I mean, sure, she could've worded it better, but it's not like she owes anyone an in-depth explanation. She doesn't have to keep quiet either. It is quite literally a kids movie, and while I do agree that it's not right to brush off things as "something for kids" or believe that "it's for kids therefore it's stupid", but besides that she clearly didn't enjoy the movie enough to keep watching it. Maybe there are other things for kids she enjoys, I don't know. I literally don't know her.

Saying she might have the personality of cardboard is just as immature, if not more so, than her brushing the movie off as a kids movie. And just because this movie is "the biggest movie her country has released in a while" doesn't mean she owes it anything...

even though i dislike the movie, zoey is a very cute character and heejin is even cuter!!! i like her cosplay!!

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I haven't seen this movie and have no plans to, but I'm surprised she's dismissing it for that reason, because I'm sure if you looked up the genre for her own group's music it would say the same thing.

Half of me wants to be offended but the other half is laughing...

ATEEZ Wooyoung got backlash for his opinion on the movie too. This is why kpop idols don't want to share anything with people smh They can't handle when their idols don't like the same things as them!!! I am glad some of these responders are sane.

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do we really need to spread negativity? Negative takes are piling up here too, like all these comments talking sh*t about how they didn’t like it either… Not a good look.

Giving an honest opinion about a movie is suddenly spreading negativity? Lol

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But did she really have to say it like that? It’s not just a private convo with friends—it’s a public space where everyone can see it…

She didn't even say anything harsh, these people are overreacting

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JYP will always be that bitch

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I have to agree... Who else (with the help of Hwasa) could get such a reaction from Jackson?!

Wow, I feel silly for not knowing who KickFlip was! Good for them.

Not exactly what you're looking for, but XLOV does have a genderless/androgynous concept :)

It has led to annoying discourse on Twitter but still, their connection to LGBT culture is refreshing

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They are grown ups and know they are sexy! Show us

This is essentially what my bff was screaming at the ATEEZ concert... like this is a form of body positivity! Y'all are beautiful!!! Also she loves J-Hope so she would've died if she saw him like that irl. She watched his latest MV and was suffocating she was so excited haha

Obviously don't show off what you're not comfortable with but I hope more idols are able to show themselves off the way they want!!

I prefer the original, I never really cared for remixes honestly! I only listen to one remix from Illit lol.

but it's still good!!

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Martin is wasian and he is also the leader as well .

that does explain the name. is james wasian too?

the names martin and james are killing me like yes ok i know that many korean idols have normal korean names the way martin and james are normal names in the west but like

"yea i stan martin" sounds a bit silly to me

ok i know im being immature

Weird, I expected aespa to be higher. Still, 20 isn't bad! Not like my faves ever end up on this list lmao