(Poll) Is it weird to stan married idols?

no, Im sure their partners would love the idol's pockets lined and full

Stanning is just liking the idol as a person and music. Doesn't need to be anything deeper than that.

For me It's the same as stanning single idols. It doesn't change anything lol.

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Some fans say they don't like it coz it feels disrespectful to the idol's spouse or because they feel that a married person should concentrate on their family instead of spending so much time promoting/ touring. Others may think it interferes with the illusion of the parasocial relationship.

What do you think?

It's only weird if you are lusting after one party or the other. Family is most joyful experience in life and desiring that for the idols you love is the greatest form of love you can show. It makes me sad that so many idols are missing out on building their own families...

Well... Woorim is my Forestella bias.

I feel like there is nothing wrong about liking an artist. I mean, you might like them because you find them talented and stuff.

And stanning doesn't always mean that you would want to date them.

If people really would think that way than people like Chen wouldn't have any fans no more

not at all

No, a lot of people stan married folks in different music fandoms, whether that be pop girls, bands, musicians, classical artists etc (whatever you fancy). I guess it depends on how you stan someone, if it’s in some romanticized way, then you’re not going to like it…but a lot of us don’t view care about that kind of thing.

I don't know of many married idols but no I don't see a problem with it as long as a fan doesn't get obsessed or feel for them sexually.

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Yeah, it's so bizarre to me when fans get upset that their faves are dating or start families. Fans claim to love their faves. Don't they want to see them happy?

I should add this to the other post about opinions that might get you punched:

If you have a problem with Idols you love dating or starting a family you are SELFISH!

OMG, you have no idea how good it felt to say that!

No

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Wow, i feel like i haven't seen you in for.ev.er

Yeah I've been way too busy so took a break from kpop for a while.

I'm actually wishing them to find their partner sooner. Some of them already 33, and they actually planned to get married around this age

You Marry an Idol and they are working.

Fans should respect their privacy and support healthy relationships for their idols! I want people to be happy in the industry! If my fave decides to get married, then by golly I'm happy for them and want them to work. Especially if their spouses are fine with it. If they were not okay with it, then the Idol would leave their groups or careers right?

So imo, it's fiiine! I think fans get jealous because they thinkt he Idol is for them when it's not true. Lol

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I don't see any problems even with stanning them romantically/lusting after them

Just feels disrespectful to me.

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It's not like u are going to date them anyway

It's always felt like a lot of people miss this fact or are outright disillusion.

Nope, I'm not supporting them coz I want to date them. It's more that I'm entertained by the content they put out and want more of it. Same as "liking" western actors/actresses, musicians etc. People need to remember that these idols & celebs are just doing a job.

nope!

Nope.

But, it depends on the reason why...

If someone stanning a married idol in hope for marrying the idols too then yeah that someone maybe need some professional help/medication

Stan Changmin uwu

When I see people say they would stop supporting an idol because of their marriage/relationship status it just shows me that person has an unhealthy stan relationship with that idol and see it for more than it is.

No unless that you have an unhealthy obsession for them. They sing, dance and perform. I enjoy it and I listen to their songs but that’s all.

Well this was a fairly one sided poll

it would only be weird if u had romantic feelings for said idol

who would give up their job just because of marriage?

Not at all, if someone stops stanning an artist just because they get married, they weren't even a fan to begin with. Changmin from TVXQ got married and recently became a father and I couldn't feel anything but happiness and joy for him. He still has released one of the best albums in 2022, so if anyone stopped stanning because of that its their loss lol.

if people can still stan seungri then one can stan anybody!!!

I’ve been married for years, it would be pretty weird of me if I had an issue with someone I stanned wanting to find love and happiness.