How they managed to say so many sweet things to each other in 15 minutes 
Appreciation thread to Hyunjin and Felix's friendship, because It's one of a kind
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Aww
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Please, the universe can't separate them
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As the members have said in the episode, they kind of seem to have the opposite personalities. Yet, when they're together I feel like they bring out a side of each other that's almost the same? It's very cute.
I thought It was interesting when the members said they have opposite personalities, because I think this actually helped them to match so well.
Like when Changbin explained Felix is the type of person, after a fight, who takes the first step to start a conversation and trying to solve things. While Hyunjin is not like that, he won't make the move so easily and he needs some time to calm down when he's mad.
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Ah well here it goes the cry of the day
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They’re engaged your honor
Everyone has ten seconds to convince me they're not engaged and just really good at hiding it. Ready, set go! What's that? You all failed? Huh. Guess it's official then.
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As the members have said in the episode, they kind of seem to have the opposite personalities. Yet, when they're together I feel like they bring out a side of each other that's almost the same? It's very cute.
I just learned that the saying "opposites attract" came from Felix and Hyunjin. No, I'm not wrong, all your teachers are. On a more serious note, that's so wholesome and I wish my real-life friendships were that strong (they're very strong, but not THAT strong if you know what I mean).
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I thought It was interesting when the members said they have opposite personalities, because I think this actually helped them to match so well.
Like when Changbin explained Felix is the type of person, after a fight, who takes the first step to start a conversation and trying to solve things. While Hyunjin is not like that, he won't make the move so easily and he needs some time to calm down when he's mad.
Felix is me. After a fight, set a timer for five minutes and watch to see if I come running back to sincerely apologize before it even starts to go off.
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I envy the way you move. I'm more similar to Hyunjin and this is just not good.
I've lost people in my life because It's hard for me to take the first step and starting a conversation. I think It's a mix of shyness and pride.
But both you and Felix are extroverts, so I suppose It's easier to you, since you don't struggle as much to break of your personal space.
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I envy the way you move. I'm more similar to Hyunjin and this is just not good.
I've lost people in my life because It's hard for me to take the first step and starting a conversation. I think It's a mix of shyness and pride.
But both you and Felix are extroverts, so I suppose It's easier to you, since you don't struggle as much to break of your personal space.
To make you feel better, yes, I apologize on the faster end 90%+ of the time, but one time it took me two years to actually apologize to the person because I was angry at them for so long, then forgot about it and it had been two years by that time. That's a long story for another day. I can understand why that is not good, but you are always welcome to work on it if you want. It won't be easy, but I'm sure it'll be worth it.
I'm so sorry to hear that. At least if it ever happens to me (from you), I'll be warned and know the reason why. I can see why that would be the case. One thing that might help is knowing that the other person probably feels the same way and convincing yourself you're breaking your pride, so they won't have to. Or maybe that type of logic only works on me and how selfless I try to be.
Yes, me and Felix are both extroverts and that does make it easier in this situation, however, us extroverts struggle in different ways. If I had to pick between an introvert and extrovert, I would say extrovert, but a more accurate label would be an ambivert that leans towards the extroverted side of the spectrum. First of all, being extroverted and outgoing are not the same thing, even if people think they are. Introverted vs Extroverted simply says where you get energy from. Shy vs Outgoing says more about how you feel around new people and socializing in general.
Also, while I find socializing fun, sometimes I need a break (even extroverts need those types of breaks away from people). That doesn't always convince people though because some people seem to think that: "Oh, come on, you're an extrovert, you don't need a break, you'll be fine." Yes, I will be, right after a nice, long nap. Also, on top of that, sometimes it gets tiring to constantly be putting myself out there when it feels like so few people do the same, but whenever I step back to take a break, so few people step forward in my place, so I realize I'm forced into the role in away and go back and do it. Someone has to adopt all the poor introverts and shy people of the world. Have a great day/night!
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To make you feel better, yes, I apologize on the faster end 90%+ of the time, but one time it took me two years to actually apologize to the person because I was angry at them for so long, then forgot about it and it had been two years by that time. That's a long story for another day. I can understand why that is not good, but you are always welcome to work on it if you want. It won't be easy, but I'm sure it'll be worth it.
I'm so sorry to hear that. At least if it ever happens to me (from you), I'll be warned and know the reason why. I can see why that would be the case. One thing that might help is knowing that the other person probably feels the same way and convincing yourself you're breaking your pride, so they won't have to. Or maybe that type of logic only works on me and how selfless I try to be.
Yes, me and Felix are both extroverts and that does make it easier in this situation, however, us extroverts struggle in different ways. If I had to pick between an introvert and extrovert, I would say extrovert, but a more accurate label would be an ambivert that leans towards the extroverted side of the spectrum. First of all, being extroverted and outgoing are not the same thing, even if people think they are. Introverted vs Extroverted simply says where you get energy from. Shy vs Outgoing says more about how you feel around new people and socializing in general.
Also, while I find socializing fun, sometimes I need a break (even extroverts need those types of breaks away from people). That doesn't always convince people though because some people seem to think that: "Oh, come on, you're an extrovert, you don't need a break, you'll be fine." Yes, I will be, right after a nice, long nap. Also, on top of that, sometimes it gets tiring to constantly be putting myself out there when it feels like so few people do the same, but whenever I step back to take a break, so few people step forward in my place, so I realize I'm forced into the role in away and go back and do it. Someone has to adopt all the poor introverts and shy people of the world. Have a great day/night!
It's funny how your experiences are the opposite of mine. For example, I'm 90% of the time not the first person to apologize or starting a conversation even If I recognize I'm in the wrong. But there were situations that were leading me to be this person and I did.
However, even through I don't like to be the first person, I don't have problems to apologize or forgiving. For example, If we fought and I said something that hurt you and I noticed you didn't like it. It would be hard for me to approach you. Even If It's killing me and I regret deeply and It's stuck on my conscience. But If you come at me and say "Mina, I didn't like what you said, It hurt me" I would apologize immediately from the bottom of my heart.
Yes, sometimes we will be in a relationship/friendship with people like you who have no problems to do it most of the time and are comfortable to do it. But sometimes you won't be comfortable and sometimes we will be in a relationship/friendship with people who are like us. So what to do? Living the live waiting for other people's steps when we can try to do our part to solve the problem? Especially If we are in the wrong. It's such a struggle.
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It's funny how your experiences are the opposite of mine. For example, I'm 90% of the time not the first person to apologize or starting a conversation even If I recognize I'm in the wrong. But there were situations that were leading me to be this person and I did.
However, even through I don't like to be the first person, I don't have problems to apologize or forgiving. For example, If we fought and I said something that hurt you and I noticed you didn't like it. It would be hard for me to approach you. Even If It's killing me and I regret deeply and It's stuck on my conscience. But If you come at me and say "Mina, I didn't like what you say, It hurt me" I would apologize immediately from the bottom of my heart.
Yes, sometimes we will be in a relationship/friendship with people like you who have no problems to do it most of the time and are comfortable to do it. But sometimes you won't be comfortable and sometimes we will be in a relationship/friendship with people who are like us. So what to do? Living the live waiting for other people's steps when we can try to do our part to solve the problem? Especially If we are in the wrong. It's such a struggle.
That's good to know. I have no problem apologizing if I actually feel guilty and believe what I did was wrong. If I believe my actions weren't that bad or are justified, good luck getting me to apologize anytime soon. I apologize often and over apologize because I make a ton of mistakes. True, I'm sure there may occasionally be times like those. I'm sorry you have to deal with that kind of struggle, and I know it's not easy.
Maybe one thing that would help is telling someone who is a friend but was uninvolved in that particular situation what happened so you can get case by case advice and they could also give you the courage to take the first step and apologize or tag along for moral support (if in person). Don't know how much it will help but wanted to toss that idea out there. Speaking of help, if you ever need me to help you in any way, do not hesitate to ask for it, you know I'd do it, no questions asked. As long as it's legal and not completely immoral, but I'm sure that won't be an issue at all. Have a great day/night!
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Well, that just makes me want to cry! So adorable!
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That's good to know. I have no problem apologizing if I actually feel guilty and believe what I did was wrong. If I believe my actions weren't that bad or are justified, good luck getting me to apologize anytime soon. I apologize often and over apologize because I make a ton of mistakes. True, I'm sure there may occasionally be times like those. I'm sorry you have to deal with that kind of struggle, and I know it's not easy.
Maybe one thing that would help is telling someone who is a friend but was uninvolved in that particular situation what happened so you can get case by case advice and they could also give you the courage to take the first step and apologize or tag along for moral support (if in person). Don't know how much it will help but wanted to toss that idea out there. Speaking of help, if you ever need me to help you in any way, do not hesitate to ask for it, you know I'd do it, no questions asked. As long as it's legal and not completely immoral, but I'm sure that won't be an issue at all. Have a great day/night!
I've seen you apologizing for the most random comments in the forum when you didn't say absolutely nothing wrong, so I believe you
The funniest thing is... Rationally, I know what to do most of the time, but my actions and decisions are often led by emotions in these situations
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Shhh...those are a secret! I get the same way with other things so I can kind of understand how that feels (knowing what the logical thing to do is but going with my emotions instead). I don't know what to say or do to help you with this right now, I'm sorry (that better not count as "over apologizing"). If I think of something to make that part of life easier for you, I'll let you know. Have a great day/night!
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