Of course this is a generalization and doesn't apply to all female kpop stans. Let's take a look at the chart shall we.
Reasons you can't live with them:
2. Wokeness on a Russian aggressiveness level
3. You'll never be as good as her oppa
4. Violence against idols and other fans
5. Bullying idols online for being bullies in grade school and also bullying idols who aren't 10 out of 10s
6. Actually believes BTS paved the way
Reasons you can't live without them:
1. If every female kpop fan retired from kpop then South Korea would plummet in another financial crisis overnight.
2. Girl groups wouldn't exist cause guys don't spend money on kpop
3. There would be no entertaining fanwars online
Can you think of more?