How do you feel about kpop stans who choose not to date real life people, because they are "loyal" to their idol?

Look whoever is so mentally unstable to do this won't admit it here, most people will say they would never do something like that but a lot of them are crazy enough to do it

Crazy

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Crazy

exactly right my friend

all these people who then claim certain idols to be their girlfriends/wifeys

at the end of the day the product being touted by kpop companies is the idols themselves...

and if certain fans cannot control themselves and their delusions well the question is - is that then on the idol (or the company) to do something about it or the fan themselves???

Loser behavior. These types of fans need to go join a knitting club or take up swimming. Anything, really. Anything that gets them out into the real world.

Oh brother... nobody wants these weirdos anyway. They'd be doing the world a favor not traumatizing future children with their mentally ill ways

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exactly right my friend

all these people who then claim certain idols to be their girlfriends/wifeys

Oh not me. I have real wifeys. Don't know about others (whistling)

Lol

It's really icky if there are actually idols encouraging that sort of delusional behavior, especially since you know they're probably not going to stay single themselves. But even if they do, they're only going to make things worse for the idols who don't and never promised they would, as they're going to be influencing their fandom on a larger level and not just whichever individuals they say this crap to. Then everyone will be parasocial out the wazoo.

idols/companies are fucked for encouraging it but the fans are already cooked in the head

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Well they are gonna die alone and that's on them since the idols are never gonna date them.

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They obviously have issues, but they're not hurting anyone. It feels wrong to look down on them or mock them for it. There's obviously something missing or wrong in their lives.

If you have no problem with the folks participating in fanwars but you judge these people, your priorities are messed up.

I agree with not ridiculing or mocking them, but they are hurting themselves in the long run.

It's not healthy to have that kind of one-sided obsessive behaviour.

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Oh not me. I have real wifeys. Don't know about others (whistling)

of course not you my friend

it's all the others who are delusional!!!

Those should be the ones having to apologize to dispatch instead of the poor idols