what is the real definition of "pick me girl" in kpop?
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No one. "Pick me"'s put other people down to get romantic attention, and the last thing these companies want is to publicly show their idols actively having beef with another group. I'm sure idols date and hookup in private, so we'll hopefully never know what their relationships are like unless they announce something publicly.
All the girls accused of it are just acting cute and feminine, the stans are the ones overratcting to female idols acting cute when there aren't even boys around. So if anything, the kpop stans are the pick me's. The fans talk down to female idols in the vacuum of stan social media, because nothing ever happens.
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In K-pop aka what many K-pop fans consider a pick me?
Girls who are prettier and more successful than me where I have to attributes anything they do to being a pick me to feel better about myself. Female idol being tomboyish or opinionated? ie tries too much to be relatable so men pick her. Too feminine or acts cute? ie acts pretty so men pick her.
Seriously though as much as I hate the baby talk because it’s fake and creepy, accusing female idols to do it in order to get male attention is disgusting.
In a way, those who call female idols pick mes are the true definition and original meaning of the word. They are the ones putting down other girls. I have yet to see a female idol putting down other girls like they do.
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In reality: Putting other women down to receive (positive) attention. Often goes hand in hand with the "not like other girls" trope but focuses specifically on male validation and romantic interest.
In Kpop: Any girl group member who's pretty and popular enough to make people feel majorly insecure about themselves, causing them to throw any negative label they can think of at her.
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I'm not like these other girls at all.
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OK I don't really know what Pick me girl means, I only know "attention seeker" and I just think of "PMG" as a synonym usually. I don't know the nuance about the type of behavior of putting down other girls that seem like a threat or something.
"Attention seeker". It's not when a person is just simply behaving and moving normally, it's when a person acts so unnatural in a way that implies the desire for attention/being perceived as different, that it makes people watching uncomfortable. However it can be subjective just because someone is beautiful and confident they draw too much attention by their every move without even trying and they were just acting normal but it makes you super uncomfortable because their hair or outfit is too loud or something, and it seems like they know, but maybe they don't even know
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Loads ere m8
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Pick me girls sound like female versions of male incel types who go on TW and make fun of homely lookin dudes who have hotter GFs or wives. I get it, it's real tough out there in the dating world, but if you have to resort to attacking other dudes, calling them "betas" and whatnot, all you're doing is making yourself seem insecure and jealous, which are usually huge turnoffs.
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Pick me girls sound like female versions of male incel types who go on TW and make fun of homely lookin dudes who have hotter GFs or wives. I get it, it's real tough out there in the dating world, but if you have to resort to attacking other dudes, calling them "betas" and whatnot, all you're doing is making yourself seem insecure and jealous, which are usually huge turnoffs.
I imagine that incels and those that call themselves 'Alphas' are different groups.
Perhaps incels look up to 'Alphas'.
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