Do you think you will get bashed by certain fandoms? Lose friends? Just don't want to appear rude? What holds you back?
Are there (honest, non trollish) opinions you are afraid to share here?
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Yes, there are. I do it because I know it's a sensitive topic and I don't exactly get joy out of making other people upset. Also because I said my opinions on it before and be metaphorically beating a dead horse. I will definitely get bashed by certain fandoms, but not by my friends, so I'd survive I guess. Plus, I'm not sure if anyone would actually listen and care to understand it, as opposed to skimming a sentence or two and then immediately forming a judgement on me and blowing up at me.
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Yeah, there are lmao.
I already know it will lead to an argument, and there are certain things I don't have the energy to go back and forth about.
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more often than not i just dont feel like fighting but ig if the topic is smt i feel strongly for even if it's not mainstream, i'll likely just say it
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i do have some, but i think there's nothing i hide from everyone. my friends on here know most if not all when they come to mind
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yep
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yes lol but i share for the most part
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i have opinions on certain groups i usually keep to myself because people will gang up on you in heartbeat here.
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idk im pretty straightfoward in general
how about this : I genuinely dont think any of BP can sing outside Rose ( by my standards which requires a high paid professional to be really good at their job, not just ok )
and I dont think Irene is good enough as a dancer to justify her being in the group, aside from her looks, no matter what her fans say to make themselves look less shallow
and chaeyoung is a better singer than more than half of twice, and thats not a good thing
there, against the most popular groups
surely this is what you want
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Sometimes but mostly I don’t want to say something and then it sounds like it’s meant in a bad way
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you guys should go to my spicy opinion rating thread
If I judge it to be below level 5, you are very likely safe to share
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I never comment on groups I don't like.
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i'm pretty forthcoming but some things i think can be mean spirited and they're better kept as inside thoughts
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Nope...I'm very honest with what I like and don't like
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Yeah there are
Some are opinions that are just not worth sharing, because they are quite negative and theres nothing positive or worthwhile about sharing them (eg some views on physical appearances of idols, which some may take as trollish)
Others are just opinions about certain parts of the industry that I know many will disagree with and seem cruel or overly mean. I mentioned one once and realised most people here really disagreed. So eh.
For all the trolling here, this place is still pretty chill and fun for me, so I don't wanna be that asshole.
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Kpop wise yes i guess but not afraid its more i just feel sorry for the stans so i dont see the need to share it just to start drama when theyre already aware of their groups faults
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Kpop wise yes i guess but not afraid its more i just feel sorry for the stans so i dont see the need to share it just to start drama when theyre already aware of their groups faults
if they arent though then thats a different story
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yeah depends on my mood and the users present in the thread
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keyboardwarrior7 why the laugh react
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Not scared, but i don't have the energy to argue/fight with people so i'll just stay quiet a lot of the time
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no i'm 100% real and doesn't give a f*** of what people say or look for validation of other users here
if i want to say something i say it, i don't care if people are happy or mad about it
i don't consider this forum as a place to make friends or something else
i sign up to talk about kpop and kpop groups positively or negatively
and i'll never understand people on this forum who prefer to keep their opinion for themselves just because they are looking for validation and love of other user here
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no i'm 100% real and doesn't give a f*** of what people say or look for validation of other users here
if i want to say something i say it, i don't care if people are happy or mad about it
i don't consider this forum as a place to make friends or something else
i sign up to talk about kpop and kpop groups positively or negatively
I wish I could be more like that.
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Not scared but I'm not a fan of people mass quoting me so for that reason I just keep it to myself. I think its important to have a healthy filter because some stuff really shouldn't be said.
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Do you think you will get bashed by certain fandoms? Lose friends? Just don't want to appear rude? What holds you back?
I live by the motto, "Pick your battles." There's nothing I am afraid to say. Afraid is the wrong word for it. There are things I choose not to say since I also choose not to waste my time on certain things I deem futile. I get to choose what I want to spend my time on . My time is a valuable commodity and I never go into things to half-ass them. If it's worth it, you can bet your bottom dollar I'll say it and I'll go all in.
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I’m not really ever afraid lol. But I notice that any comment that can be perceived with a negative connotation even if not meant in that way, outweighs anything positive said about the same group. Some users love to jump on you out of ignorance or assumption, so I stopped bothering to even contribute positively to some threads/groups, ect. And likewise with any opinions deemed controversial unless it’s something I really feel needs to be said. Some things just aren’t worth bickering over.
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Not afraid, there are just some things that don't need to be said so I keep them to myself.
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Yeah, there are lmao.
I already know it will lead to an argument, and there are certain things I don't have the energy to go back and forth about.
I get that. Sometimes it's just not worth wading in and it's better to just channel Hyungwon
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Yes, there are. I do it because I know it's a sensitive topic and I don't exactly get joy out of making other people upset. Also because I said my opinions on it before and be metaphorically beating a dead horse. I will definitely get bashed by certain fandoms, but not by my friends, so I'd survive I guess. Plus, I'm not sure if anyone would actually listen and care to understand it, as opposed to skimming a sentence or two and then immediately forming a judgement on me and blowing up at me.
I do hate it when users jump to snap judgments about the opinion or the motivation of the user without trying to understand all the nuance. Also, people should be allowed to have opinions. I don't think people should be rude and hateful, but honesty, respectful opinions!
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yep
Cuz you think people will get mad and maybe gang up on you?
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yes lol but i share for the most part
I don't think I've ever noticed you holding back lol
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i have opinions on certain groups i usually keep to myself because people will gang up on you in heartbeat here.
That's a sad thought. I know this used to happen kinda a lot but i think it's gotten a lot better since the revamp. ...or maybe users are more wary now
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idk im pretty straightfoward in general
how about this : I genuinely dont think any of BP can sing outside Rose ( by my standards which requires a high paid professional to be really good at their job, not just ok )
and I dont think Irene is good enough as a dancer to justify her being in the group, aside from her looks, no matter what her fans say to make themselves look less shallow
and chaeyoung is a better singer than more than half of twice, and thats not a good thing
there, against the most popular groups
surely this is what you want
Woah, i was not expecting.... um... i...
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Sometimes but mostly I don’t want to say something and then it sounds like it’s meant in a bad way
Me too, i just don't want to be mean sometimes
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Yes there are because I have differing views to most here because of my discerning age, and also there are certain fandoms and groups I don't particularly like and it's a bit sad that one cannot say so for fear of reprisal.
I wish people would just let others have opinions.
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you guys should go to my spicy opinion rating thread
If I judge it to be below level 5, you are very likely safe to share
I'm have to check it out lol
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