you're 23 years old and meet a 15 year old through work, school, family relations or otherwise. you have a cordial, friendly relationship with this 15 year old for years and see them at different stages of their young life while you continue with your very much adult life throughout that time period.
would you be interested in dating this after 10 years have passed just bc they're an adult now and just bc you can?
i can pass no definitive judgement on male idols like heechul and gd, bc i do not know them or their intentions. they havent done anything illegal, and i am not trying to frame it like they have. but its so concerning when stans completely ignore the same instances that get young girls trapped in toxic relationships with unbalance power dynamics. why are we pretending that these behaviors should be a social norm. all i want to say is young girls deserve far more protection. sulli's relationship with choiza started on similar terms and i still wish someone had protected her the way she deserved back then. i just hope women like momo and jennie are safe and happy and have people in their lives that will fight for them if they ever need it.