[NB] Actor Kim Sun Ho addresses rumors in public apology to ex-girlfriend (mixed comments)

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    Article: 'Actor K' Kim Sun Ho, "I hurt my ex-girlfriend... I genuinely apologize"


    Source: Chosun via Naver


    1. [+2,178, -209] Goodbye


    2. [+1,490, -140] I'm glad that he at least admitted the truth. There are just too many people who refuse to do even that these days.


    3. [+1,179, -64] Why do these people always only apologize after a scandal has happened? They never cared about apologizing before so is an apology that happens only after a scandal a truly genuine apology?


    4. [+919, -30] So everything in the rumors was true, that's his whole career crumbling down ㅋㅋㅋ


    5. [+765, -215] He spent his twenties as a hungry no-name actor and just now won the lottery only to fall straight down ㅋㅋㅋ


    6. [+653, -145] I don't find the woman considerate at all either. Their relationship was over, it was petty of her to expose every bit of his private life to the world like that.


    7. [+355, -37] Feels like he didn't even attempt to explain anything... just admitted to everything by saying "I'm sorry"


    8. [+515, -301] I originally assumed the woman was in her early twenties with how naive she sounded in her post. Now that her identity's been revealed, she's actually an older divorcee. She totally played the victim act on Kim Sun Ho.


    9. [+272, -92] I think it's good that he didn't make this any messier and chose to just admit it clean and fair. He can take a brief hiatus in the name of reflection and I hope he comes back after that.


    10. [+136, -12] Kim Sun Ho sucks but I think the woman took it too far by taking him to exile like this. She's been found to be a pretty wealthy woman in her mid-thirties with a failed marriage already. She doesn't seem like the type to have to be dragged into getting an ab*rtion no matter how much she claims he forced it on her.

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    Source: Naver


    1. [+715, -165] Feels like a case where... the man just wanted to date her but never considered her marriage material, whereas the woman was suffering from losing her baby and being dumped by him but still wanted to hold on to him. I know the ab*rtion hurt her but if even one parent chose to not be able to raise the child, then it might've been the better decision to erase it than to hurt the child further by bringing it into the world and having it deal with its parents divorce.


    2. [+447, -10] He needed to have consoled her, make her understand. He shouldn't have left her to stew in her own anger. Think of the world we live in... the world is small, who knows if he ever was meant to cross paths with her again. Don't hurt others as you live your life.


    3. [+405, -16] So it was all true


    4. [+508, -155] Feels a bit better for him to just cleanly apologize like this


    5. [+143, -50] The ajummas need to stop shielding him, this is gross ㅠㅠㅠㅠ

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    Source: Naver


    1. [+955, -307] So the woman was found to have done drunken live streams while pregnant which makes me question if she even wanted the baby... Both sides consented to not using protection, and for her to want a baby that she conceived when they were barely beginning to date would mean the baby would not be so easily welcomed into the world. Whatever, both sides seem foolish to me...


    2. [+1,119, -570] His apology is so half-hearted. He should be apologizing straight to the victim. Instead, he just tossed her a "sorry" and it sounds like he's more apologetic to the rest of the people around him.


    3. [+584, -66] So he's basically admitting that it's true... We really need higher moral standards for male celebrities.


    4. [+451, -93] It's good that his apology is clean. I know that he probably had a lot to say and retort himself but it seems more mature of him to just decide to keep it all buried take it with him. No point in continuing a mud-slinging fight. Just take some time to reflect. An apology letter like this is perfect to prepare him for a better future.


    5. [+352, -36] His relationship was never the issue... but his basic attitude when dealing with a person was the problem. His acting talent obviously fated him for bigger things so I hope he takes this as a learning opportunity and realizes that being a public figure isn't so easy..

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    Source: Naver


    1. [+491, -20] No one is responsible for the result of your actions than you yourself. You reap what you sow. Goodbye...


    2. [+466, -41] My only problem with this is how Kim Sun Ho handled the situation after she got an ab*rtion. The decision to get an ab*rtion is mutual in my eyes.


    3. [+277, -8] Respect is needed even in a break up


    4. [+366, -246] It's ridiculous to me that only one side is getting hate over an action that both parties committed out of love. It's not like the woman bears no responsibility in all of this?


    5. [+95, -4] A popular, trending actor... He could've made enough money to live in a large home with a Han River view, how unfortunate now. He was known for his clean image so the shock is that much bigger. I can understand why the woman did what she did out of anger. It sucks what happened, but it was also too much to just bury and move on from. She got an ab*rtion for him only to have to bear watching his "kind" face on TV, it must've been hard. Kim Sun Ho never loved this woman genuinely. He was too blinded by his selfish greed... Whatever the case, I thought I finally found a likable actor but I don't think we'll be seeing his face on TV anymore.

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    Source: Insight via Instagram


    1. [+122] I first found out about him through his latest drama and further learned that he's been in theater for years, slowly building himself up, so I thought positively of his image and became a fan... Being in a relationship, being in love, all of that is fine.. but this relationship took place last year when he was already a fixed cast member on a variety show and getting his name more known to the public. When he broke up with her, he showed no basic manner of respect or consideration. If his image was being built around this positive version of himself, he should've been more careful. Maybe he wasn't cunning enough like some other celebrities to think that far ahead but the disappointment is just too big, and that's the truth...


    2. [+68] I really had no inkling about Kim Sun Ho, this is actually so shocking ㅋㅋㅋㅋ He harmed Shin Min Ah with this scandal, his ex-girlfriend.. I never want to see him again


    3. [+40] Goodbye


    4. [+30] Yes goodbye~ ㅎ


    5. [+2] And this is why we should all remember to speak and act with consideration whether others are watching us or not

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    Article: 'K Actor' Kim Sun Ho, OP 'A' is a former broadcast star turned influencer


    Source: Everyday Economy via Naver


    1. [+1,135, -336] So she used to be a news caster Choi-something. Sigh... as the saying goes, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, it's true~ She already has a history of divorce and she's 37 years old to boot. She should've just considered him a bout of bad luck and just worked harder on her own life. Why act like a dating novice and get all immature by begging on the boots of a man who's trying to leave you? Why go down to rock bottom with him? ㅠㅠ Her identity's all out now and I don't think she can lead a normal life for the time being


    2. [+994, -525] His work was more important to him than their relationship. Sounds like any relationship that ended in break up... Was it really worth it to send him to rock bottom over this?


    3. [+671, -395] Sounds like an old woman tried to fix her life by landing him but it didn't work out so she turned it into a mud-slinging fight. Too bad people are so quick to pounce on Kim Sun Ho ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ


    4. [+263, -25] Judging by how the comments are so supportive of him now, seems like a lot of you have personal experience getting your exes pregnant and then dumping her ㅋㅋㅋ I actually have morals so thank goodness I'm normal and not like the rest of you


    5. [+250, -54] I don't like this woman. What terrible character. She divorced her ex-husband at 37 and let him go with no drama, so why does she have to stomp down her ex-boyfriend like this?? What did she hope to achieve????


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  • idg the age shaming. like, just bc she's older means she couldnt have been taken advantage of by a man...? i do agree that it seems like it was just a fairly normal relationship that ended badly, like many do, but its true he was being a manipulative pos if everything was true... if people dont want to "cancel" him, they dont have to, but like with the way sexual abuse and domestic violence against woman is so normalized in sk, its good to make an example out of celebs so people know, yeah, this isnt something you should be doing.

    who's your favorite artist?

  • they made a mistake, he asked her to abort the baby, because he is not finically stable at the time to take care of her or the baby, she refused and insisted to keep the baby just to bait him to marry her. After he begged her and promised her of marriage, then she goes and abort it. No wonder he dumped her right after. She is petty.

  • i think the reason people are bringing up her being an older divorcee is that she must have already experience with birth control and avoiding pregnancy. it's also easier to think a young woman will fall for false marriage promises but her being older; she is experienced in relationships and should have had own independence on whether to keep or abort the child.

  • they made a mistake, he asked her to abort the baby, because he is not finically stable at the time to take care of her or the baby, she refused and insisted to keep the baby just to bait him to marry her. After he begged her and promised her of marriage, then she goes and abort it. No wonder he dumped her right after. She is petty.

    this is kind of a sick thing to say. he's the one who wanted to fck raw and he is responsible for the aftermath. abortion is not an easy thing to do whether its needed or not. women can have serious trauma surrounding their abortions. claiming a woman wants to keep a baby to "bait" a man into marriage is literally misogynistic

    who's your favorite artist?

  • this is kind of a sick thing to say. he's the one who wanted to fck raw and he is responsible for the aftermath. abortion is not an easy thing to do whether its needed or not. women can have serious trauma surrounding their abortions. claiming a woman wants to keep a baby to "bait" a man into marriage is literally misogynistic

    I am pretty sure aborting a baby is way safer than giving breath. You should be thankful to him if you are too worried about her safety.


    she only agreed to abort the baby once he promised her of marriage, She didn't give a fuck about wanting the baby lmao.

  • Paying and coercing someone to abort is a shitty thing and that itself is a reason enough for me to not like him. His ex doing bad things is something that should be looked upon itself but does not make his actions better. He literally admitted to all of it in a halfhearted apology letter which killed the rest of my almost non existent positive impressions

  • I am pretty sure aborting a baby is way safer than giving breath. You should be thankful to him if you are too worried about her safety.


    she only agreed to abort the baby once he promised her of marriage, She didn't give a fuck about wanting the baby lmao.

    you have to be trolling... firstly, it is possible for a woman to die getting an abortion. secondly, idk why you act like letting go of a pregnancy can't be mentally taxing?


    and you're literally just victim blaming. just say you hate women and go, like? you don't know her and you're projecting your own fked views onto her intentions.

    who's your favorite artist?

  • I am pretty sure aborting a baby is way safer than giving breath. You should be thankful to him if you are too worried about her safety.


    she only agreed to abort the baby once he promised her of marriage, She didn't give a fuck about wanting the baby lmao.

    I didn’t know the circus was in the town, but now i know since I have seen the clown

  • they made a mistake, he asked her to abort the baby, because he is not finically stable at the time to take care of her or the baby, she refused and insisted to keep the baby just to bait him to marry her. After he begged her and promised her of marriage, then she goes and abort it. No wonder he dumped her right after. She is petty.

    bs take overall but doesn't she have every right to be :clown: this dude built his image on being a supposedly kind person when he is the complete opposite.

  • you have to be trolling... firstly, it is possible for a woman to die getting an abortion. secondly, idk why you act like letting go of a pregnancy can't be mentally taxing?


    and you're literally just victim blaming. just say you hate women and go, like? you don't know her and you're projecting your own fked views onto her intentions.

    And you are just ignoring the facts and blaming it on misogyny. Just say you hate men and go off.

  • This whole story is a big mess the fact the women gave up on her " baby" for a man says it if she wanted the baby so bad she should have kept it also this dude didn't fucking protection like a normal person would do and he got someone pregnant instead of taking responsibility he used her emotions to lure his gf, also the fact that this women didn't get over their relationships is weird she already found someone else after so why is she clinging into him ? I'm glad that baby never saw the light with parents like this

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  • Her statement… which I guess won’t be shared that much…

    “I’m sorry that my writing seems to have unintentionally caused damage to many people.


    There was a time where [Kim Seon Ho] and I truly loved each other.


    I don’t feel good watching him collapse in the moment due to some of my extreme posts.


    I received an apology from him, and it seems like there were some misunderstandings between us.


    I hope that no more false content will be released and no more details about his and my relationship will be reproduced and spread.


    There is a weight on my mind because this incident seems to have caused a lot of damage to many people.


    I will take this post down soon.”


    That’s why it’s important to not take everything literally, people can exaggerate what happened out of anger or hurt feelings or simply misunderstandings. Especially when it comes to relationships and the couple still had unfinished business.


    I hope both can find their piece of mind someday. But she should have been more careful in her words. Cause what was once said can’t be taken back and has caused damage. People won’t let go so easily.

  • This whole story is a big mess the fact the women gave up on her " baby" for a man says it if she wanted the baby so bad she should have kept it also this dude didn't fucking protection like a normal person would do and he got someone pregnant instead of taking responsibility he used money to lure his gf, also the fact that this women didn't get over their relationships is weird she already found someone else after so why is she clinging into him ? I'm glad that baby never saw the light with parents like this

    Where is this coming from ?


    Wasn’t financial instability the reason she claimed (now we don’t know if that’s what she really meant cause she kinda took back her words) he wanted an abortion ?

  • Either she's threatened to say this or she's crazy if everything is fine why reveal everything that happened between you two and try to ruin his image ?

  • What does being a handmaiden entail?

    The handmaiden tale, Margaret Atwood?

    like one of the biggest feminist literature

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  • I haven't read it. Let's just say I live in a different part of the world and I thought this was a meme that I wasn't aware of or something :pepe-peek:

    I think its becoming a meme bc of the TV show based on it

    Its basically about a futuristic society were civilization dips and there are these women called handmaiden who are incubators for babies of prominent couples

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  • Either she's threatened to say this or she's crazy if everything is fine why reveal everything that happened between you two and try to ruin his image ?

    Read her post carefully, they had misunderstandings. So it’s very possible that she felt a certain way because she thought a certain way and therefore she made that post, and now both were able to clear the misunderstandings so she takes back what she said.


    Two people can tell the same story in a different way, yet both are telling their truth. It really depends on how they took things.

  • 3. [+1,179, -64] Why do these people always only apologize after a scandal has happened? They never cared about apologizing before so is an apology that happens only after a scandal a truly genuine apology?


    :pepe-tea:

    "Don’t judge a book by its cover. Everybody has a reason and everybody has a story. I hope people don’t judge a person based on what they see." Kim Taehyung


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  • damn must be hard being a divorce woman in korea.

    This goes both ways. Learn more about our culture here in Korea. Also most of Asia shares similar sentiments. Being unmarried in the mid 30s or being divorced is seen as a bad omen. This is why people will push to maintain loveless relationships even when they know they should separate. Also why forgieners are called"easy" because if you are unmarried or divorced in your mid 30s or older. Forgieners mostly westerners do not share the same ideals so people in those brackets are desperate to marry so they aren't seen as undersiables or outcasts of society.


    Also why she wanted to marry him at all costs because of the stigma people recieve when unmarried

  • Where is this coming from ?


    Wasn’t financial instability the reason she claimed (now we don’t know if that’s what she really meant cause she kinda took back her words) he wanted an abortion ?

    She is crazy, she keep changing her stories lol.

    your assumptions of her intentions are not facts

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  • Oh, didn't know about this, make a thread about it

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