um.
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so would you feel if you got to know that you were a baby your parents weren't really planning to have..
or more like...
you were a baby who was supposed to be abortioned according to their plans but couldn't for some reason?
does it really change anything? like emotionally?
omg kat
it's 4:48 rn
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and yet you are here pathcode XD
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I think most kids arent planned, just horny one night.
But, ngl if my parents planned to abort me, i would feel a bit sad about it.. even though i know it's not relevant anymore, probably couldn't help but feel that way.
But, my mother had 13 kids, 0 abortions so i didnt have to think about that!lmaooo
yeah it does feel a bot weird after knowing the fact lmao
also 13 kids? damn! you have 12 siblings? woah your family gatherings mist be fun
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I'm so great rn there is no way they are still thinking that
the best mistake of their lives
I found out by accident because someone in my family has no tact and was sad about it for maybe a week . I just had to make a snarky comment about it to my mother (although I didn't let her know that I know, I just told her she should've aborted me )
I do realize how childish and petty it is but now I'm satisfied
seriously though, back then it was just a fetus and there is a big difference between that and how you feel about someone you've spent 20 or so years with, I don't hold it against them because I don't believe that they would feel the same way today.
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Well I've been told by both my parents I'm the only reason why they stayed together when they wanted to break up because I wasn't planned and that they hate each other's guts but are still together lol
It fucks you up emotionally definitely. But just know that YOU are valid. YOU are amazing. YOU are loved. And the world is a better place because YOU exist.
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My mom told me she was going to abort me when I was like 7, all good, she just wanted me to know how her pregnacy was and how scared she was for me, (obviously, she told it for my age) so at some point she thought it was better for everyone to stop the pregnancy. The thing is they couldn't because the doctor said I was too old, if that makes sense, I don't know how to explain it.
I think because I was that little that it didn't affect me much, and I have to agree I would be much more than scared if the pregnancy happened to me too, so I don't have much to say.
One day, I was with my aunts and then they started saying me their sons/daughters weren't planned, I can't remember who was and who wasn't, tbh. But I was like, I don't need to know that
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I was planned. For years. But that doesn't make me a better person, or a happier person, or a more important person. All humans are equally important.
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so would you feel if you got to know that you were a baby your parents weren't really planning to have..
or more like...
you were a baby who was supposed to be abortioned according to their plans but couldn't for some reason?
does it really change anything? like emotionally?
Currently 13, so 5 more years until they say yeetus to the fetus.
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so would you feel if you got to know that you were a baby your parents weren't really planning to have..
or more like...
you were a baby who was supposed to be abortioned according to their plans but couldn't for some reason?
does it really change anything? like emotionally?
me and my brother were the 5th and 6th child. pretty sure we were accidents (lol)but idk really about this one. personally i dont care cause im here.
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Depends... if it were a healthy pregnancy, it wouldn't make a difference to me.
However, the pregnancy with me was quite difficult (I had a twin that didn't develop properly). So I'd feel guilty honestly, if they decided to, then didn't....AND went through all the craziness.
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so would you feel if you got to know that you were a baby your parents weren't really planning to have..
or more like...
you were a baby who was supposed to be abortioned according to their plans but couldn't for some reason?
does it really change anything? like emotionally?
welp- ik for a fact that my mom wish she aborted me
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yeah it does feel a bot weird after knowing the fact lmao
did it happen to you
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Exactly because it's almost 5am that this kind of question crossed her mind
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OMG so many of you replied.. first of all thank you.. and for the whole story if you wanna know.. tagging all those who replied
and not pika saying such sweet words uwu
PATHCODEXO @ripia ekser Pikachu-Senpai Dubucub okeechobee silver25 ArmyBlinkOnce0 @dummi NineMusesMinha anat4ever selfmate anime114 kddicted sveznalica @Sweet-Spice
So I recently went to visit my maternal grandma as she wanted to meet me and gift me something.. I went there with my mom and while I was busy with something I heard her mention to my mom how my dad wanted to abort me... and when I asked my mom about it, she wasnt willing to tell at first but she gave up cause I kept asking lmao..
So my Dad wanted me aborted because my brother was only 1 year 11 months older than me and he thought they both won't be able to handle another baby that time.. me being born also kinda forced my mom to quit her job cause it was too hard and she never got back to working again.. So my dad was pretty much bugging my mom to have me aborted but somehow they ended up having me (most probably cause of medical conditions) .. tbh my life has really been turning up and down these days with so much stuff and so many new things are coming up I am so overwhelmed by everything... at first when I heard it my mind kind of shut out of it because I was busy with a project bu7t now that its done and I finally have a little bit of time to think, I suddenly felt a bit weird lol
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so would you feel if you got to know that you were a baby your parents weren't really planning to have..
or more like...
you were a baby who was supposed to be abortioned according to their plans but couldn't for some reason?
does it really change anything? like emotionally?
I was a mistake. I laugh about it.
Edit: that's a really straightforward approach. It's more like they are loving to me now so I don't care what was on their minds decades ago
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OwO true.. but still lol this gonna wander in my mind for some time ig
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OMG so many of you replied.. first of all thank you.. and for the whole story if you wanna know.. tagging all those who replied
and not pika saying such sweet words uwu
PATHCODEXO @ripia ekser Pikachu-Senpai Dubucub okeechobee silver25 ArmyBlinkOnce0 @dummi NineMusesMinha anat4ever selfmate anime114 kddicted sveznalica @Sweet-Spice
So I recently went to visit my maternal grandma as she wanted to meet me and gift me something.. I went there with my mom and while I was busy with something I heard her mention to my mom how my dad wanted to abort me... and when I asked my mom about it, she wasnt willing to tell at first but she gave up cause I kept asking lmao..
So my Dad wanted me aborted because my brother was only 1 year 11 months older than me and he thought they both won't be able to handle another baby that time.. me being born also kinda forced my mom to quit her job cause it was too hard and she never got back to working again.. So my dad was pretty much bugging my mom to have me aborted but somehow they ended up having me (most probably cause of medical conditions) .. tbh my life has really been turning up and down these days with so much stuff and so many new things are coming up I am so overwhelmed by everything... at first when I heard it my mind kind of shut out of it because I was busy with a project bu7t now that its done and I finally have a little bit of time to think, I suddenly felt a bit weird lol
you are most likely going to feel a bit sad about it for a while (and that is completely oki, you shouldn't feel bad for feeling sad) but the most important thing to remember is that it has been 20 years since then and that they grew to love the person you are today
you are their precious child and I am sure that they would insist on having you if they could turn back in time with what they know about you today
it was grandmother who spoiled it for me too, grandmothers usually have good intentions but no tact at all
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you are most likely going to feel a bit sad about it for a while (and that is completely oki, you shouldn't feel bad for feeling sad) but the most important thing to remember is that it has been 20 years since then and that they grew to love the person you are today
you are their precious child and I am sure that they would insist on having you if they could turn back in time with what they know about you today
it was grandmother who spoiled it for me too, grandmothers usually have good intentions but no tact at all
Lmaooo grandmothers have no fear in life... they really drop truth bombs in my family from time to time
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Lmaoooo
okay glad I am not dead atleast
interesting point though....
can one be considered 'dead' if one was never alive to begin with?
unless of course one considers being alive at point of conception...hmmm
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interesting point though....
can one be considered 'dead' if one was never alive to begin with?
unless of course one considers being alive at point of conception...hmmm
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ah yes selfmate turning e everything into a philosophical question about (literally) life and death lol
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My father and my mum weren't even sleeping together for like half a year during that time but one night it somehow happened and my father did it on purpose, if you know what I mean, so my mum had another baby and wouldn't divorce him...so here I am oh gosh...after 4 years she did divorce him anyway and now he gives zero shit about me yikes
I think I could go on with my life without knowing this but oh well thanks mum for oversharing
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OMG so many of you replied.. first of all thank you.. and for the whole story if you wanna know.. tagging all those who replied
and not pika saying such sweet words uwu
PATHCODEXO @ripia ekser Pikachu-Senpai Dubucub okeechobee silver25 ArmyBlinkOnce0 @dummi NineMusesMinha anat4ever selfmate anime114 kddicted sveznalica @Sweet-Spice
So I recently went to visit my maternal grandma as she wanted to meet me and gift me something.. I went there with my mom and while I was busy with something I heard her mention to my mom how my dad wanted to abort me... and when I asked my mom about it, she wasnt willing to tell at first but she gave up cause I kept asking lmao..
So my Dad wanted me aborted because my brother was only 1 year 11 months older than me and he thought they both won't be able to handle another baby that time.. me being born also kinda forced my mom to quit her job cause it was too hard and she never got back to working again.. So my dad was pretty much bugging my mom to have me aborted but somehow they ended up having me (most probably cause of medical conditions) .. tbh my life has really been turning up and down these days with so much stuff and so many new things are coming up I am so overwhelmed by everything... at first when I heard it my mind kind of shut out of it because I was busy with a project bu7t now that its done and I finally have a little bit of time to think, I suddenly felt a bit weird lol
It must've been confusing for you, for me, I think since it's not a thing I could control, I don't think much about it. My parents has treated me well ever since I was born, and I also get how their first pregnancy was that complicated and scary so I think their thoughts were justified.
If your parents love you now, then I think that's what should matter at the end.
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Neither my sister or I were planned as was the case with my daughter but my parents gave me the most wonderful childhood and doted on me. Likewise with my daughter I have been the best mother I can be for her and given her the best life she could imagine. She is a very happy and confident woman and that’s the way I was raised to be by my parents. They are both gone now but I love and miss them so much. Not being planned made no difference at all.
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Planned or not planned, all that matters is if they raised you with love. Your existence matters just as much as those who were planned.
Unwanted pregnancies can turn a lot around and sometimes upcoming parents have to make a tough decision. As long as they didn’t made you feel unwanted, you shouldn’t think to much about it.
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so would you feel if you got to know that you were a baby your parents weren't really planning to have..
or more like...
you were a baby who was supposed to be abortioned according to their plans but couldn't for some reason?
does it really change anything? like emotionally?
I was born much later than my bother so like I was definitely unplanned. My mother wanted to abort me actually because she had a lot of difficulty giving birth the first time and was afraid I or she wouldn’t survive.
But well the doctor refused to abort me after hearing my mom’s reason. And then I was born. And we both lived.
I think parents sentiments after birth is more important than the one before. They don’t have to necessarily be the same.
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i lowkey wouldnt care (probably? you never know)
actually the doctors told my mom to abort me bc it would be safer for her but she was like nah
she should have just aborted meJKJKJK -
I was born much later than my bother so like I was definitely unplanned. My mother wanted to abort me actually because she had a lot of difficulty giving birth the first time and was afraid I or she wouldn’t survive.
But well the doctor refused to abort me after hearing my mom’s reason. And then I was born. And we both lived.
I think parents sentiments after birth is more important than the one before. They don’t have to necessarily be the same.
omg.. woah
yeah true, I never really felt they loved me any less after I was born so there's that
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My father and my mum weren't even sleeping together for like half a year during that time but one night it somehow happened and my father did it on purpose, if you know what I mean, so my mum had another baby and wouldn't divorce him...so here I am oh gosh...after 4 years she did divorce him anyway and now he gives zero shit about me yikes
I think I could go on with my life without knowing this but oh well thanks mum for oversharing
lmao seriously I though that I would go on without knowing too but I guess knowing things also atleast shows me their situation
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