Have you felt insecure about your looks?

  • Well... sometimes when I look into the mirror, I see a beautiful person, other times not.

    I sometimes have looked at my flaws, like pimples and stuff. I know that pimples are stuff that can go away if you eat stuff that aren't greasy and stuff.

    I also have kinda bushy eyebrows and don't know how to make them look neat.


    I feel like I'm prettier when I wear makeup. Even though I'm not that great of a makeup artist.


    Whenever I take selfies, I don't think I always look that good.

    I prefer how I look in the mirror kinda.


    I have kinda felt like I'm not that attractive or at least not the kind of person that people crush on.

    Like I don't feel like guys have looked at me and been thinking "Wow, I wish I was her boyfriend"



    But I have sometimes had the random thoughts about becoming a model or being in a beauty pageant.

    Which I guess shows how I'm not that insecure about my appearance.



    I think I have been insecure about other things rather than my appearance.

    Like when I went to college, I was insecure about my intelligence and felt like I wasn't good enough.

  • all the time, and certain situations didn't help that.


    there are some times i feel really good about myself and I look great in the mirror and other days i'm like


    meh who the f cares going to work coming home and sleeping lol

  • You are not alone. I am very certain everyone has felt insecure at one time or another in their life. My dad told all through high school that "Confidence is attractive". I never got the chance to try that out until college and then it was "fake it until you make it" - which had its own issues cause there is the pitfall of overcompensating to look "cool". Think the edgelords on twitter. No one needs to go there.


    Real confidence is accepting yourself and being comfortable in your own skin, not putting down others to make yourself "feel" better.


  • Every single day of my life. I've never been happy with my face or my body, I prefer wearing lots of makeup and dieting a lot. I don't like my natural bareface, I rarely look in the mirror these days. It's not that I hate myself, I'm just very self-critical of my face and body.

    Just for you to know, you are not alone <3

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  • I have kinda felt like I'm not that attractive or at least not the kind of person that people crush on.

    Like I don't feel like guys have looked at me and been thinking "Wow, I wish I was her boyfriend"

    Trust me, even if you have 10 guys simping for you, you will still feel insecure. That's why even the greatest and prettiest celebs/Idols think of themselves as ugly. Because in reality, there is someone else that you want to be loved and admired by, which is yourself

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  • Used to be about my face, now it's my body and significantly worse

    One tip: stop watching as much K-Pop content, esp fancams and stuff

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  • If I think about it, I would change a lot... like my bushy eyebrows and huuuge and dark under eye bags and my really short legs etc etc etc


    But if insecure is taking other people into account, I never compare myself to others and I tend to forget about my appearance anyway (because my worst insecurity is having conversations).

  • I used to be pretty insecure when I first started puberty. I also have OCD and that made it a million times worse. I had to learn to just stop caring what other people think. It's way easier said than done, I know.


    Now nobody can tell me that I'm not the baddest, finest bitch in the room because I believe that I am (and usually I am). I still obsess an unhealthy amount over the little things (to the point where I hardly wear makeup anymore because I can never get it "perfect" and it stresses me out).

  • Most days I'm fine with how I look and some days I even wake up feeling pretty, then there are days I look in the mirror and I hate my face. Last time that happened my sister told me out of the blue that I was pretty, I didn't really believe her at the time (I thought she was trying to butter me up to get me to do something for her lol) but it still made me feel better. I try to remember on days that I feel ugly that this is only temporary and I'll feel better about myself soon


    It's gotten much better over time, in my teens the image I had of myself was so much worse and I really wasn't as confident, good friends helped a lot too

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  • Yes, and sometimes I do.

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