Would you rather be out right rejected or ghosted?

I think I would rather be rejected.

My preference is rejected, but reality is that ghosted is more comfortable for a lot of people, so I tend to assume rejection. Not in an Eeyore "why doesn't anyone like meeeeee" kind of way, but just in a realistic: a lot of people submit apps for one opening, you don't know who the other contenders are, submit and assume you'll never hear anything again.

It's easier to move on mentally if you're not mentally hung up on playing through all the scenarios. Pretend it's been decided and you won't hear anything else, and move on to what you would normally do.

Rejected. If I do get ghosted it will give me a reason to spam this song everywhere though...

"Hi AKP, my manager left my request for a raise on seen..."

rejected, being ghosted sucks even more than being rejected

I always get ghosted so I think I'd like to try getting rejected outright for a change.

rejection. reject me you cowards

i hate ghosting, it always pisses me off. i try to be honest with people bc it's imo it's better to hurt someone's feelings than leave them not knowing

Ghosting is more annoying, like come on bitch I don't wanna wait just give me an answer.

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I always get ghosted so I think I'd like to try getting rejected outright for a change.

u just got ghosted.

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Rejected. If I do get ghosted it will give me a reason to spam this song everywhere though...

"Hi AKP, my manager left my request for a raise on seen..."

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u just got ghosted.

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me when listening to this song:

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rejection so i can move on quicker

Just reject me. Don't be a lil bitch. Give it to me straight

REJECT ME PLEASE

I CAN"T HIRE YET ANOTHER EXORCIST

but seriously I need to know or I'm left wondering forever until I forgot that I even applied in the first place. Edit: this goes for relationships too but I don't forget, I have to kinda make my own judgement call on if she didn't see it or even read it or said naw I'm not going to reply.

For a job, I don't mind being ghosted. Most times, when I apply for a job, I assume I am not going to get it, so I don't think too much of it if I don't hear back. When I'm job hunting, I'm applying to like 10 to 15 jobs a week, not hearing back is normal for me. I just keep it pushing.

Being ghosted in a personal relationship is something else though. I hate that with a passion. My boyfriend of 6 months ghosted me about a month ago. Have no idea if that asshole is alive or dead. It's one thing when a person who doesn't even know me ignores me and falls off the face of the Earth. It's another when we've built a connection and you ghost me a few days before we were supposed to go on a date.

I am going to go with the context of relationships, cus a girl can dream.

I would rather be out right rejected, because when I think of ghosted, I think of someone promising to go on a date with you but then they don't show up and you realize they never liked you in the first place.

I feel like that promise of going on a date would have my hopes really high, so when it crumbles down, it's gonna hurt more. But when it comes to confessing, one of the things you expect is rejection, so even if it hurts, it hurts less.