@@@37a6ef68-d1ce-481e-9e76-e9dc5b68c869@@@ if your boyfriend/girlfriend was extremely obsessed with an anime character/kpop idol and spent all their day on them and barely a bit with you, fantasized about romantic/sexual stuff with them without shame, and clearly not into them just for the story/music ?
and note its not like they like porn/hentai, they are specifically fantasizing about this one man/woman