Kpop fandoms are full of hypocrites? Giselle should be under fire or not? Who to blame?

  • Who we should blame? 25

    1. No one, it's not that deep (16) 64%
    2. Both (6) 24%
    3. The Idols (IF they're old enough!) (2) 8%
    4. The company (1) 4%

    Another interesting topic to discuss, I missed out on this one, because I didn't want to see or hear anything about the new aespa comeback.


    I'm not gonna say anything, because it doesn't matter anyway, but it's interesting to see the response from Kpop stans to say the least. Somehow, mainstream Kpop always gets a free pass.


    So, who to blame? Kpop fans are hypocrites? Is it SM's or Giselle's fault? This ain't her first rodeo, btw, and she's not a kid anymore. Read comments and qrts, but I think the problem is obvious.


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  • I think some of you need to stop using black people hairstyle as a weapon in your revenge or stupid fanwar

    While not knowing anything about black people hairstyle


    But you doesn't care at all about the discussion about cultural appropriation etc...


    Cuz you actually just have to actually look at the solo picture she took and zoom on the pictures


    And not look at a picture from far away to push a narrative


    To actually see that it's not braids but twisted hair with gel


    You can clearly see the twist in her hair here


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  • I doubt she has input in what hairstyles to have.

    Don't the stylists usually plan and do it themselves????

    So if anyone's to blame, maybe it should be directed at the stylists' and production teams.


    So, my vote went to The Company.

  • what I learnt throught the years was that at one time black people complained if person had cornrows/braids which were starting on the scalp


    here Giselle doesn't have hairstyle like that, and it also seems her hair was twisted and hairstyle was created with lots of gel


    therefore I conclude she ain't guilty

  • I think people might be not be able to fully perceive what our highly esteemed scholar and intellectual, David, is suggesting with the way he set the narrative for this thread.


    That being the case, I'll read between the lines and clarify for him.


    David is implying it's hypocritical that Giselle isn't getting canceled or attacked by K-Pop stans for cultural appropriation, attributing it to her being an idol from a big company, while Kiss of Life were widely criticized and canceled for their incident.


    It's almost like someone (me) here has been saying for months that this man hasn't learned his lesson from those Kiss of Life threads.


    Do we really need a multi-faceted breakdown of the reasons why people might not treat these two things the same?

    tl;dr: "Why don't all the black K-Pop fans get mad about this too?!" is what he really wants to say.


    I expect nothing less.

  • It'd be ridiculous, and Giselle has dedicated haters since before the N word incident, he shouldn't worry about that


    Also non big 3 groups like Loona or Idle did cultural appropriation before and weren't as attacked as Kiof before. Why? Maybe Kiof did something worse than culture appropriation, like a birthday party with a race as cosplay as a theme, idk... :meme-waiting:

  • Black K-pop fans have voiced their displeasure about this. The outrage isn’t coming from only performative, toxic fans. Let’s be honest here.

  • This is a case of you seeing only what you want to see. There’s a ton of backlash towards Giselle about this.


    It’s just that Kiss of Life was caught on camera, on a live stream, doing what they did while taking credit for what they did.


    When it comes to styling controversies, idols have the stylist and the company as a shield in a sense. Of course they wouldn’t go down as hard for it.


    Cultural appropriation in hairstyle or clothing for a concept isn’t comparable to acting out a caricature out of one’s own volition. The double standard you’re speaking of simply isn’t there.

  • Black K-pop fans have voiced their displeasure about this. The outrage isn’t coming from only performative, toxic fans. Let’s be honest here.

    Some have voiced their displeasure but a mast majority of people are defending her for not wearing braids and finding this attempt at bringing her hate stupid


    And a big part of black kpop fans are actually mad at people throwing the "black hairstyle" at argument for everything and nothing

    While not being able to recognize a true hairstyle and mad at our culture being "stereotype"

  • I doubt she has input in what hairstyles to have.

    Don't the stylists usually plan and do it themselves????

    So if anyone's to blame, maybe it should be directed at the stylists' and production teams.


    So, my vote went to The Company.

    I don't disagree, BUT that's why I add "if the Idol is old enough" they should be blamed as well. She's not a kid anymore, she knows what's about to happen, and Idols need to speak up, because it's their career, not the hair stylists'.

  • Just dropping by to ask David what hypocrisy he believes is occurring. Please expound.

    Isn't it obvious? Kpop fans (not just one fandom) usually protecting their faves even if they do something they shouldn't do, and I'm not talking about CA alone. We've seen Idols doing really weird shit, and many of their fans tried to make excuses. NOT EVERY FAN, obviously, but still, and at the same time, the same fans going on like crazy and attacking other Idols for the same or less.


    That's why I said they're hypocrite, but to be fair, people are like this in general, not just Kpop fans. So, the hypocrite part isn't really about Giselle.


    That's not what I was saying at all, but I'm not surprised you didn't get it.😂


    But the fact is, BIG4 groups can get away with much worse than small agency groups because they bring more money. Ergo, it's hypocrisy!

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  • Mate, I'm not talking about Twitter or Tiktok. Those platforms are full of haters and toxic idiots anyway.


    The fact is, KIOF was banned from KCON for a good reason, meanwhile Jane Porter's husband can run around in the US wearing cornrows without being canceled. BP members still didn't apologize for what they did. To be fair, Young Posse members didn't apologize either, but the problematic ones are underage, so it's all on the agency.


    I agree about the last part. Concepts aren't the same what KIOF or Tarzzan kid did and still doing every day, basically, but if people draw a line, people will use it a loophole.

  • Mate, I'm not talking about Twitter or Tiktok. Those platforms are full of haters and toxic idiots anyway.


    The fact is, KIOF was banned from KCON for a good reason, meanwhile Jane Porter's husband can run around in the US wearing cornrows without being canceled. BP members still didn't apologize for what they did. To be fair, Young Posse members didn't apologize either, but the problematic ones are underage, so it's all on the agency.


    I agree about the last part. Concepts aren't the same what KIOF or Tarzzan kid did and still doing every day, basically, but if people draw a line, people will use it a loophole.

    Why's the narrative "KIOF got banned from KCON"? A lot of K-pop fans have these very extreme takes when, realistically, it was probably a mutual decision between their company and KCON.


    Or when an idol chooses to leave a company, fans keep saying the idol got kicked out. In reality, it's a lot more nuanced than that. Not every news story needs to be sensationalized to the extreme. Real life isn't K-drama. A lot of international K-pop fans see Korean people through a K-drama lens.


    Until we stop seeing things in black and white, we can't see these issues for what they are.

  • I don't think we can compare this to what KIOF did, if that's what you're trying to do. There's of course different levels in what people are willing to tolerate.


    Also, I don't like when kpop fans try to weaponize black people's culture and feelings to attack another idol/groip. It's tiring when kpop fans do that because most don't actually care about black people's feelings or others issues, so why weaponize it to get people to attack an idol?


    As for Giselle, I just think they set her up because I don't think they worked as hard on her as compared to the other members. Unsure what their vision was, but they didn't deliver.

  • I don't think we can compare this to what KIOF did, if that's what you're trying to do. There's of course different levels in what people are willing to tolerate.


    Also, I don't like when kpop fans try to weaponize black people's culture and feelings to attack another idol/groip. It's tiring when kpop fans do that because most don't actually care about black people's feelings or others issues, so why weaponize it to get people to attack an idol?


    As for Giselle, I just think they set her up because I don't think they worked as hard on her as compared to the other members. Unsure what their vision was, but they didn't deliver.

    Yeah, also people or Kcon have the right to boycott what they want even if someone doesn't agree with it.


    As long as they aren't harassed or receive death threats for it, ofc. Kiof "cancelling" was the Kcon thing and fan accounts closing from what I know.

  • Shut up, David.


    No one owns an exclusive trademark on a hairstyle, and thinking you do is just ignorant. What's more, this isn't even the hairstyle people get so uppity about, making your rage bait look even dumber.

  • Mate, I'm not talking about Twitter or Tiktok. Those platforms are full of haters and toxic idiots anyway.


    The fact is, KIOF was banned from KCON for a good reason, meanwhile Jane Porter's husband can run around in the US wearing cornrows without being canceled. BP members still didn't apologize for what they did. To be fair, Young Posse members didn't apologize either, but the problematic ones are underage, so it's all on the agency.


    I agree about the last part. Concepts aren't the same what KIOF or Tarzzan kid did and still doing every day, basically, but if people draw a line, people will use it a loophole.

    There is always a line duh. What the fuck are you even talking about. Otherwise we wouldn’t even have law. Law so literally about drawing the line and deciding the “punishment” based on what line is crossed that’s literally how society works. By drawing lines.


    If you can’t see the line then actually that’s when you’re a bigot.


    Mocking a culture outright on live is nothing compared to cultural appropriation.


    Giselle is getting appropriate backlash for her “crime” (so to speak) which is nothing compared to kiof.

  • wow who cares. it's just a hairstyle. black people try to use white hairstyles all the time. anyone can do anything


    First of all “white” isn’t a culture. Second of all things like straightening your hair doesn’t get you fired from jobs nor were they used as caricatures in media for decades to dehumanize anyone.


    Shut the fuck up if you don’t know or understand issues instead of looking like a raging bigot.

  • Why's the narrative "KIOF got banned from KCON"? A lot of K-pop fans have these very extreme takes when, realistically, it was probably a mutual decision between their company and KCON.


    Or when an idol chooses to leave a company, fans keep saying the idol got kicked out. In reality, it's a lot more nuanced than that. Not every news story needs to be sensationalized to the extreme. Real life isn't K-drama. A lot of international K-pop fans see Korean people through a K-drama lens.


    Until we stop seeing things in black and white, we can't see these issues for what they are.

    That's not the point here, and KIOF is just the latest example. To be honest, they're the only example because I don't remember if any other Kpop group got banned for doing something like that. So, it's not like I can mention anyone else.


    If you think it was mutual, you're naive, it's like when celebs say: "Our divorce were a mutual decision." Nonsense. Just like divorce, these things are not mutual, like ever. Kcon probably said to S2: "Sorry, but you're not in the line-up because it can affect our brand, and we can lose a lot of money." So, S2 doesn't have a choice, it's not like they can say: "No, we won't do that, we want KIOF to perform at KCON." KCON probably give them some money, because of the contracts, but that's all.


    When an Idol leaves a group or kicked out is a different story but similar in terms of they don't have a choice, because the company have to do what the majority of people want.


    I think this topic should be black and white. If CA have levels, so you can do some things without being canceled, people will find a loophole, as I said. In my opinion, what KIOF did and what ADP's Tarzzan doing for YEARS is not much different.


    People can disagree, but my opinion won't change.

  • I don't think we can compare this to what KIOF did, if that's what you're trying to do. There's of course different levels in what people are willing to tolerate.


    Also, I don't like when kpop fans try to weaponize black people's culture and feelings to attack another idol/groip. It's tiring when kpop fans do that because most don't actually care about black people's feelings or others issues, so why weaponize it to get people to attack an idol?


    As for Giselle, I just think they set her up because I don't think they worked as hard on her as compared to the other members. Unsure what their vision was, but they didn't deliver.

    No, that's not what I was trying to do, I didn't compare this Giselle issue with anyone for that matter. It's just an example of SOME people find this a problematic thing, and some say it's nothing special and not even a CA.


    My thread's main topic is basically me asking you all what you think, which side you are on. That's all, nothing else.


    I agree about the 2nd part of your comment, that's why I said Kpop fans (and people in general) are hypocrites.


    I don't believe in this "set her up" statements btw, because as I said, even if this isn't a CA, her styling is a mess, but she's not a kid anymore, she's 24 I think, she could say: "I don't like this, I don't want to wear this, I don't like the hairstyle, and it can be problematic for some people."


    Now, we're never gonna know if she said all these things and SME as usual just said: "Do what we're asking, and shut up." or she never said anything. That's why this part of my thread is just hypothetical.

  • Shut up, David.


    No one owns an exclusive trademark on a hairstyle, and thinking you do is just ignorant. What's more, this isn't even the hairstyle people get so uppity about, making your rage bait look even dumber.

    Talk to me when you actually know what rage bait is.


    Go, argue with people who say the opposite of your statement.

  • That's what I'm saying, there's a line and people say KIOF crossed it, but not BP, not Tarzzan, not Giselle and so many other Idols. That's why I'm saying, there's a loophole, because there are things you can do even if it's CA and there are things you can't. I didn't compare anyone with KIOF btw, but as I said above, it's not like I can mention anyone else who were banned.


    Imo, anyone who did a CA crossed the line and should be treated the same way as KIOF. ESPECIALLY if they didn't even apologize!

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