(Trigger Warning) : Telling Your Fave Idol On WEVERSE That You Wanna Unalive Yourself & Been Chopping It Up...

This sounds cold and harsh af but...

The idols/mods on weverse should just delete those posts. No response. Just remove them immediately.

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how yall feel about this

It's a shit thing to do and everyone who does this should feel ashamed. The idols are NOT your hero, Savior etc. They are normal people like you and they too have their own problems, both physical and mental to deal with in their own lives. Kpop is NOT therapy go get some actual fuckin help! Go see a doctor!!! Or a therapist who's trained in suicide/crisis management.

Trauma dumping is always bad, you are giving people things they now have to carry that may negatively affect their own lives, your fave should not feel responsible for your own life. Stop doing this shit

Between the idol/fans interaction there is clearly a line that shouldn't be crossed and this comment crashed that line.

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crazy, because theres so many fans who has openly admitted on Twitter that they go to their faves Instagram DM and "write down their problems + insecurities", because it helps them release and maybe their fave will "see one day".

the whole thing is psycho.

Those c🤡🤡🤡 need therapy. I have noticed this trend waaay tooo many invested/overly emotional fans in kpop and act like their life depends on it and I know why? Because they use this as therapy when they should seek legitimate real help. Kpop won't cure your depression or fix your health. This is something YOU as a person must do yourself and with the help of professionals NOT a kpop idol. A hard pill some people don't want to swallow is your mental health in some part requires YOU to actually want a change, no amount of help will make you change if you don't want to. Like the old saying." You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink regardless of how thirsty it is" it has to willingly drink it

Why mentally ill people always want to trauma dump on strangers...

Quote from ThePhantomThief

This sounds cold and harsh af but...

The idols/mods on weverse should just delete those posts. No response. Just remove them immediately.

Mmm, they should put an automatic message recommending seek professional help. Also some phone lines against suicide. Then hide or delete this posts.

Quote from OnceMidzy4ever

Mmm, they should put an automatic message recommendig seek professional help. Also some phone lines against suicide. Then hide or delete this posts.

Yeah true!

Either way, not engage personally at all

I also get sceptical of this kind of message from some fans as its dangerously manipulative. It's trying to force the idol to give them attention, much the same as an emotionally abusive partner threatens self harm if a partner/object of their affection ever leaves them...

"I love you so much, if you break up with me I'll k**l myself"

It's awful, manipulative behaviour and I am always a bit sceptical of seeing people use it, it seems weaponised.

"Trauma dumping" LOL

I can't. I just can't.

Kids these days are more concerned with avoiding being "triggered" by everything than they are with being empathetic to those experiencing the ugly side of life. Everything has to have a "trigger warning," because they'd rather be blissfully ignorant. Saying you're "triggered" is like closing your eyes & putting your fingers in your ears and saying "la la la la I can't hear you." Grow up. If reading stuff like this genuinely causes that strong of an emotional reaction, then the person who wrote it is not the only one in serious need of professional help (and yes, that means you need to get off the Internet, just for starters. Don't ask others to help if you're unwilling to help yourself.)

That being said, there's really no point in posting this sort of thing on such a platform, unless you truly have NO ONE in your life who can help and you think telling some random celebrity about it is your best option. Unless they're unusually empathetic, they're not going to reach out to you, and even if they do, it's no substitute for a support system of people you actually know and can depend on, even if it's literally just a mental health professional.

Quote from OnceMidzy4ever

Mmm, they should put an automatic message recommending seek professional help. Also some phone lines against suicide. Then hide or delete this posts.

Thank you! As much as I am against trauma dumping and pushing the parasocial relationship this far, some of the replies seem too cold for me. I don't think they'd ever do it but it's a great idea.

Like they shouldn't do that but there are people that actually needs help, not all are psychopaths or manipulative. They are just seeking help the wrong way.

permaban that account. Idols are not your therapist and the company should not tolerate shit like this on their site at least with discussions Wirth their idols. Ban this person. They should get help in real life it's not the job of idols to deal with this shit.

It's unfair to the idol to be made to feel responsible for the mental health of a complete stranger. They're artists, not crisis counselors. You can find comfort in their music and their words but it's so inappropriate to ask for a personal psychiatric intervention in this way. In my opinion.