Why people love to normalise creep?

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What happened?

making inappropriate jokes about me or my body, touching me without asking if I was okay with, one guys I dated literally followed me around school like yea sure we can walk to class or whatever but he´d walk with me EVERYWHERE except the bathroom of course, one guy I dated literally ignored me then got mad at me for calling him out on being toxic and wanting to break up with him. Every time I dated a girl or any other gender, I never had these problems. Except the inappropriate jokes those never seem to go away

ye ik, i’ve seen it on the news and it’s disgusting. I don’t really get how they “can’t control themselves”? like what are you, animals? I don’t think most males are like that (at least i really hope so) and it’s only the very small deplorable minority doing that shiitake tho.

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making inappropriate jokes

This is what I'm trying to fix about myself and it's really hard I literally just made an inappropriate joke a couple of threads ago I bet she hates me now T_T Don't hate me haoluvr

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making inappropriate jokes about me or my body, touching me without asking if I was okay with, one guys I dated literally followed me around school like yea sure we can walk to class or whatever but he´d walk with me EVERYWHERE except the bathroom of course, one guy I dated literally ignored me then got mad at me for calling him out on being toxic and wanting to break up with him. Every time I dated a girl or any other gender, I never had these problems. Except the inappropriate jokes those never seem to go away

babes that is actually horrible, are you okay?

It’s so freaking creepy when you get a stalker, like my friend had one and he was so obsessed (like he’d follow her around school, deliberately sit next to her whenever he could, stare at her the whole lesson). I’m not even kidding, one of the girls in my group straight up told him to f off because my friend got so uncomfortable.

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babes that is actually horrible, are you okay?

It’s so freaking creepy when you get a stalker, like my friend had one and he was so obsessed (like he’d follow her around school, deliberately sit next to her whenever he could, stare at her the whole lesson). I’m not even kidding, one of the girls in my group straight up told him to f off because my friend got so uncomfortable.

I´m okay. I´m sorry that your friend had to go through that its seriously so scary. At the time I was dating my ex, we lived in the same Apartment complex so he could show up at my door whenever he wanted or try to talk to me through my window. I was so scared of that luckily he never showed up to my house but he did wave at me a couple times when I was looking out my window, which is mostly innocent but thinking about it is just weird compared to the other things he did.

This thread is so weird and the title doesn't even match with the first sentence. What a way to give us a warning...

The way some men are proud of being "manly" and saying they are animal with uncontrollable desires is just ew.

Like ok go sit in the zoo then. There's no place for them in civilised society.

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The way some men are proud of being "manly" and saying they are animal with uncontrollable desires is just ew.

Like ok go sit in the zoo then. There's no place for them in civilised society.

EXACTLY

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I´m okay. I´m sorry that your friend had to go through that its seriously so scary. At the time I was dating my ex, we lived in the same Apartment complex so he could show up at my door whenever he wanted or try to talk to me through my window. I was so scared of that luckily he never showed up to my house but he did wave at me a couple times when I was looking out my window, which is mostly innocent but thinking about it is just weird compared to the other things he did.

yikes...he clearly hadn’t gotten over that break up, you’re probably too wonderful for him (you’re out of his league)

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yikes...he clearly hadn’t gotten over that break up, you’re probably too wonderful for him (you’re out of his league)

well about that.. I can´t say I´m innocent in the relationship either. I only dated him because he was my friend and he asked me out, I knew this would happen like three days before it did happen. I told my friend I was gonna say yes because, why not? Yea, I broke up with him after a week, turns out I´m not that into guys and I never liked him to begin with. Plus he got over it quick, he was one of those guys to have a crush on a girl, get rejected, go through a depressive stage, then start all over again. I remember when I broke up with him he was mad at first but forgave me since I did apologize and we were cool afterwards. He moved away like two years ago by now but jeez that was my first boyfriend experience

I have a lot of interesting stories about my love life and idek why

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well about that.. I can´t say I´m innocent in the relationship either. I only dated him because he was my friend and he asked me out, I knew this would happen like three days before it did happen. I told my friend I was gonna say yes because, why not? Yea, I broke up with him after a week, turns out I´m not that into guys and I never liked him to begin with. Plus he got over it quick, he was one of those guys to have a crush on a girl, get rejected, go through a depressive stage, then start all over again. I remember when I broke up with him he was mad at first but forgave me since I did apologize and we were cool afterwards. He moved away like two years ago by now but jeez that was my first boyfriend experience

I have a lot of interesting stories about my love life and idek why

OMG WHAT MY FRIEND DID THAT EXACT SAME THING! She was cruel though, the guy was so into her but istg no one else liked him (he had the personality of a literal piece of cardboard, i’m not even lying he was nice but SO SO BORING). She dragged it on for around...2 months and dropped him. I feel bad for him honestly, but it got so annoying when he sat with us every day bc no one wanted him there (again, i feel bad for him but he needed to go away). He no jk dropped everything to sit with her every lunch (did he even have friends? Yes he did but he ditched them for a good month).

He avoids her like the plague now, i’m not even kidding it’s ridiculous. We’ll walk past and he’s jump a full 180 degrees the other way. I can understand why he does that, he was crazy obsessed with her but he needs to chill (it’s been a year and he’s still doing that, i don’t think he goth over it).

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OMG WHAT MY FRIEND DID THAT EXACT SAME THING! She was cruel though, the guy was so into her but istg no one else liked him (he had the personality of a literal piece of cardboard, i’m not even lying he was nice but SO SO BORING). She dragged it on for around...2 months and dropped him. I feel bad for him honestly, but it got so annoying when he sat with us every day bc no one wanted him there (again, i feel bad for him but he needed to go away). He no jk dropped everything to sit with her every lunch (did he even have friends? Yes he did but he ditched them for a good month).

He avoids her like the plague now, i’m not even kidding it’s ridiculous. We’ll walk past and he’s jump a full 180 degrees the other way. I can understand why he does that, he was crazy obsessed with her but he needs to chill (it’s been a year and he’s still doing that, i don’t think he goth over it).

Dang, at least I felt bad and cut it off before anything more could happen But that guy was also pretty boring. When I´d ask him things he likes he´d just respond with whatever it is that I liked. Like sure I get what you´re trying to do what it won´t work on me.

But yea your friend´ś ex is definitely still not over it. I feel bad for him but okay dude it was last year

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Dang, at least I felt bad and cut it off before anything more could happen But that guy was also pretty boring. When I´d ask him things he likes he´d just respond with whatever it is that I liked. Like sure I get what you´re trying to do what it won´t work on me.

But yea your friend´ś ex is definitely still not over it. I feel bad for him but okay dude it was last year

guy needs to calm his farm and move on already...i think my friend just loved the prospect of someone liking her, he never had a chance but he gave her a confidence boost and that made her feel good

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guy needs to calm his farm and move on already...i think my friend just loved the prospect of someone liking her, he never had a chance but he gave her a confidence boost and that made her feel good

Yea I think I had that same problem at the time. When I found out he liked me my confidence was through the roof and I thought having a boyfriend like him could be fun. It wasn´t

Some men have no self control, it's disgusting

Some guys think girls exist to be wooed and touched up by them

We aren't play toys