i dont think bullying scandals are about fights and arguments but legit bullying/targetting specific people for a long time pushing them into depression
I have the feeling that your past as a bully isn't the main reason you can't be an idol.
I have the feeling that your past as a bully isn't the main reason you can't be an idol.
Okay, Miss Congeniality.
If you want to be an idol you have to make sure to go to all the victims and apologize sincerely in person and they have to accept your apology, so you can start clean cause if you leave things like this in the past, they will come bak to haunt you when you get popular.
I was really a bad kid in kindergarten. Everytime somebody in class annoyed me, I just swat them in the face with my open palm. Mother had to come to school a couple times because of this penchant.
So I can't be an idol? How far does the bullying canceling go back? I want to know before I embark on this journey, financially and wholeheartedly. I don't to become a big pop star and then everything I worked for and have it taken away because somebody stole my crayons in elementary.
Genuine response: It's hard to say because that sort of bad publicity doesn't have a rulebook, it's just bad luck and someone writing about it.
But if you're truly planning on aiming for celebrity and are worried about past behavior, reach out to those you hurt (like the ppl you hit) and apologize sincerely. Ideally you mean it, but from a practical standpoint having put in the effort and being able to prove that could make a big difference.
If you want to be an idol you have to make sure to go to all the victims and apologize sincerely in person and they have to accept your apology, so you can start clean cause if you leave things like this in the past, they will come bak to haunt you when you get popular.
This 100%!
So weird how people are trying to mock possible victims of freaking BULLYING...telling the to "get over it"...it's not that simple.
I mean I'm in a neutral stance for now, but trying to mock alleged victims for something that probably affected them their entire life ain't it.
If you want to be an idol you have to make sure to go to all the victims and apologize sincerely in person and they have to accept your apology, so you can start clean cause if you leave things like this in the past, they will come bak to haunt you when you get popular.
There's too many. Do they all have Facebook? Can I just do it all in one go-- like on the Telegram app or sumthing?
What about the ones that have already passed away-- do I take a selfie with their grave and flowers in my hand? Do I apologize to their living ancestors as well?
So weird how people are trying to mock possible victims who have most likely never received an apology from these alleged bullies....
I mean I'm in a neutral stance for now, but trying to mock alleged victims for something that probably affected them their entire life ain't it.
Funny of all the people in this thread, you sound most like a present bully.
At this rate I think I've bullied someone too when I was young for calling someone dumb for not knowing how to answer a simple math question.
YOU DUMB DUMB BODOH YOUR MOTHER NEVER TEACH U AH
fun fact : the only time i got slammed by a teacher in school was when I laughed at my friend's stupid math mistake
that same teacher didnt do shit when we got caught playing board games in class
very weird
I was really a bad kid in kindergarten. Everytime somebody in class annoyed me, I just swat them in the face with my open palm. Mother had to come to school a couple times because of this penchant.
did you really do that? ew. I feel bad for your classmates.
did you really do that? ew. I feel bad for your classmates.
I was very territorial, I must say.
just think of popular groups in that situ instead of your fave and decide.
At this rate I think I've bullied someone too when I was young for calling someone dumb for not knowing how to answer a simple math question.
YOU DUMB DUMB BODOH YOUR MOTHER NEVER TEACH U AH
That doesn't count. That was a teaching moment.
I was very territorial, I must say.
I'm glad that all this discussion is online. who knows if you still have that terrible habit? 
you sound you would still swat on any person who disagrees with you.
I think it starts like the day ur born... make sure to not offend the doctor.
Those rude babies that pee on Doctors
I'm glad that all this discussion is online. who knows if you still have that terrible habit?
you sound you would still swat on any person who disagrees with you.
Only metaphorically these days, I'm afraid.
It's hard to determine. It depends on how young you were and how serious was the bullying.
I hit my bully once because I was angry. Does that make me a bully for hitting my bully?
It's hard to determine. It depends on how young you were and how serious was the bullying.
Very young, and very serious. Everytime I told them their mothers were ugly and they didn't deserve to be my friend, I was dead serious.
I hit my bully once because I was angry. Does that make me a bully for hitting my bully?
I dunno, let's ask "Netizens".
Depends on how bad the bullying was, if the idol seem to be sorry about it, etc
So weird how people are trying to mock possible victims of freaking BULLYING...telling the to "get over it"...it's not that simple.
I mean I'm in a neutral stance for now, but trying to mock alleged victims for something that probably affected them their entire life ain't it.
Exactly
I'm disgusted 
So weird how people are trying to mock possible victims of freaking BULLYING...telling the to "get over it"...it's not that simple.
I mean I'm in a neutral stance for now, but trying to mock alleged victims for something that probably affected them their entire life ain't it.
Wbk kpop stans are pathetic, the way they react to a serious issue like this is just another confirmation
Exactly
I'm disgusted
I was being serious.
Wbk kpop stans are pathetic, the way they react to a serious issue like this is just another confirmation
I was being serious. I may potentially be a victim in this scenario.
I was being serious. I may potentially be a victim in this scenario.
Pff
Pff
Pff nothing.
I'm not here for the people thinking it's something to be laughed about especially after the victim probably worked up a lot of courage to talk about it publicly.
I'm staying neutral whomever made the mistake the idol or the accuser (if it's proven false), will have to face the consequences.
Just generally responding to this thread.
Yes, yesterday there were some strong responses (from 1 person I think, maybe more?) that were victim blaming. Saying it was their fault for being weak and that they should just get over it. It's definitely a NO-NO.
But we shouldn't also blindly trust an anonymous victim with no proof saying she would show the proof 24h later. We didn't even know what kind of bullying it was.
We should all remain skeptic and stop cancelling people even before knowing the truth.
P.S.: I wasn't aware of the recent developments. I was only aware up until Cube's denial.
Honestly, i think anything pre 9th grade/HS shouldn't count. By 15 you should know better.
Yes you cant be an idol
Glad you realize it
Now you can study and find a common job
If you want to be an idol you have to make sure to go to all the victims and apologize sincerely in person and they have to accept your apology, so you can start clean cause if you leave things like this in the past, they will come bak to haunt you when you get popular.
And make sure you get a recording too, audio or visual cause they can comeback and deny you apologized. Also witnesses, gotta make sure everything is covered.
If you want to be an idol, just don't go to school. It's wasted on you and you're never going to use it. You only need to know how to do big fast sweeping moves with lots of leg movements, and you'll be considered the best dancers by your fans.
At conception. 1 sperm had to bully the millions of others to make the embryo
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will I be cancelled for it 
