Posts by catzi

She's the prettiest in BP imo and one of the prettiest in kpop overall. Top 5 easily

I've been feeling like this about a guy. He keeps offering me a ride to home whenever I leave work, and it's been bothering me so much. I don't think he's got really evil intentions, but at the same time I don't trust him and don't want to give him hopes by accepting whatever he offers me. I already refused over 20 times, no joke. Hell, maybe 50, at this point. I don't get why he keeps insisting. I know that he might be worried or whatever, but it doesn't matter to me. This mf waited for 20 minutes for me to leave work so he could ask me again even though I refused the first time. It's soooo uncomfortable. I keep saying no everytime, but he doesn't get the clue. I fear that addressing the actual situation and be clear about my lack of interest in him might actually end up worse. It's really difficult so for now I kind of pretend the problem doesn't exist and try to avoid him as much as I can whenever he tries to get too intimate.

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I used to love their music but stopped listening to them as soon as the truth came out. I was mostly refering to groups like SIST4R or EXID, with adult women that knew what they were in for and genuinely seemed to like what they did.

Oh i still love Stellar's music tbh. The girls were uncomfortable with how they were sexualized, not with their music i think

I love and miss sexy concept too but after what Stellar members revealed that they went through most kpop companies with common sense probably won't use this type of concept to avoid controversy. I think currently Black Swan is the only group doing it.

That's true, I was her friend and it happened to me too

I found the girls very pretty, especially the second one. But even if they weren't it doesn't matter as long as they have the talent.

Btw, the first one reminds me of Yena.

Wait WHAT??? Dramatic was composed by him? That's insane, I love that song.

I hope it's true

Everything about Apple was awesome though, it's a pity that it seems to be underappreciated. But to be fair I didn't really like any of their releases before that so I understand why actual fans might be upset about it. It's really different from their old stuff.

It's so weird that Yeri is closer to aespa members in age than other RV members. Irene is like 8 years older than her. While Yeri is just 1 year younger than Karina.

Clickbait at it's finest

I'm kind of like this, but it depends of who I'm talking to. I'm the type of person who needs deep and random conversations so if the other person seem too closed for that usually it's hard for me to keep going, cause i suck at small talk. Personally, i can't control that so i just gave up. I hope there's a solution to this but until then if we vibe we vibe, if we don't then we don't and i won't insist.

Please don't use personal insults here again my fellow kpop stans

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this happens to me a lot. mostly in school. i'm short and uh well endowed, so they think i;m looking for someone and its quite annoying. especially for me and my sensitive self

Oh i can totally relate! I think they seek a certain type of people who they mistake for being as needy as them so maybe their chances of success is bigger. It pisses me off

There's literally no one in my block list lol i don't like to censor others no matter how obnoxious they get

reopen my thread pls i did not ask for ppl to insult each other and it had room for healthy discussion

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Guys put themselves in the friendzone then whine about it

They buy stuff the girl did not request, make favors that weren't asked for, then get mad if the girl still don't give af about him. I'm sorry but it's their own fault for interpreting every little thing as a sign that she was interested in them. It looks like they project their own desire on the other person to the point they don't even seem to see them as actual people but just an object they want to get. Just because someone is friendly doesn't mean they want to date you, jeez that should…

catzi

Wednesday, 1:54 pm

Quote from godkingteshub

The good thing is that men are starting to turn away from interacting with women IRL and they are just simping OnlyFan models or egirl streamers. Everyone should know by now that if you aren't physically attractive you should have zero expectations of getting into a sexual relationship with someone, whether long or short term

It's not even about being physically attractive tbh, it's about not creating any expectation at all and stop projecting what you want to see on other people and get mad if the other person don't respond the way you expect because of *this and that* as if they aren't actual human beings with thoughts and desires of their own and not a random robot that will react the way you want if you do "all the right steps". Whether you're good looking or not, if you do this no one will want your creepy ass. Or at least no one who love themselves first.

I agree. And the good news is, usually it's worth it. Most of the powerful people I know are like the way you described. It's very human of people to act the way you expect them to act so if you treat them like shit, they will act like shit, and viceversa.

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I am pretty sure not all guys are like this. When there is darkness, there is always light!

It's not, i have other coworkers and thank god they aren't like that. But unfortunately there's still a good portion of guys who feel entitled about a girl just because she's friendly and they're a "nice" guy.

They buy stuff the girl did not request, make favors that weren't asked for, then get mad if the girl still don't give af about him. I'm sorry but it's their own fault for interpreting every little thing as a sign that she was interested in them. It looks like they project their own desire on the other person to the point they don't even seem to see them as actual people but just an object they want to get. Just because someone is friendly doesn't mean they want to date you, jeez that should be fucking obvious. It creates such an awkward situation that could have been avoided. If you can't be friends with someone without wanting to f*** them then tbh you shouldn't even interact with them in the first place!

Sorry if i sound too angry I'm just bothered about a situation at work

Fuck this is uncomfortable