What was the dumbest rejection you ever heard from someone you like

  • okay so short story, there's was a this guy who LIKE ME well he wanted me first and then I start catching those things that ppl do dumb shit.Yh so I was falling more and more for him even though we hardly talk. He ghost me and claims he was busy sure.

    Anyways moving on to 2020 he keep dropping hints of us potentially dating like beating around the bush and I was .. there for it but not until after he date someone else . When I heard this , I was immediately sad n heartbroken I actually cry wtf 😢 in a bathroom like wow was I that in love with him?? I stop talking to him for year and he acts like nothing happen 😒 thinks we're cool 😎😒 I was so upset with him I don't even wanna be friends with him.


    So earlier this year I asked him what was the reason he didn't pursue he said I was too crazy for him, I had alot of ENERGY that he couldn't handle . I was like what ??? That's the most deluded thing I ever hear ass I said don't talk to me ,I hate you you're a douchebag. I hate men who send me mix signals and sheet damn like choose. :evil:

  • okay so short story, there's was a this guy who LIKE ME well he wanted me first and then I start catching those things that ppl do dumb shit.Yh so I was falling more and more for him even though we hardly talk. He ghost me and claims he was busy sure.

    Anyways moving on to 2020 he keep dropping hints of us potentially dating like beating around the bush and I was .. there for it but not until after he date someone else . When I heard this , I was immediately sad n heartbroken I actually cry wtf 😢 in a bathroom like wow was I that in love with him?? I stop talking to him for year and he acts like nothing happen 😒 thinks we're cool 😎😒 I was so upset with him I don't even wanna be friends with him.


    So earlier this year I asked him what was the reason he didn't pursue he said I was too crazy for him, I had alot of ENERGY that he couldn't handle . I was like what ??? That's the most deluded thing I ever hear ass I said don't talk to me ,I hate you you're a douchebag. I hate men who send me mix signals and sheet damn like choose. :evil:

    Just read what you said in reverse and you'll figure it out why.

    I used to do the same.

    Just chill mate.

  • never been rejected bc I just cannot confess first lmao

    too shy for that

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  • did you put in any effort from your side?

    Asking cause it sounds like he stopped giving a shit after a while thinking his feelings are not being reciprocated

    What you mean everytime I will try to talk to him and make an effort to see him he wouldn't do that for me . And even when it's bday I would be the one sending him a long message ,wishing him the best. But he would make up excuses on my bday you see what I'm saying.

  • I've never been right out rejected. I've also never right out confessed.


    Usually, if I like a guy, we're texting/talking, and if he gets the hints I drop and isn't interested, he just doesn't respond regularly or make any effort. And, eventually, I get the message and move on.


    Sometimes I get the message too late, which leads to some embarrassing situations, but that's because neither one of us wanted to address the elephant in the room and it just keeps growing bigger and bigger till BOOM.

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  • someone told me i had no flaws except for the fact that i liked kpop. i never lost feelings so fast in my life :itzy16:


    my current boyfriend is literally a sweetheart and so supportive of my interests. :itzy36:

  • I've only been rejected twice, the first time was cause the girl had a crush on my cousin and the second time was cause I was "too quiet"

    ...I never tried again after that 100298-final-6135fd7ac82af500884aec74-166774-gif


    "you're too --- ehhh?"


    like what does "ehhh" entail lmao


    the other one was that I had a weird left eye. ( mind you there is a difference between my two eyes but I guess my left one failed to win her favor?)


    nah he was around my age


    I guess some people just prefer babyfaces

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    Just a reminder that you all are very beautiful people, not matter what someone may say.

    Also I am sorry to hear that you got rejected :(

    But I know that you all can find and have someone better who loves you for who you are. :lovec:


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  • no, i usually keep my thoughts to myself unless people really deserve to hear it. which barely ever happens.

    i try to be nice everyone, because being rude won't be beneficial to me.

    :txt38:

  • no, i usually keep my thoughts to myself unless people really deserve to hear it. which barely ever happens.

    i try to be nice everyone, because being rude won't be beneficial to me.

    :txt38:

    yeah, you're still young, I get it.

    You need to establish yourself in a position where speaking your mind will actually be listened to.

    You need to practice that btw. Because it will get harder year by year.


    I wish I was that young as you are, like reverse time. But still have the brain I have right now.

    I would tell them all to go to f themselves.


    But, do not listen to me on that. Haven't lived through that timeline so it might mess up stuff.

    Taking a cautious approach is best. But you can still tell them to go f themselves in private.

  • nah, im pretty assertive and fine with telling people no when i need to. just because im nice doesn't mean i let people step all over me ^^


    i just don't see the point in getting aggressive and just making myself look bad. :nct6:

  • nah, im pretty assertive and fine with telling people no when i need to. just because im nice doesn't mean i let people step all over me ^^


    i just don't see the point in getting aggressive and just making myself look bad. :nct6:

    that's the best approach, I agree.

    But sometimes bishes need to bished on.

    Never did it tho, I guess I'm a softie.

  • someone told me i had no flaws except for the fact that i liked kpop. i never lost feelings so fast in my life :itzy16:


    my current boyfriend is literally a sweetheart and so supportive of my interests. :itzy36:

    And that's what you call a non-keeper! You go girl, if I were you I would have told them that they had no flows except for the fact they were a self condescending discourteous person who probably can't understand my insults cause they are an idiot.

  • that's the best approach, I agree.

    But sometimes bishes need to bished on.

    Never did it tho, I guess I'm a softie.

    ive never felt the need to do it. i do things best passive-aggressively, and i prefer to keep i that way.

    :nct6:

  • And that's what you call a non-keeper! You go girl, if I were you I would have told them that they had no flows except for the fact they were a self condescending discourteous person who probably can't understand my insults cause they are an idiot.

    LMAO i should have. its okay, i have a feeling he isn't living his best life rn anyways.

  • I haven't been rejected yet, infact I reject all the boys because they are all confessing to moi!


    Just kidding lol, I haven't been rejected yet because I never confessed yet lol. I do have this one boy I like and I am going to tell him anonymously before the school year ends since I am probably never going to see him again next year in 9th grade.


    But honestly, I might reject someone but I don't think they are going to confess to me. You know the one boy I like I mentioned earlier, yeah, my crush has a friend who is also kind of my friend. And my crush's friend may or may not like me and it is kind of a mess.


    I really hope he doesn't like me though, because he knows that I have a crush on his friend and I also remember whenever I used to talk about my crush on his friend he looked upset.

  • so you're in 8th grade?

    Just give them a chance mate.

    Boys at that age are stupid. Extremely stupid.

    I was just like that. We were all just like that.


    If you like the guy just go to him, ask him to come meet you somewhere else more quiet.

    And ask him. Simple as: "I like you. Do you like me?"

    If he runs for the hills, that's your first rejection.

    If he says yes, it's your first boyfriend.


    Either way, you gained something in your life.

    What do they call it? Bucket list or whatever?


    Shoot your shot mate.

  • wish I could. I always feel the need to act whenever stupid things happen and somebody get hurt.

    oh yeah, i can tell :)

  • play it safe, if things go naturally then let it happen :)

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