Your biggest pet peeve about toxic kpop stans?

they make a big deal out of nothing

When they don't listen to another point of view or take into consideration the opinion of another.

Basically when they don't bother to try and look at a topic/situation from another viewpoint.

Some toxic kpop stans think they own the idols. You know, it's why idols don't publicly date because that would cause a bad reaction for more possessive stans. It's annoying. And you know, this goes into stans who are critical over idols appearances and stuff. Like their weight or having features that aren't the beauty standards. That's also toxic and unnecessary.

ngl, the crazy shipping is what annoys me the most

carrying this stuff into real life

incoherent and senseless arguing that literally isn’t going anywhere. Are they serious? Can you give it a break? When will this stop? It won’t, their sole mission in life is to drive me to insanity with their horrendous grammar and ridiculous points of argument.

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fighting over kpop politics in real life and letting it affect people

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carrying this stuff into real life

yup yup, don’t take it into your everyday life, it’s exhausting

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THISSS

Like if you're gonna argue with me, at least make it make sense the best you can. Or else the argument goes no where.

IKR

they will literally defend their point, no matter how ridiculous or flawed, to the death. Absolutely pointless, but you can’t stop arguing with them because it’s simply so idiotic. But when you actually decide to stop arguing, they won’t leave you alone so it’s really endless.

K-pop fans pretending "know it all"

and pass it as "facts" when in reality

they knew nothing at all also those

"Facts source by me".

I find just ironically funny how toxic kpop stans waste their time insulting and mocking idols who are far more successful, rich, popular and good looking than them. Like whew.. Just imagine if they spent that energy and time to try achieve the same for themselves. But they don't and that's exactly why they find easy to trash those above them in all kinds of status. It's one of the same reasons why they're below. Yet they keep doing it cause they think that shit makes them look hot on twitter

Shipping and arguments annoy me the most

They won’t let go of an opinion, they won’t back down and seem like they’re always out to prove a point. Half the time they don’t know what they’re talking about, and just feel like giving a sarcastic response. I put it down to ignorance or immaturity or both.

Taking fanwars too literally and personally

Honestly, they're just arguing with some internet strangers why do thy get so riled up and defensive over something like kpop.

The whole “if you don’t agree with my opinion then you’re racist” when the opinion against them is literally “meh not the best song”

And yes I’ve seen people do this lol.

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their horrendous grammar

I am dead

You spilled creams.

Gas lighting.

“Oh you stan so and so therefore you’re a racist/bully/bigoted/bully as well”

It’s the inability of kpop stans to detach themselves from the idols.

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I am dead

You spilled creams.

what...what did i do??

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what...what did i do??

flop the grammer I hate it when they argue and DON'T HAVE GRAMMER

Masturbating to their bias group's success as if it is their own.

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flop the grammer I hate it when they argue and DON'T HAVE GRAMMER

FLOP EXACTLY ITS THE GRAMMAR THAT GETS ME EVERY TIME. At least put in the effort to seem somewhat educated when you sound like an illiterate...

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Masturbating to their bias group's success as if it is their own.

that is...wonderfully graphic. Thankie...

but that is true, they shouldn’t take the credit that’s annoying asf

I hate people that think their favs are better than other groups just because of popularity, the ignorance isn’t surprising at all though, same old same old

My biggest pet peeve in this forum in particular is the cult behaviour. When you argue with someone who is being clearly shady or straightout insulting, or when they're exhibiting obvious hypocrisy and then their friends come in hordes to defend them.

Why do kpop fans feel the urge to defend their fellow fans even when they're obviously at fault? It's like they feel implicated by association which means they think of themselves as a monolith but then it you generalise them they start throwing fits. Maybe if you all didn't act like a damn cult you wouldn't be generalised.

Extreme Shipping to the point you hate if your shipping pair interacts with any other members!!!

Now, this is seriously toxic and criminal...

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Now, this is seriously toxic and criminal...

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forum.allkpop.com/thread/20847/

Truly reprehensible. No words to express how shocked I'm at all of this

solo stans drive me crazy sending hate to their faves group mates and just acting a mess in general.

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Now, this is seriously toxic and criminal...

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forum.allkpop.com/thread/20847/

This is unacceptable behaviour regardless who it is against. I hope the forum users now understand why the moderating over the last few days has been "strict" and why some users are getting banned. I also hope people stop questioning "biased" moderating now (not literally) because most of us really don't know what is going on behind the scenes. This shit has been going on since January. The staff did a really good job there.