Do you feel guilty when you start to fall for a group other than your faves?
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not really. it's not like they'll know i'm looking at somebody else lol
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Nope, being a fan of a group doesn't mean that I'm committed completely to them as I'm committed to a relationship. Preferences are just preferences, I might like chicken wings but it doesn't mean I prefer them less if I opt for pasta today.
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Not really, as much as kpop stans will always try, I try not to see it all as a competition. Real world moments caught on camera has shown us that these idols don't have issues with each other - so the issues with other artists that we may have, we make up ourselves and hold on - these are our issues, not theirs. Letting those go, if you can, feels freeing, I promise!
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not really. it's not like they'll know i'm looking at somebody else lol
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I actually like a lot of artists too. Maybe I'm a polyfan
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Nope, being a fan of a group doesn't mean that I'm committed completely to them as I'm committed to a relationship. Preferences are just preferences, I might like chicken wings but it doesn't mean I prefer them less if I opt for pasta today.
True, variety is the spice of life!
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That initial falling in love with a new gave really is an exciting time. You're so about discovering more music and things about them. Sometimes it's does break down cuz you realize you only like their tts or something
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Nope. The artists I love are always excited about discovering different music, so I assume they would appreciate other music lovers.
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Not really, as much as kpop stans will always try, I try not to see it all as a competition. Real world moments caught on camera has shown us that these idols don't have issues with each other - so the issues with other artists that we may have, we make up ourselves and hold on - these are our issues, not theirs. Letting those go, if you can, feels freeing, I promise!
Urgh, it's hard. I'm a naturally guilty feeling person. I can't even leave one piece of food behind by itself coz i gel like i rejected just it. I have to leave at least two or none. I might need therapy i know lol
But you're right, our faves are friends or at least friendly with each other for the most part. It's sad that fans can't do the same. I see people hating idols when clearly their faves respect and care about them.
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I'm totally married to Baekhyun, i don't know what you mean
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You're right, i don't know why i sometimes feel like i should try evening things out
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nah. it's just music, there's nothing to be guilty over
We should all remember that. It's just kpop!
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They're never been another group on top? Even temporarily?
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Nope. The artists I love are always excited about discovering different music, so I assume they would appreciate other music lovers.
I love when i see my faves fanning over another idol and their music. The interactions are so cute.
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No offense but...
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I love when i see my faves fanning over another idol and their music. The interactions are so cute.
Ikr makes fans look like 🤡🤡🤡🤡 with their i only pay attention to you 🤡🤡 when xyz idol is best friends with not your fav groups everywhere 😂😂
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I'm not a dedicated fan of any specific group
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It's only happened to me once but I don't feel any guilt. I think KAT-TUN's hiatus had an effect on this. They came back a few years later but I was already in BTS' grip. However, I have not abandoned them, they are also much less active than before anyway. I still love and support them. I'm just more interested in BTS now. Besides, I don't own them, nor do they own me. So I think it's silly to feel guilty about liking another band.
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i think Stray Kids is #2 but I primarily listen to BTS more but imma see SKZ in march/April ‘nd that will be my 1st concert in K-pop or just overall 1st concert
I'm so excited for you! Skz seems like they are great live (from the videos I've seen anyway). I'm sure you'll have an amazing time. Are you gonna buy a light stick?
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No offense but...
Hmmm I've never thought that it might be that. I'll look into it
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I actually listen to a lot of groups. I'm more talking about when you feel yourself starting to maybe have a new fave cuz you listen to them more than your old fave
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ma'am just 30 or 50 if you include the soloists
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Why would I? Sometimes they're better than my bias group like Twice for instance.
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ma'am just 30 or 50 if you include the soloists
"Just"
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It's only happened to me once but I don't feel any guilt. I think KAT-TUN's hiatus had an effect on this. They came back a few years later but I was already in BTS' grip. However, I have not abandoned them, they are also much less active than before anyway. I still love and support them. I'm just more interested in BTS now. Besides, I don't own them, nor do they own me. So I think it's silly to feel guilty about liking another band.
I think this pbly happens a lot with hiatus. I mean, not to me tho. Baekhyun comes back in 10 days!
I've never heard of kat-tun...
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"Just"
that's right "just" lol
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They are firming as favourite but aren't yet.
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