(about AKP) I really hate when people spread misinformation

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after the whole spam about Jennie and V i barely use it anymore they just want views and fights

I hope you and your friends get through the rumours. Idk what happened but spreading rumours about akp's own users, and ones who have lives outside of here, sounds pretty low-level

I'm so FUCKING tired. Because I literally have screenschots of said person venting about us behind our backs in DMs, spreading misinformation, accusing us of false bullying and talking about how they can't get over us like If they went through some kind of abusive relationship to a third party when they are the ones saying in the forum we are enemies out of nowhere and we haven't commenting anything about them It's been months. Not saying we are saints, but when we had something to say to them, we said directly and I would even tag here if it didn't cost me wps. But even this we haven't been doing for months.

Other people that were so tired of their whole ass obsession about us while wearing a kind and sweet mask to others through the forum sent us what they were saying unprovocked on DMs and that's how we know. Because we don't share how we feel and what we've been through and what we've been reading never. We never say our side and we weren't planning to, but It's been months, for god's sake. We are even in peace on Discord.

And when you guys want to speak out and defending yourself, I'm always the first one to say we should just keep it to ourselves, but It's not fair and I get you, xoxo. It annoys me I have to revive this unfairness every time.

Yeah it's been god knows how long and the person in question is STILL pulling this shit.

I'm tired too and it's been hard not being able to expose their ass for everyone to see.

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got my sweet ‘n patient wife swearing like this, that’s when you know someone’s a very pathetic and unbearable individual

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Speak thy truth!

Sorry, It's that I usually keep what I think to myself and I prefer to stay on my line, but when I decide to speak out, I have 0 filters, specially when I feel I'm being wronged.

It's just that It occuried to me all the times, even though I've never consider this person my close friend, I tried to support them when they wanted to participate on King of Masked Singer in the forums, because It was something they were interested and I didn't want their insecurities to hold them back. When they lost, I even went to the thread to cheer them up because they were sad. And, as a consequence I was accused of 'forcing' them to participate. It's everything in the Guild and Shy's thread for everyone to see I'm not lying.

The times I tried to help and advice them It was a bad idea to mention and bad mouthing users in the Guild, just like posting screenshots of other users there could cost them wps, because It was against the rules and the guild was a safe space for us. Its also everything on the Guild. And what I received? They accusing me of holding them back and didnt let them be themselves.

The moments I tried to help them with their insecurities and even use of one the techniques I use with my clients to help them and Its also on the Guild for me to send to anyone, god, why did I gain back? They bad mouthing me on dms and doubting my capacities in my work of knowing about cognitive fuctions, just because I did a mbti thread about what the members themselves say to joke. (I have the screenshot)

The moment I prepared with all care a DM to them to explain why they crossed my boudaries when they spread about my birthday for a lot of people in the forum, because I didn't want to hurt their feelings and I knew It was in good faith, but I had to set my boudaries, right? Just for the next moment they run to someone's dm to bad mouth me again after block me and ignore my text. I still have it through. Both what they said on dms and my text.

I've never had a problem with any other user like that, just like xoxo. But despite everything, I don't consider them my enemy, I don't "hate" them, I just don't want to be accused of something I didn't.

everyone except me is an incel bigot hater pig

Have fun

I am sympathetic to this... I can't give any good advice, but I wish people could get over themselves and let the past be the past. It doesn't matter what happened, just let it be... because it becomes so emotionally exhausting to everyone involved. And to continue to twist situations and make what should be one incident into a larger thing... That never ends.

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having someone blatantly spin a lie to someone else privately when that thread for the Masked singer event was public, along with any other supportive comments made by you was truly the most ballsy yet dumbest thing someone could simply do. And it still baffles me to this minute.

Truly just don’t know what’s wrong with that person or why they felt the need to lie about of all things. It’s like they were too embarrassed about that past event, then conjured up a story about you pushing them into it just to cope with reality of it and to make themselves conveniently look pitiful to someone else at a certain moment.

And don’t even get me started on the MBTI thread where you literally just posted WHAT THE SKZ MEMBERS THEMSELVES SAID THEY WERE AFTER THEY TOOK THE TEST. Imagine getting tilted over a thread like that

Nonsense, pure insane utter nonsense with no logic, unprovoked

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I'm glad there are people here who like us and know we are not bad people or bullies and informed us what happened, because they couldn't believe. But imagine the things we don't even know.

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I’d vent in detail regarding certain things myself, like I had wanted to so so soooo many times prior. But I’m just too tired at the moment…. and on mobile.

So before going to bed just wanna say, enough is enough and I hope many others finally get to say their part after tolerating stuff for so long.

Because none of them deserved all the unwarranted bullshit and stress they were dealt by a jaded actor who doesn’t know about boundaries and will only ever continue thinking about themselves before ever asking first “ maybe this will make them uncomfortable? maybe I should ask first? maybe I should stop shifting the blame onto others when I mess up or put myself into embarrassing situations. Maybe I should stop lying. Maybe I should stop DMing others thinking I won’t get caught. Maybe I should come clean. “

for someone who claims "being nice" as their entire personality, the things they've done are sure as hell far from nice.

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I'm so FUCKING tired. Because I literally have screenschots of said person venting about us behind our backs in DMs, spreading misinformation, accusing us of false bullying and talking about how they can't get over us like If they went through some kind of abusive relationship to a third party when they are the ones saying in the forum we are enemies out of nowhere and we haven't commenting anything about them It's been months. Not saying we are saints, but when we had something to say to them, we said directly and I would even tag here if it didn't cost me wps. But even this we haven't been doing for months.

Other people that were so tired of their whole ass obsession about us while wearing a kind and sweet mask to others through the forum sent us what they were saying unprovocked on DMs and that's how we know. Because we don't share how we feel and what we've been through and what we've been reading never. We never say our side and we weren't planning to, but It's been months, for god's sake. We are even in peace on Discord.

And when you guys want to speak out and defending yourself, I'm always the first one to say we should just keep it to ourselves, but It's not fair and I get you, xoxo. It annoys me I have to revive this unfairness every time.

this.

It's been months this is happening and even if we do nothing it still happens. All of this because we complained about some situation it was happening in the guild and it could be solved if they didn't had a victim complex and didn't twisted our words to pity other people who have NOTHING to do with this one-sided issue for pity friendship. We tried to do the things so no one could feel sad or unwelcomed but I guess it wasn't enough. And it wasn't also for lack of trying because we say A, the person understand B and spread C. For what reason?

I'm glad we can partly free that from our throats because we've been accused of being bullies of something that only existed in their head and we couldn't even defend ourselves because if we did through DMs it would be pointless since it's been spread through there and even if we did this wouldn't stop, and if we did a thread about it we would be reported for call out. And I guess they wouldn't want too because what else they would use to keep their persona?

Is it too much to ask for this to stop? If it's to accuse me of something at least be something I ACTUALLY did.

Also, if we're not active in the forum rn it have nothing to do with this issue because we're not a cult or being paid to use it. Each person have their own life and their own reasons to use the forum or not. The world doesn't revolve around you.

The reason why AKP is toleratable to me is my closed DMs and the fact that I dodon'get personal and friendly with no one.

I have seen the same scenario play out over and over again and people just don't change.

I have no idea what’s going on with you specifically but you’re not alone. For the past three years I have had to run, change names, hide - all because people like to spread rumours and misinformation. If you ever need someone to talk to, hit me up. I’ve been there and I’m still going through it.