Why do Girls love Bad Boys?
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Girls don’t like Bad Boys… it’s just that Bad Boys often got attributes girls find attractive, often intentionally faked by those Bad Boys to get those Girls.
I see
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Good :- Kind, Caring, Thoughtful, Sensitive, Empathetic, Loving etc....
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Good :- Kind, Caring, Thoughtful, Sensitive, Empathetic, Loving etc....

(but like I said, even if someone is good, it doesn't mean I'll just fall for them, we have to 'vibe', be on the same page, have at least some similar interests, similar mindset, values, etc etc, there are also some small habits or the way someone acts, that makes them attractive to me...)
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I prefer a sweet and responsible family man. The motherly type. The ones that are caring and warm to me. They are rare to come by and almost everyone I've dated shares that trait even if they look like a bad boy on the outside. Actually most of the people I dated looked like bad boys but their personality was veryyyyyyyy different and that's what made me like em.
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i like bad boys who are respectful towards me.
I like adventurous guys. Mine got me into adventures like first bunking ( lol i was a simple person😂 ). Then got me into adventure sports.
I like spice in life loool
Tbh majority of bad guys have great personalities ( not abusive ones ).
Mine was group head, club head.
People listened to him when he entered a room. That things impressed me.
He was arrogant to others, but i realized it was outer shell to hide his inner feelings and insecurities , so i knew how to tackle him
I remember how sick i was and my roomates were at their homes.. It was first year. He was my senior and my classmate told him. He brought his car . He took me to hospital and took care of me. That day i felt for him. Bcoz previously i used to find him terrible arrogant guy. And i realized what a caring man he is inside. Though he was less expressive and showed less emotions, i thought i can overlook some cons for his good side. I started arguing with people, eho used to bash him.
Now if u mean abusive men as bad boys, then no . They are disgusting
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I'm a good guy




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Which Info? I am the nicest guy you'll ever meet.
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LMAO
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I think this is more common with younger women or teens and the amount of bad representation of men we see our there.
I agree that some bad guys have some traits that are attractive, like confidence or free-spirit, but that's it. Nice men can be confident as well.
I don't like bad (and even good looking sometimes) guys, since they're usually cocky and would barely look at my face since I'm non attractive and nerdy-like.
The "why treating this girl so well if I have no intentions to have something with her?" kind of behavior. Pass.
I prefer the "family" dudes. The ones who are well connected to their families and are kind, generous and open minded. And treat EVERYONE nicely, regardless of how they look, their origins, etc.
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Sounds like something straight out of incel reddit

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It's the aesthetic
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I've been labeled both as a bad boy and as a fuck boy. And I am neither.
From my experience at least, it has to do with girls that don't want a relationship but more of a one night/week stand.
The whole girls like bad boys is a trope that ain't true for the majority of girls.
But yes there are girls out there that will want to fix the bad boy and make him their own. And they then get bored because he's no longer a bad boy.
But yes, I agree. This is some incel shit.
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I don't agree with your view entirely tho.
Yes I agree that girls don't really like bad guys because they are bad guys.
But women are not so dumb to be blinded by looks.
But if we are talking about young girls, and I'm talking really young, then yes it might happen.
Naive would be the best attribute as you said.
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Umm, I've encountered naive ones. Thinking that if they are with me they get some kind of social status bump.
But dumb? I was fortunate enough not to.
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is this a parody thread-

I choose to believe so

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I honestly dont give a fuck about that idol.
But you saying he's ugly that's why he needs more puss instead of the one that's handsome and got a wife
is shading TWO idols and is against the rules of the forum.
Please stop pretending like you don't understand the rules of the forum.
I’m not even saying that. Just that Chanyeol is more popular and has more fangirls, while Chen isn’t that popular relatively speaking. And we know Chen is married and has a child, while Chanyeol often had rumors and allegations that’s he’s “swimming in pussy”. So I’m putting that juxtaposition of idols with higher levels of fangirl popularity also having more opportunity of taking advantage of what that entails
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I’m not even saying that. Just that Chanyeol is more popular and has more fangirls, while Chen isn’t that popular relatively speaking. And we know Chen is married and has a child, while Chanyeol often had rumors and allegations that’s he’s “swimming in pussy”. So I’m putting that juxtaposition of idols with higher levels of fangirl popularity also having more opportunity of taking advantage of what that entails
I understand all that.
But it has nothing to do with the discussion.
Nobody was talking about specific idols mate.
And let's be honest here. Anything you say will be viewed as a troll opinion.
Because that is how the entire forum views you.
Even though you make some sensible points.
But your past is what drives your future. That's why users in this forum pretty much ignore you or troll you back.
This was a discussion about stereotypes of relationships, not about idols.
You bringing in idols (while I agree your point is fair) will be viewed by everyone else as shading.
That's why I pointed it out first. So others won't report you for some weird stuff.
Please understand, this entire forum views you as a troll.
If you want to actually have discussions with the forum,
stop talking about idols when the thread has nothing to do with idols.
I really hope I got my point across.
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I understand all that.
But it has nothing to do with the discussion.
Nobody was talking about specific idols mate.
And let's be honest here. Anything you say will be viewed as a troll opinion.
Because that is how the entire forum views you.
Even though you make some sensible points.
But your past is what drives your future. That's why users in this forum pretty much ignore you or troll you back.
This was a discussion about stereotypes of relationships, not about idols.
You bringing in idols (while I agree your point is fair) will be viewed by everyone else as shading.
That's why I pointed it out first. So others won't report you for some weird stuff.
Please understand, this entire forum views you as a troll.
If you want to actually have discussions with the forum,
stop talking about idols when the thread has nothing to do with idols.
I really hope I got my point across.
Idols get brought up as examples all the time outside the kpop section. They were bringing up Irene and other idols rumored to be bullies when discussing bullying. Now it’s not permissible?
I used Chanyeol as an example because he’s known to be popular for his looks, that’s his forte. In comparison to Chen who is recognized as more talented but not that popular with fangirls. Yet both have very different reputations, at least from fans who are into checking out the rumors/allegations
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Idols get brought up as examples all the time outside the kpop section. They were bringing up Irene and other idols rumored to be bullies when discussing bullying. Now it’s not permissible?
I used Chanyeol as an example because he’s known to be popular for his looks, that’s his forte. In comparison to Chen who is recognized as more talented but not that popular with fangirls. Yet both have very different reputations, at least from fans who are into checking out the
This post you made is the perfect example. You brought up other examples, why bring out Irene when nobody was talking about her.
Stop diverting attention from your posts by bringing out other idols. It only reinforces your image as a troll.
Please understand that. And you are not a troll. But this whole forum treats you as one.
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Oh there's no end to what I can say on this topic. Guys who define themselves as nice guys are the worst. Real nice guys are the ones who don't make it being their main personality trait, and their respect toward women is consistent and based around that being the normal thing to do and not a tactic to date girls ahem @ every guy irl. I can't say for every girl why they love bad boys, but bad boys can be appealing in comparison. Confidence, looks, self-destructive tendencies, want but can't have kind of thing, many reasons can blur their view and they end up getting hurt. Real nice guys will never have a tough time with girls, it's the matter of finding the right girl and letting your personality shine through your actions. I can definitely say 100% any girl will prefer a guy who is careless and free-spirited over one who will whinge about being so nice but no* girl likes them. At least, I would. Bad guys know they're jerks and don't think they're owed anything but will accept what comes to them, that's the distinction I think between 'bad' guys and 'nice' guys.
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i think some (or maybe a lot) of it got to do with how these bad boys are potrayed in movies. They almost always got the hot guy with good looking face to play the character and a lot of movies potray the stereotype that bad boy only care and nice to one girl. I guess that's what makes bad boy attractive to some people

I personally like good and nice guys, i like to have a stable life please.
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