The term toxic is thrown around so casually with you lot.

That's nice, deary.

I don't even say half the stuff I want to say on here because I know I'm gonna get hated on because I have controversial opinions. Doesn't mean I'm toxic, I just view things differently. Kpop fans need to grow thicker skin. Everybody loses their mind when somebody says something that is 'toxic' or 'hateful' when in reality it's probably just someone calling an idol a dozen. I've noticed how many people literally get insanely angry over freaking stupidness. Like why do I care if you think my faves are flops? I don't and I move on with my life. But others literally go crazy and lose their mind. Like it's okay to flop or be nugu. Not everyone can be famous.

Basically, You can't say anything these days without multiple people going crazy. I learnt to listen to people first and try to understand their point of view before getting angry and calling them toxic or some other stupid insult. Most of the time people are actually angry because they have some parasocial relationship with their faves and feel personally attacked when you say you think their music sucks or that one member can't sing.

last time i used the word toxic to describe anything. i don't mind women using it but if you're a dude then lol

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You're new right? You seem fine. Bit triggered but in a spirited way

Not triggered. I genuinely lost the plot after the first couple paragraphs.

So am i toxic or not

Baby, can't you see I'm calling?

A guy like you should wear a warning

It's dangerous, I'm falling
There's no escape, I can't wait

I need a hit, baby, give me it

You're dangerous, I'm loving it
Too high, can't come down

Losing my head, spinnin' 'round and 'round

Do you feel me now?
With a taste of your lips, I'm on a ride

You're toxic, I'm slippin' under

With a taste of a poison paradise

I'm addicted to you

Don't you know that you're toxic?

And I love what you do

Don't you know that you're toxic?
It's getting late to give you up

I took a sip from my devil's cup

Slowly, it's taking over me
Too high, can't come down

It's in the air and it's all around

Can you feel me now?
With a taste of your lips, I'm on a ride

You're toxic, I'm slippin' under

With a taste of a poison paradise

I'm addicted to you

Don't you know that you're toxic?

And I love what you do

Don't you know that you're toxic?

Don't you know that you're toxic?
Taste of your lips, I'm on a ride

You're toxic, I'm slippin' under

With a taste of a poison paradise

I'm addicted to you

Don't you know that you're toxic?
With a taste of your lips, I'm on a ride

You're toxic, I'm slippin' under (toxic)

With a taste of a poison paradise

I'm addicted to you

Don't you know that you're toxic?
Intoxicate me now, with your lovin' now

I think I'm ready now, I think I'm ready now

Intoxicate me now, with your lovin' now

I think I'm ready now

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Oh there's a whole bunch of men here acting like cry babies as well. I was mod for years i saw all the reports , won't leak ofc but yeah.

i've literally never reported anyone out here all these years. i don't even know where the report button is lol

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Yea and that's a form of mental illness that should not be encouraged. Because reality they don't gaf about them and it's a one way street of love.

Well... I know that there is a thing called "erotomania".

As Wikipedia explains it:

Erotomania, also known as de Clérambault's Syndrome, is a relatively uncommon paranoid condition that is characterized by an individual's delusions of another person being infatuated with them. It is listed in the DSM-5 as a subtype of a delusional disorder. Commonly, the onset of erotomania is sudden, and the course is chronic.

Is there ever a thread Versatile is in where he doesn't refer to the fact that he was a mod once?

Jesus fcking Christ, try a new tune.

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I see people calling just about anything toxic. And it's like oh no people didn't like my faves comeback. Oh no someone has an opinion that triggers me.

What's with these hot takes lately the trolling making me cry. Like seriously? There is actual toxicity, and when that happens they don't get a verbal, then a wp, then. 3 day ban then etc... they get permabanned. Actual toxicity, go die group A.

Group B all have undiagnosed down syndrome with how they charting rn, and it bugs me how people said anons were toxic no they bloody weren't. Tbh even the ones that we didn't approve most of them weren't actually like .. fuck that s*** there was never much of that stuff.

Why are you all so far removed from reality every small insult or critique makes you want to curl up in a ball and cry? The term 'safe space' is soo cringe why don't you all grow up and get some thicker skin. It's not like these idols are your family members it's entertainment, some of you smh.

Getting triggered is fine as long as you keep it at that but going around calling everything toxic just coz it's an opinion that YOU Don't like just shows how soft you are. No it's not toxic and no small little things or misinterpretations of people post you think is implying something does not require a permaban. You can call just about anything sexist these days. Call anything racist. Doesn't mean it is. That's your low threshold. And not reality.

Low thresholds ruin discussion and that's how forums are supposed to be. Not a big praise and peaceful place with only positivity as allowed.

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I completely agree. I'm glad someone said it. I'm so sick of people acting like this anywhere. It's just ridiculous