Hello! So, this is something I was thinking about for a while, and I decided it's about time I ask you: do you judge someone based on their aesthetics? How much? In what way? If you did do it, how long did you do it for? Do you still do it? Don't be afraid to be honest, I won't judge you for it.
I used to do it a lot when I was new, and I still do it a bit, but not as much. As shallow as it sounds (and actually was), I would make assumptions on users based on their aesthetics. Stuff like: "Oh, their aesthetics look pretty, they're probably nice!" and things like that. If I also saw a "couple" on here with either matching or complimentary aesthetics, I found it cute and thought they were the closest of the close. Sometimes, I'd see someone's aesthetics and think about what a good editor they must be.
Now, I've realized just how wrong that is. Someone could have no aesthetics and be incredibly kind (like selfmate ) or have gorgeous aesthetics and not be as pretty on the inside. That being said, there are a bunch of nice, pretty aesthetic users here, but still. I also recognized that some couples on here are super close and don't have matching aesthetics. Some people on here are literally married in real life and they don't always match. How well you do or don't match with other users says nothing about how close you are.
Anyway, have a great day/night!
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it wasn't them, the user is not even active 
i remember one user had a picture of a ... fluid on a 
they got banned soon after though
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