people of what profession you will never date? and why?

doctors

cops & probably lawyers, they can both legally fuck you over.

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I do agree with the reddit choice + all the professions that require people to have a public life bc Im a very private person

Also not therapist and psychologist

from personal experience they cant turn off from their job and will psycho analyze you

as someone with a psychology degree, i admit to pscyho-analyzing people

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why?

I know I shouldnt judge but where I live as spouses, the doctors, have bad reputation and sorry for the gossip I am a friend of a nurse and she basically said that lmao

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My mom was a doctor(retired), the long hours can take a toll on family life

it totally must have, on my family I only have male as doctors I hope your mother have time for herself and family now

but in a way it is very strong to see the determination of a doctor

almost(?) dated a youtuber, only had max like 5 million subs, now he's gone (banned and deleted)

he's an emotional wreck. we still talk from time to time.

would never do that again.

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My mom was a doctor(retired), the long hours can take a toll on family life

this is true. both my parents are doctors, my mom stopped working in the hospital and now works from home.

Cops/detectives and politicians and prison ward guards/medical prople , those sorts of professions cause I feel like at some point one of these criminals are gonna attack me and I would rather lay low

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oop, same, and they definitely wouldn't want me.

me, a future health worker and current criminology/psych student reading this thread:

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I do appreciate doctors and all health workers alot

I'm squirmish around peoples body and generally hate being in their space

The fact that they deal with so many people's bodies and take care of them is just mind blowing and amazing to me

I feel the same Ç_Ç

I think I would handle being a vet but a doctor? never i feel grossed out so easily besides I tend to panic

Are we only talking about legal professions?

Because I would definitely not date a drug dealer.

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Are we only talking about legal professions?

Because I would definitely not date a drug dealer.

that was my first thought haha

dating - probably none...since it's just dating right?

unless you judge a person by their profession each person should be treated on their merits alone right?

ie. one shouldn't judge a person by the groups they identify with whether it be based on hobbies or profession or colour of their skin

Those who kill animals.

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I mean alot of people date with the intention to find a forever partner

To me things like skin color and ethnicity are different from hobbies and profession

The first group is what you are born into, no choice there

The second group is sth you choose and it is part of your personality so it makes sense to judge someone's personality based one them

true and I always say you can judge someone based on whatever one wants to judge someone on - it's really their choice after all right? different strokes for different folks

but if one is excluding a certain portion of the population for having x profession it really limits one choices when in fact a suitable partner might be found from that profession...

but then again maybe one has bad dealings with people from that profession and rather not get involved which is perfectly understandable

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for me there are things that I know it will cross my boundaries regardless of what else it is part of the person

I mentioned sex workers and people whom their job requires them to have a public life

It doesnt matter the personality of the sex worker, I can be a great friend to them, but as a partner I cannot share someone even if its their job. That is a boundary that I know if crossed I will not be happy.

Same with people who have public lives, from celebs to politicians. Im too private and I know dating someone like that will make me miserable endlessly.

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make sense make sense...

so no Key then

Cop … high risk of them being killed and possible revenge by petty criminals

Soldier… same as cop plus the fact that they might be away for weeks or even months. That would be hard, why did I got married for ? lol

Pilot/Captain… same as with soldier, might be away for too long

Physiologist … might be psycho analyzing to much

Doctor… my Dad is one and it’s one doctor enough in my personal life

Teacher… idk, for some reason they just seem to boring to me.

And yeah probably sex workers too.

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Unless he will buy me a ticket to the moon/mars No

I might be able to pull some strings and get a ticket to kwangya but moon? mars?

I got LSM money not Elon Musk money!!!!

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Thats the sad part the only men who can afford to buy me Moon/Mars tix are like literal DICKS

dont want a piece of that

usually people that have that kind of money got to where they are by standing on the shoulders and heads (and carcasses) of those that came before them!!!!

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any job that required my s/o to be away from me for more than three days

I can live with more than 3 days but not more than a week or two… like are we even dating lol

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i don't mind them being away if its for work, its just the fact that i'd really really miss them.

Uhm.. yeah sure. I would miss the A LOT too

Well, I’ve been married for thirteen years this year but… politicians.