Life is purely based on pure luck

Quote from Justplainme

You assumed my gender and his gender.

First i am a guy and so is my roommate and with no word i told you "to wait for your village to get bombed"

I am sorry you have accumulated so much bad expiriences. I also grew up with abusive parents, actually a lot of us do. We all carry our bags of garbage around.

Finding a job can be a challenge, i assume you're from india since you mentioned mumbai, and in such a large country it must be even harder.

In no way i wanted to look down on your suffering. But i think it is wrong to let negativity consume you to the point that you're trying to make others feel bad.

If you need help, please try to get some, there are many free hotlines in every country, you can call.

We in here probably won't be able to give you the help you need.

I wish you all the best for your future and a job that you can enjoy, as well as a partner you can lean on and trust.

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Ignore them, And rest well, they want you to feel sad and angry. Dont feed into it.

Quote from haj1ma

Stupid comment and doesn't even invalidate my point.

Not everyone is going to get the chance like Your roommate did. She was still extremely lucky to even get the chance.

I was born with abusive parents, my mental health is destroyed and beyond repair and I can't afford therapy. never got the chance to get a degree, nobody paid for me. I applied everywhere and got rejected. I suffer from severe anxiety panic attack and depression. have been trying to get a job for 4 years with no luck, always rejected, because I am ugly. Even no luck in working in sales.

So you are telling I got all of these problems because I didn't work hard!! Should I wait for my village to get bombed!!

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I doubt anyone rejected you because you're ugly unless you were applying for jobs where good looks are a must. Even so, I feel like you're too hard on yourself.

Quote from haj1ma

Yes, the king of Saudi Arabia worked really hard that's why he was born with millions in his bank account and oil under his castle. Boi don't Bullshit me.

Jealousy is poison and only slowing you down. But you need to realise this yourself.

I hope you can work your attitude out and focus on what you can instead of what you can't have

and by the way

What are you so filled with anger for?

It's not like we in here can change anything about the situation or are millionares

Just reroll better in your next life

Some life can be based on luck that you make yourself and some fate - if it’s meant to be, it’ll be.

Tell me haj1ma are you Indian?

is half / half

some people are born with luck imho like pretty people and rich people

but there are some stuff that are up to us hmmm and I say this as someone who whine constantly about being ugly and poor lol

and God exists

but I guess religion-theme debates can be tiresome

It's a combination of luck and hard work. There are things you can do and ways to position yourself to increase your odds of getting lucky. You have a negative attitude, which causes you to fail before you even start. Study web development or something. All you need is a device and an internet connection, and you clearly have both.

Quote from haj1ma

I was never like this, I was the most kind person you could ever imagine. Life turned me into this miserable bitter person, I tried my best, but it never worked out. I was writing my suicide note earlier, too late now I am almost 30 and lonely. There is really no point to live in my situation.

No, you LET life turn you into a miserable, bitter person. Suicide is the opposite of hard work. It's the easy way out. Suicide is always going to be an option for tomorrow. You might as well hitchhike to the nicest location on your continent just to see what happens. Maybe the person to pick you up will kill you, maybe they'll give you a job, or maybe a million dollars. If you're serious, does it really matter at this point? Just pick a direction and start walking to see if something good happens before you die of exhaustion or starvation or whatever. It's better than being a bitch about it.

Quote from haj1ma

Then what wrong am I doing!!

Why is everyone able to have a normal life

Find partner

Find job

At least average looking (I am ugly)

get better education than me

have loving parents

Have no health issues

Except for me

It's not like I am not trying.

Enough with this bs life is luck, if you weren't lucky enough to get the opportunities and the advantages you have, you wouldn't make it. Hard work is easy, opportunities and advantages are the hard thing.

I will just put this picture here.

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You are WAY luckier than the kids in the pic. Their parents failed them, but they're also trying their hardest to survive. Those kids probably never made it to 30, but look at you, mister lucky and privileged. There are billions of dead people who would take your position in a second. You are one of the luckiest people ever to have been born.

Quote from sleeplessnights

Just reroll better in your next life

you need the lucky feat...which apparently the OP did not take

(i hope you understood the reference)

contrary to what everyone else says I do agree with you somewhat...

luck does play a part in life...sometimes one is born with bad/tragic circumstances - certain people turn into social/psychopaths (I can't remember the difference) while others use that for the better...

you gotta make do with what you are given...

successful/ambitious people put themselves into positions where they can take advantage of such luck to change their circumstances...

btw, for some educational info. Mumbai's slums have their own businesses and no one is idle there. People work hard there❤️🥺

bruh I can't you seriously. Literally the other day, you said you got a nose job from a posh Beverly Hills clinic. Now you're here crying about how poor and ugly you are, and comparing yourself to Mumbai slums residents. Pick a narrative!