do you still stan Joy if she not drop Crush in near future?

I mean. I dont know what kind of person keep a relationship with a racist, but i know is the kind of person i wouldnt stan. So, how about you?

OK. SINCE I DONT GET WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR, HERE IT IS. DOU YOU KEEP STANNING JOY IF SHE DONT DROP CRUSH SOON?

Wow. Nobody wants to answer the second question? Mmmm.

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I dont stan her in the first place so

Mmmm, thats convenient

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She's not him.

I believe this apply only in family. In a couple is different.

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Does stanning her means stanning crush?

Oh, ofc not. But, do you keep a relationship with a racist? This wouldnt bother you, wouldnt go against your values? And now: You will stan somebody who have a relationship with a racist?

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Let's say that her family are all racists.

Does that makes her a racist too?

You cant choose your family, but you can choose your couple.

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You stan her??

Oh well, celebs are already liking his "apology post" so ...

I think what he did was disgusting, but i don't know about Joy.. she always seemed nice and kind.

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unstan whoever you want

Alot of idols have liked his apology post

Many kcelebs won't care about this issue

Mmmm, im missing something? why i should care if this celebs are liking his post?

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i dont know either of them. Just because a person is friends with someone doesnt mean they behave the same or share the same values/mindset. Why would you punish somene for something they didnt do just because u dont like one of their friends? If shes not openly supporting his behavior why does it matter? How do you know whether or not shes discussed the matter with him? You dont. There is nothing wrong with liking or supporting someone who has friends you dont support. Shes not behaving inappropriately so leave her alone. The answer is simple.

First, they are a couple. Second, do you keep a relationship if you find out he/she is racist?

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They're strangers to me. KPop will always be about the music to me Idgaf about the person themselves. Joy is not her boyfriend.

So you dont care what values have the people you stan? They can be anything, and you dont mind?

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Bc those people also won't drop him??? Expecting Joy to end a relationship, but forgetting celebs will stay his friends, isn't it like the same logic?

Liking his post dont make him less racist.

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Good for them to be a couple thats their private business. People in my family are a bit racist and they have their reason but i am not. Obviously im not disowning my family. If i date someone and they end up being racist they can keep that shit to themselves. As long as they dont do anything in public or embarrass me over it idgaf. *shrugs*

I see, thanks for your honest answer.

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Well, yeah that's true

(Even tho for some people, they can cut off their family ties and make a new one, but that's another problem)

But what I want mean is, even if she surrounded by racists, it doesn't make her a racist too.

But, to be clear... I want to ask you. Perhaps by "joy don't dumping a racist", you mean : "joy supporting a racist"?

Not necessarily, maybe she dont care at all about racism against black people. Now, i know i cant stan a person who is so indiferent against racism. Do you?

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I don't even know who her boyfriend so it's not affecting me. I only stan for Joy cause I love Red Velvet. I don't care about Joy and her personal life.

Lol. You dont answer the question, but ok

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So you just wanna single out joy instead of all the celebs who are supporting him regarding this issue?

If there is a Twice, RV or Itzy member in there? If not i dont mind.

You know, i feel i would receive different responds if he had been racist against an korean idol instead of a black person. Is funny