i'm friends with bobsyouruncle so i think i don't really care what people think
i wish i had bob as an uncle
if he can fix anything, surely he can fix my life
i'm friends with bobsyouruncle so i think i don't really care what people think
ill take it 
Somewhat. My friends live with me, and they’re basically family, so a partner would need to get along with them.
It would take a whole lot for me to prioritize one person over the group that I’ve lived with for years.
i dont mean they wont get along
i mean your social circle with judge them as being below your status/level
My social circle is made up of good people that trust my judgment, so that would never happen.
fuck what they think, love is love
The only one who could probably convince me to dump someone is my mom. If she doesn't like you, there's probably a valid reason. My mother and I are thick as thieves, so if she says she doesn't like my partner and doesn't want them around, they gotta go because she wouldn't just say that or do that willy nilly and it is probably in my best interest to listen to her.
It would bother me if my bff did not like my partner, but not enough to dump them. I don't really like my bff's partner, but I live with it. He also doesn't really know that I don't like her that much. The only issue in terms of my best friend is that he is a guy, and I know some guys would have an issue with that. If a guy told me to drop my best friend, I'd probably break up with him, but I don't see that happening since we live in different states anyway.
about what others think when it comes to choosing a friend or a partner
by others i dont mean parents since they probably matter a lot but friends, friends circles, and society as a whole where you are going to be displayed and judged
do you just care about how you feel about the person or do you think you "deserve" a certain person based on your status in different social hierarchies?
I believe both. I deserve to be treated like a queen and I will treat all my friends like the royalty they are. Good friends are not a dime a dozen. What you put into a relationship, you should get out too.
So if you treat me like dirt, you're getting it back. If you treat me like a gem, I will be that gem and treat you likewise. Two way street and I don't think it will ever work out if that's not true.
I believe both. I deserve to be treated like a queen and I will treat all my friends like the royalty they are. Good friends are not a dime a dozen. What you put into a relationship, you should get out too.
So if you treat me like dirt, you're getting it back. If you treat me like a gem, I will be that gem and treat you likewise. Two way street and I don't think it will ever work out if that's not true.
how is that relevant to what i said
Well…
I would keep those close to me's opinions in mind but I make my own choices. Just because someone didn't get along with someone else or didn't work out with someone else doesn't mean they are a bad person.
however, since i'm single and don't give a shit about anyone you can see how far my judgement gets me lol.
I'd want everyone to get along, but ultimately it's my choice, my heart, my feelings. If i feel strongly for someone and i'm happy then my friends should respect that.
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