so i keep coming back to kpop please help me out

It's really hard. I used to be like this. There just came a time when I just grew out from being a kpop fan girl and moved on with my life. I sustained being away for like 5 years. Just a year back, i came to akp again coz of quarantine and I got bored. I left after 3 months last 2020 and I just came back yesterday from being inactive for almost a year.

I think it's not kpop that's bugging you. It's being active in kpop community sites or groups. It's so addictive that it takes away a lot of your time. I suggest you try to control yourself from coming to these sites.

Girl, I'm telling you. log off and do homework. Like literally turn your wifi or data off and study. It's so so helpful, I have a similar story to yours.

I'm glad you've changed your mind on exo

Also if you're really having trouble managing school life and kpop life, Try to set small goals for yourself like instead of spending 4 hours watching kpop, try to break it down to 3 hours and allocate that to your studying time. Keep doing that until you can limit and control yourself

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Have a schedule. Study and reward your self with keeping up with ur fav groups when you reach your study goals

Don't just keep up with Kpop all day. Plan your study schedule like I will study for 3 hours then for 1 hr I will watch mvs, be active on allkpop, twitter, then go back to studying.

Anytime you find yourself staying too long on kpop remind yourself of the repercussions you will face if you don't study. The people you are keeping up with are out there living their best lives making money while u are just there giving all your attention to these rich people and not focusing on your future.

I love this.

this was me two years ago except I was going for engineering not med school :-D

when shit happens you start loving everything you once hated, and start disliking everything you once cherished

glad to have a MOA back

I have a lot of interests:Kpop, Jpop, Anime, manga, JDorama. But all of them are just hobbies, which I do when I only have spare times, having fun, and for entertainment. Obsession is a big nope, it will ruin your life

So first, set your priorities, real life is above everything. I have similar method with Eternity-April

Watching TXT contents as REWARD after I finished my jobs properly. Only follow big fanacc, so you don't need to scroll your whole TL all day to know the news about your faves. I only check my social media around 3-4 times a day.

Good luck with your study

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glad to have a MOA back

Lol wait i just skimmed op mygsbeat

You still a MOA or should I kick you to the curb? Also I better see no shade to BTS

hmmm cut all of it out if it keeps pulling you back in

Lol totally understandable. I’m addicted not only to kpop but this forum too. Too many lovely users here that makes everything interesting

Well I hope you have better self control now that you’ve changed biases and groups. Good luck!

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i’m moa for life and i respect bts too much to ever hate on them. i used to be their fan for like three years so it’s hard completely turning on people you devoted so much of your time and love to

Ok good

I'll keep one eye open

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gosh i hated exo and now i’m fucking in love with everything about them.. d.o and call me baby>>>>> what has this come to.

THAT PART

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wow how on earth did you revive this dead thread..

So, you're still trapped?

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wow how on earth did you revive this dead thread..

It was in similar threads below one of th threads i was reading....

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i’m not sure whether any of you even remember me but i used to be pretty active on the old forum around last year. so basically up until a few months ago, kpop was the biggest part of my life and because of that some shit happened. naturally.

i failed second year of med school because i wouldn’t stop obsessing over yeonjun’s cowboy hair and we lost the summer— the superior minisode track wbk. so it was time for this obsession to take a backseat. i was lit rally going to be a doctor in a few years not a kpop expert. i said goodbye to my faves (txt <3, bts and a few groups here and there) and yeeted myself out of the kpop universe

the first three months were great. i barely knew what my guys were up to and that was good. started playing pubg which turned out to be a worse thing to get obsessed with but that’s a story for another day. anyway the problem is that i’ve started checking out on groups that i would anti and it’s just so weird now... like from not giving blackpink a single view bc of the silly fan wars between bts and blackpink to now streaming their songs pretty frequently... gosh i hated exo and now i’m fucking in love with everything about them.. d.o and call me baby>>>>> what has this come to.

i’ve completely unstanned bts which is great because i got into the kpop rabbit hole because of them!!!!! i’m holding them accountable. sorry guys i loved u for three years and i wasn’t left with more to give

in conclusion i supposedly leave kpop for a few months and suddenly start actively interacting with the groups i used to hate on?????? please give me great advice on how to flush this kpop bug out of my system. my repeat exams are in a month and i CANNOT afford to fail... send help juseyo

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Honestly it hurts but there's no way around it. Get permabanned, ask the mods here, delete twitter, do not go anywhere near music or kpop. A cold disconnect is the best way out. Focus on calling your family and friends, also in study groups to focus on studying. If you want to take a break, do not listen to kpop.