am i sasaeng for messaging a idols family member???

This with you almost dying bc an idol is dating just shows that you need professional help.. you are obsessed in a scale that for now it isn't harmful, but it could become something bad in the future for yourself. Don't go too deep in this hobby.

If some idol relatives are my neighbours, I wouldn't talk to shady people

Isn't that action makes a person smarter and superior? Not obsessed? Act like it if necessary, unless you are in a breakeven point of no return. Please, better to submit oneself to the police force to deal with if it comes off as stalking beyond help.

the fact you even know what this idols familys instagrams are is scary.

i don't look for the instagrams of the relatives of my bias.

i only pay attention to what he actually shares.

what's your goal with sending him messages? like why do you want to do it

please tell me ur trolling

I think it's saesang behavior even though you are not being toxic.

Why would you go one step further and communicate with the father?

Do you think he's going to befriend you and become close with you?

And you saying you don't care about being judged negatively by other AKP members is seriously concerning.

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the fact you even know what this idols familys instagrams are is scary.

i don't look for the instagrams of the relatives of my bias.

i only pay attention to what he actually shares.

Exactly. I think knowing about the artists is fine since they're in the spotlight.

But, trying to learn about and contacting family members is crossing the line.

jay from enhypens dad???

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(don't judge me, im here for actual opinions not hate)

so I've been messaging idol (A) father on Instagram using my korean account.

not being weird, but as a fan who biases his son.

it started off as me sending a long message saying how proud I was of his son and thank you for birthing him etc

no I didn't think I'd get a actual response, but he did respond...like twice 2 days after I had sent that message.

ever since that time, I would send messages to his account every few weeks, not often. Just telling him stuff about his son and being happy for a achievement that happened.

he didn't respond every time, but so far I've gotten a total of 6 responses (I've been messaging his account for only 2 months now)

this post came about because I just sent him another message on instagram...no I don't know if he'll respond to this one.

but when we've texted, it was obviously in korean, I use translate and when he send a message back I translate in google

no! I'm not tryna get close to said idol AT ALL, I know that's not how it works

it just feels surreal that he actually responds once in the blue, and I don't think he minds, especially since I'm probably not the only one who messages him.

the idol is from the Big 4, and a good- but small amount of fans from the group know and follow his account too

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wtf

The only person i have ever DM'ed on instagram in my whole life is Min Heejin

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i actually didn't even know he had a instagram, since Jay never talk about his dad frfr lol

apparently he’s v active so i thought it was him lol. saw a video on tiktok that showed him interacting with fans during concerts and on instagram as well. he follows all jay fan pages too

doesn't matter what the dad thinks it's weird and obsessive on your end

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you worst off than me

Come on, i just sent a marriage proposal, nothing bad

Yes, you crossed the line here. Stop with it and you won't be playing a ridiculous person part anymore, save yourself.

wait was op banned for this?

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wait was op banned for this?

Yes..... until July 2029 according to the pop-up description box.

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wait was op banned for this?

op has been banned multiple times. the forum will only be more peaceful without them.

lets hope it takes them a long time to find an account of theirs that hasn't been banned.

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op has been banned multiple times. the forum will only be more peaceful without them.

lets hope it takes them a long time to find an account of theirs that hasn't been banned.

Let's hope they don't return at all.

To Moderators ~ Can this be locked please since the author was banned and everyone's consensus answer was they were being a sasaeng?

Thank you.

I hope you are banned from this forum.

i mean i wouldn’t rlly consider that stalker behavior but it’s kinda weird that ur talking to his dad

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I hope you are banned from this forum.

that’s not it…

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op has been banned multiple times. the forum will only be more peaceful without them.

lets hope it takes them a long time to find an account of theirs that hasn't been banned.

permanently or what

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Yes..... until July 2029 according to the pop-up description box.

whaat that's so uncalled for

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It does matter what he thinks, because hes fine with it from what i see.

He's messaged back on more than 3 occasions, and everything has been very respectful and positive.

Its even gotten to the point where hes asked am i doing well and stuff when i messaged him, which means he slightly cares about my well-being

he's a great father

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> here for opinions

> hey man it's weird stop

> nah man