this is how I stan
Monsta X - listen obsessively to their music (top .005 of their listeners on Spotify), have attended two of their concerts, bought albums/ merch, have seen clips of some of their content/variety, try to know about their music activities, reasonably aware of their other activities, feel like I know a relatively decent amount about their public personalities
EXO - listen obsessively to their music, no concerts since i became a fan, bought album/merch, know about their activities due to the exotics, have seen a few clips of their content/ variety but not enough to say I know what their public personalities are like except to say Baekhyun seems loud
Got7 - listen to quite a bit of their music but not as much as the others, no concerts since I became a fan, I have some albums/merch, have seen tons of their content since I used to have a friend that was really into watching them, know more about them personality-wise than MX or EXO and enjoy their interactions a lot
I don't follow any of them on social media, cuz I don't really use that.
How about you?