What's a clear boundary you have

I'm an introvert, and when people can't respect that, and repeatedly attempt to guilt trip me into being "more outgoing" and spending more time socialising than I can handle, I won't hang out with them at all anymore. I have a demanding job and I need time alone to be able to unwind and recharge.

Ordinary introversion is not an illness that needs to be cured, and I won't attempt to be someone I'm not just to please the extroverts anymore.

Just because society currently thinks that being an extrovert is the only correct way to be doesn't mean it actually is.

Forcing me to do something I don't want to do, repeatedly

people dont get a second chance if i hear that they've been talking shit abt me behind my back

I don't like friends making fun of me. As someone who's been genuinely bullied I take things like that seriously.

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people dont get a second chance if i hear that they've been talking shit abt me behind my back

exactly!!! why talk shit about carotnotcarrot behind their back when you can talk shit about them to their face!!!!

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exactly!!! why talk shit about carotnotcarrot behind their back when you can talk shit about them to their face!!!!

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happy mid autumn festival my friend - did you consume lots of mooncake?

frfr lol the most awkward(and drama-like) when they were talking shit abt me in the toilet but then i walked out of the cubicle, geez i can never forget the look on their faces, kinda funny ngl

happy mid autumn!!yes lol they were so good

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I'm an introvert, and when people can't respect that, and repeatedly attempt to guilt trip me into being "more outgoing" and spending more time socialising than I can handle, I won't hang out with them at all anymore. I have a demanding job and I need time alone to be able to unwind and recharge.

Ordinary introversion is not an illness that needs to be cured, and I won't attempt to be someone I'm not just to please the extroverts anymore.

Just because society currently thinks that being an extrovert is the only correct way to be doesn't mean it actually is.

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That's exactly me too.

When I say "no" to something, and I'm not joking around, if you don't respect it fully and completely, with no hesitation, things are about to not look all that good real soon.

whenever someone tries to control me, or treat me like my only purpose is to do whatever they say

Making fun of my insecurities or using it as a "running gag"

Constantly putting me in uncomfortable situations, knowing perfectly well how I feel

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frfr lol the most awkward(and drama-like) when they were talking shit abt me in the toilet but then i walked out of the cubicle, geez i can never forget the look on their faces, kinda funny ngl

happy mid autumn!!yes lol they were so good

sounds like straight out of a movie lol

nice nice

I don't like talking on the phone

The fact that people overanalyze such a simple preference ticks me off

Don't fucking call me

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I don't like talking on the phone

The fact that people overanalyze such a simple preference ticks me off

Don't fucking call me

If they ever pull that with you, redirect them to me. I'll talk their ear off until they get sick of being on the phone. 90% of the conversation will consist of Chan. Finally, a victim to talk to about how awesome he is. I'll have the captive audience I dreamed of!

thought of another one..people touching my things