Posts by Serendipity2000

Bts and hybe even told me that they specifically made and released dynamite so it's anniversary can steal pink venom's thunder. It's true.

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Official updates go in the K-news section.

Please post them there in the future.

Thanks.

Also, we can use the forum taglist to assemble the Onces! OnceTaglist

These pictures looks so good!!!!!

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Jk. I'll post it here next time

Quote from horizonshard

Official updates go in the K-news section.

Please post them there in the future.

Thanks.

Also, we can use the forum taglist to assemble the Onces! OnceTaglist

These pictures looks so good!!!!!

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Do you think I'm ok after seeing that tzuyu pic?

y'all really be battling anything these days...

I thought it was out today  

Tzuyu in that fit

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Well I'm kinda late to the party but he seems like a major "nice guy". If you don't know what a Nice Guy is, it's a man who treats a woman well and respectfully to prove he's not like other men, but if the woman doesn't reciprocate feelings or doesn't respond the way he wants to, then his behavior becomes rude and even aggresive. Nice guys dunk on other women and are typically misogynists

Tim fits the description pretty well imo I'm sorry this happened to you. Normally these guys act this way if something you have is of interest to them, which probably explains why he also gets along well with your boss...

I know it's hard in this context but try to put boundaries and do your best to distance yourself. He seems like your typical idiot but there are some real creepos out there. Take care

by the way it's common-nobody. changed my username a few days ago

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Your right on time! Ah yeah that certainly fits Tim and his passive aggressive behaviour. I don't have to interact much with him anymore! Ah I knew it! What does this new username stand for?

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There are people that like having someone be dependent on them and only them. If you have others you can go to besides him, then he doesn't have control over you anymore.

I think he doesn't see it as a burden, but more as petting his feeling of superiority and control.

Ah...that makes sense...

Edit: Thank you!

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my two cents? He's grooming you and considers you his property.

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RED FREAKING FLAGS

Replies on akp give me more perspective but ngl I lowkey hoped it was tough love from a misogynistic abrasive mentor who wanted me to be more dedicated without distractions but the sooner I see it for what it is, the better.

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I can only see major problems from that "relationship".

I would distance yourself from him immediately, and try to expand your connection with other coworkers.

It seems to me he wants you to be dependent on him and only him.

Yeah your right, neither him nor my boss were okay with precisely that...even "called me out" for smiling/waving at people outside the team, they aren't on my team now so they flipped the switch on that. I chalked it upto them being conservative but yeah this adds up better...but I'm a bit confused on the dependancy part... Won't having someone depend on you just be a burdern?

I have/had a coworker, Tim, who paid for my lunch for over a month when I was new to the city because outlets wanted online payment (a very foreign concept to me, back then) not cash. He refused to let me repay him till I tricked him to take it. When I paid for myself he joked that I learnt it so fast so I wouldn't want to be indebted to him. There was a device I wanted for weeks he overhead that I wanted it and the person incharge personally handed me the device.

Now Tim is very conservative and his stance on feminism is quote "fuck feminism" which idk if its another "joke" or if it explains these incidents. If I shook a coworkers hand to wish him luck he questioned it till another coworker intervened. When I was overloaded with work, he defended my verbally abusive boss, but took on the project with me so I could finish sooner. If I laughed with another coworker he'd call my boss and say it's disturbing him or he'll report us to HR "jokingly". The same day when I had to stay back he asked if I had a lot of work. I said yes and he said its because I do no work. If a friend trying to cheer me up hands me a few pieces of chocolate, he'd eat them judging me for accepting it but buy the same chocolate and offer it days later. When I bickered with a coworker in whos eyes the boss could do no wrong but anything I said was twisted to sound ridiculous, Tim would say he will always take the coworkers side, not mine. He "jokingly" said the only other woman on our team besides the boss was out to get me during the time when I cut him off for his "jokes". That lovely lady was the ONLY one who spoke up for me against my boss. These incidents are confusing because yes a lot of them can pass of as jokes but some of them seem out of line.

Tim was friends with my boss who gave him a lot of opportunities. I've seen him be put down by another boss. The other boss was directly snide whereas my boss was covertly abusive to the women on our team.

If I seperate the art from the artist. Tim is a genius in the making and encouraged me to start putting my work out there too. Whenever these incidents happen I just go into my shell and then Tim immediately stops with his "jokes" but after a few weeks it resurfaces just like before. I want these "jokes" to stop or grow a thicker skin for the sake of learning from Tim.

Tzuyu center

I kinda like IVE's makeup artist and stylist tbh. Most of their looks are so chic.

Pop both the title and the bsides charted in sk and internationally if I'm not wrong.

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What is this doing in knews? No verified sources or news outlets have picked up on this so why is it regarded as news??

OP add discussion to your topic to have it put in klounge because it’s an important topic

I second this @ripia I have added a dicussion to the OP please put it in the k lounge.

i'm confused as to why this is in the k-news section @ripia

The gist of the situation from what I got was in a livestream where people mention all kinds of random shit, including marry me or curse words. He zeroed in on a word....BTS and went off. I get that its wrong to mention bts in a livestream but holy shit this is extremely innappropriate. I'm not even an ARMY but some entitlement and confidence with which Indian men deliver threats against women is scary.

Edit: Some people are saying she didn't even comment about bts it's just her user id was bts fan....man this is so weirddd.

What I wanted to post as an article, incase it doesn't get posted.

It's disheartening to see support for such behaviour in incelcore communities like reddit. This backlash against teenage girls and their hobbies are nothing new unfortunately but mixed with India's misogynistic echochambers, it's extremely alarming.

It's truly a shame that prejudice against women is so deeply entrentched in "meme culture" in India that they forget their humanity for internet brownie points from strangers. 

In a country who's toxic sports fan culture has made several rounds, an incident like this is seen as a pathetic victory against a imaginary caricature of a "teenage girl" that doesn't exist. This brings us to the question would they have cheered if a football or cricket related user name was called out?

https://www.google.com/amp/s/w…fans-fandom-toxic-ipl-t20

These comments made it seem like the fan was being disrespectful or out of line. She seems to be polite and respectful. So is jake. There are so many thinkpieces and viral tweets scrutinising idols but the fandom shouldn't inform them about it if they had the chance?

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disagree with people who are saying doing this isn't the right way

I don't see how being on twitter or AKP and doing thread about how idol should be educated or how idol should be hold accountable for their mistake

and do dozen of thread calling idols, racist, homophobic, fatphobic etc.....

is better than doing what this fan did , and weirdly i see none of you having a problem with people doing this on AKP

So people complaining on this thread about this are a little bit weird for me

so you are okay with people "trying to make idol accountable" by doing threads here and bullying them by saying that they hate them for being fatphobic etc.... and none of you open their mouth to say anything about people doing this or talking about doing this will not change anything

but you find weird and not the right way that a fan just say politely and respectfully to their idol that their comments make some fans uncomfortable and they should try to think before doing this remark

weird takes, so now bullying, mocking is more normal for AKP user than having a polite discussion with someone about their mistake so they try to avoid them in the future '-'

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Exactly

I lowkey feel weird for watching this but these outfits do suit their sillouhetes.

And idk if they were mocking him but his muscles have never looked better