Struggling with looking like a real women :( Advice on how to lose face fat??

I am starting a new chapter of my life where i am a women but my features are not cooperating with me and no matter what I do I look like a teenager. Last year I used to have no baby fat on my face. My jawline and cheekbones were really beautifully chiseled and defined like my mother and sister, but the problem was..... I was underweight and had a childish body. Fast foreword to present time, I worked to gain 20 pounds and it went to my chest and hips but BOOM lost my face card just like that. So currently i have a womanly body I had always dreamed of but now i lost my womanly face and instead I have a chubby face. I was wondering if using a gua sha will help me be able to have my old jawline and cheekbones back. Or if anyone else has any other advice on how to lose weight on my face without effecting my body so I can become an adult on the outside like I am on the inside.

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ive honestly just started embracing it but maybe look into face yoga. maybe mewing? idek if thats for face fat. if you're interested in it, maybe makeup. i have a lot of friends with baby faces but look way more mature when they apply makeup

Thanks. I just watched som yt videos and I will start today. Have you tried some??

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First of all I'm so proud of you for your hard work!

And yeah I struggle with something similar. I'm a teen so it's not that big of a problem but my face is chubby and makes me look fuller than what I actually am, and I don't wanna lose weight to the point where I'm too slim just to have a more defined face

It could be that you're simply not used to your fuller face. Maybe your cheeks are standard but you don't realize it. If you're sure they're super super chubby than I suggest a doctor that can help you with that, could be something in your diet, or external factors.

Weight lifting also helps since people who practice it tend to naturlly exercise their face muscles as well

Just please don't consider any of those jaw chiseling products like the ones on Amazon. They're damaging to the jaw joints and can cause long-term pain

That's all I have! Have a lovely day hope this helped a bit!!

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Thank you so much love. I wouldnt say my face is super super chubby but its just more fuller and has less definition than it does before. Im sure its not something outrageous but I believe I was more beautiful and womanly with a slim face. It's even more noticeable coming from an habesha background and being surrounded with women who have such a contoured face with a curvaceous body but me on the other hand can only have one or the other. I am going to be trying facial exercise and maybe that will help. Also an fyi you shouldnt worry about your chubby face as you're a teen because my face thinned out a lot as I got older. Thank you so much for responding <3333

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from what I understand mewing actually minorly adjusts the bone structure.

I'd say mature makeup styles would help and (probably) produce the most immediate and tangible results but I'm a guy so take that with a freighter of salt.

i have triedddd

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i havent really tried face yoga. tried gua sha but didnt really notice anything different and my skin breaks out whenever i wear make up so i just gave up and enjoy the benefits of ppl thinking im 12 :)

damn. I was really hoping a gua sha would work. People on social media glorify it so much.

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yeah i did it pretty consistently too but didnt see much effects except for depuffing my face. i think makeup is the best bet

okay thank you love