since i have to wait too long to finish this 3D render, lets have some interaction
what are qualities ( can be related to anything ) you absolutely NEED in a partner, not just preferences?
since i have to wait too long to finish this 3D render, lets have some interaction
what are qualities ( can be related to anything ) you absolutely NEED in a partner, not just preferences?
They must be a respectful person who can make me laugh, loves learning new things, will put work into the relationship and improving themselves, is willing to give up sex for me (I’m asexual) and loves to help others as much as I do. Most other things have at least some degree of flexibility to them (for me). Have a great day/night!
respects my family, doesn't smoke
respects my family, doesn't smoke
Nice i prefer people who hate my dad with me
They must be a respectful person who can make me laugh, loves learning new things, will put work into the relationship and improving themselves, is willing to give up sex for me (I’m asexual) and loves to help others as much as I do. Most other things have at least some degree of flexibility to them (for me). Have a great day/night!
Very reasonable but that asexual part might be dangerous cause a lot of people might accept it at first then force you
they have to be smart, kind, loyal, and respect the music i like/the things i'm into (whether they themselves like it or not)
Respect the music is an odd requirement
Never heard of anyone who cares about it
Very reasonable but that asexual part might be dangerous cause a lot of people might accept it at first then force you
True. At the first sign that they might possibly force me or cheat on me, I dump them in a heartbeat. It’s still risky though, but I’ll try my best to be careful. Have a great day/night!
Respect the music is an odd requirement
Never heard of anyone who cares about it
there are people who think it's funny or cool to hate on Taylor Swift or BTS or BP (like actual hate)
and that's a dealbreaker for me
Attractive
At least 178cm tall
Must have a good stable job
Family man
Chill
Funny
not much, just someone who is filial and can catch cockroaches, bonus if he can cook well bc i love food
there are people who think it's funny or cool to hate on Taylor Swift or BTS or BP (like actual hate)
and that's a dealbreaker for me
Hmm
Makes sense
Although hate against musicians can definitely seem more abundant on the internet than it is irl
If you want to share your music though, it will be a problem
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At least 178cm tall
Must have a good stable job
Family man
Chill
Funny
A specific height? That's a first
Hmm
Makes sense
Although hate against musicians can definitely seem more abundant on the internet than it is irl
If you want to share your music though, it will be a problem
i'm fine if they dislike the music. but there are some people irl (i've met them trust me lol) who still think it's funny to slut shame taylor or call her untalented etc. and that's where i draw the line.
so sharing isn't really the issue for me i think.
btw i love your sig!
i'm fine if they dislike the music. but there are some people irl (i've met them trust me lol) who still think it's funny to slut shame taylor or call her untalented etc. and that's where i draw the line.
so sharing isn't really the issue for me i think.
btw i love your sig!
Oh
I haven't met people like that irl but yeah that would be intolerable
Most of my friends love taylor swift
We don't listen to her these days but we grew up with her music
And thanks. We love gay moms.
Smoking and regular drinking are absolute deal breakers. I don't want to be in a relationship with a drug addict.
Good personal hygiene is a must.
Ideally they're fun to be around, honest and loyal.
Smoking and regular drinking are absolute deal breakers. I don't want to be in a relationship with a drug addict.
Good personal hygiene is a must.
Ideally they're fun to be around, honest and loyal.
I mean, kpop fans, a lot of them, have a very unhealthy addiction too
I mean, kpop fans, a lot of them, have a very unhealthy addiction too
I really don't think you can compare these.
My father was an alcoholic and while he frequently got violent I've yet to be beaten up by a kpop fan after they listened to too much kpop music.
I really don't think you can compare these.
My father was an alcoholic and while he frequently got violent I've yet to be beaten up by a kpop fan after they listened to too much kpop music.
Was talking about smokers tbh
My father quit smoking long ago but i have friends who smoke and it has no effect on anyone whatsoever tbh
Was talking about smokers tbh
My father quit smoking long ago but i have friends who smoke and it has no effect on anyone whatsoever tbh
Depends. My father in law died of throat cancer 2 years ago. Smoking was the cause. It affected the whole family that he left behind.
But I don't want to argue about this.
I have my views and you have yours and we both have our reasons.
Depends. My father in law died of throat cancer 2 years ago. Smoking was the cause. It affected the whole family that he left behind.
But I don't want to argue about this.
I have my views and you have yours and we both have our reasons.
Its fine
I personally share your views on drinking and smoking too sibcryi can't stand eithet
i just don't think of them as miust-haves so i was curious
Fortunately I don't have to worry about dating as I have my life partner - 21 years next month. He hasn't got the physical attributes, (but then again he is nearly sixty), but he has been a constant rock for me in that time for my mental health and I'm ever so grateful and lucky. Good support is so important - forget looks and a good body.
Kind, Respectful, Responsible, Loyal and Honest.
The only thing they need to do is respect my family. Everything else is preferences.
Oh also don't be a serial killer or rapist.
not dating per se as dating wise it could be with anymore
but at least for marriage/long term partner potential one of my requirements was that they had to be Chinese...
I like guys who can read my mind
Tall (at least a few inches taller than me)
Is a gentleman
Doesn’t drink/smoke
intelligent
Faithful
Honest
A man of his word
Hygienic and takes care of himself
Humble
Loving
Is more rational rather than emotional
not dating per se as dating wise it could be with anymore
but at least for marriage/long term partner potential one of my requirements was that they had to be Chinese...
Chinese Chinese or ABC?
Kind, Respectful, Responsible, Loyal and Honest.
Display MoreTall (at least a few inches taller than me)
Is a gentleman
Doesn’t drink/smoke
intelligent
Faithful
Honest
A man of his word
Hygienic and takes care of himself
Humble
Loving
Is more rational rather than emotional
very standard
nice
Chinese Chinese or ABC?
more Chinese Chinese side of things...since even though I'm Chinese Australian I'm still very much Chinese more than Aussie so I wanted to find someone who spoke and wrote the language (Chinese) and understood the culture and so forth...which I did in my wife lol
more Chinese Chinese side of things...since even though I'm Chinese Australian I'm still very much Chinese more than Aussie so I wanted to find someone who spoke and wrote the language (Chinese) and understood the culture and so forth...which I did in my wife lol
nice
nice
what about yourself my friend?
any particular traits? quirks? personality?
what about yourself my friend?
any particular traits? quirks? personality?
eh well
absolutely necessary things would be :
optimistic/passionate/driven whatever you call it
atleast something in common to bond over
similar morals/values
about that I'd say when it comes to personality
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