Female idols more comfortable with feminine men than the typical masculin dude?

The concept of “feminine men” is problematic. Men are just men. Period. A man isn’t defined by how many muscles he has but if he identifies as one.

they can't handle alpha males

im not sure anything u said is factual it might just be on your own head

no women wants to be around no alpha man. they out here crazy and they is mental peoples, if idols around feminine men its cause they is normal and can't be shipped with cause everyone think they like men themselves, that is okay and we should embrace feminine men. alpha men be evil and they be scary. keep the alpha stuff to animals, we ain't lions, we ain't the tigers.......idols got to stop discriminating against all men, cause they be struggling with they jobs and livihood......just look at flop BTS..............

Have you considered that the reason some men are avoided is because there’s something wrong with them beyond their body type? Or are you that comfortable with freely spreading the incel rhetoric

Hm it's kinda hard to say because I'm a wonho stan but I don't feel like female idols are worried about interacting with him/doing challenges with him (from my point of view anyway) Like these challenges for example:

But I do think sometimes in kpop, female idols have to be super careful or are just uncomfortable. And that is totally okay, it's normal to step back sometimes or do what they have to do to feel comfortable.

Maybe they’re just shy

First of all give examples

Also alpha male is not just a look, alpha males come with toxic masculinity mind set that is uncomfortable to be around

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Kim Jong Kook tho is their sunbae

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and there are also bulked and Idols with bigger body "frame" and I saw many female Idols talking with them and interacting normally in variety shows etc.

one thing tho which everyone who works out will admit is that it's much easier to have abs and look so called 'shredded' or 'ripped' when your weight is just around 60 kg, than when your weight is for example 80 kg or more

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Jong kook is basically twice the age (or more) compared to most idols today, and one of the most beloved celebrities in the country, known for being friendly and generous. I doubt theres an idol under the age of 30 that didnt watch him on tv every week or know at least a couple of songs from him. I dont think he's a good example regardless of the opinion on this topic.

isn't that the logic heechul had about getting close to female idols??💀

not just female... I'm a guy and I rather talk with "feminine men"

Shy and introverted people may be afraid of strangers in general.

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not just female... I'm a guy and I rather talk with "feminine men"

care to elaborate on why? since OP is not elaborating

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care to elaborate on why? since OP is not elaborating

I put quotation mark because by feminine, I just mean by anyone who is not radiating toxic masculinity. I feel like I can be myself around them.

The alpha males, bros, and chads, are just so uncomfortable to be around. It feels like they're constantly putting up a facade.

Here are a few examples...

1.) I was with a friend whos like that and I saw puppy and I said "aww that's so cute" and his response was something along the lines of guys don't call things "cute"

2.) I once accidentally rubbed knuckles with someone when we're walking, and his immediate response was "no homo"... like chill...

3.) Just conversations in general, I've known people who always have to maintain a "tough guy" face and posture all the time, always keeping their biceps and pecs flexed, doesn't smile for photos, and speak at deeper voice than they would. It always makes me feel like there are only certain topics of conversation we can have.

Plus while we are here, these guys are also the type that would definitely judge you for liking kpop lol

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3.) Just conversations in generate, I've known people who always have to maintain a "tough guy" face and posture all the time, always keeping their biceps and pecs flexed, doesn't smile for photos, and speak at deeper voice than they would. It always makes me feel like there are only certain topics of conversation we can have.

This... I have a friend that keep asking me to gym, always talk about how to eat healthy and live like him... The rest of us all know very well why he is still single...