1. The funny thing is that I think the company wants to meet up and settle this privately, but the accusers don't want to.
2. There is an incentive to apologise, because like I mentioned, if they didn't then that is when you decide to blow shit up. You don't need to blow shit up if you sincerely want an apology. The apology should be made TO YOU, not TO THE PUBLIC and be like "I'm sorry I have ruined your image of me being a perfect idol" rubbish. They do not need to apologise to anyone but the accuser that is if the rumors are true.
The whole idea of making things big to me is because they don't actually care about the apology, they just want to stir shit. If they care about the apology, and that the apology is to be sincere made only TO YOU because YOU ARE THE VICTIM, not make the headlines.
If settling in private doesn't work and you don't get your apology, then by all means go fk shit up.
3. If the idol really is in the wrong the company won't make shit up to the media because if they do so the accuser will then continue to stir shit. You think companies want the scandal to hit the news and tell the media about it? They will try to bury it as much as they can why would they still approach media and make things worse for them they literally want this shit buried.
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1. Are we talking about something specific or just generally here? but in general I can kinda see why they would refuse to meet privately. If the accusations are fake, if they have little proof, or they could just be scared. Nothing can make you afraid more than going by yourself to a big company trying to make the scandal you've created (and you) go away. The company may say they want to settle it privately, but the accuser (and us) don't know what they will say or what will happen during that meeting. The fear of going to something as serious as a large company may keep them hiding, after all, if this person went to school with Soojin (I'm assuming from the wanting to meet thing your referring to her) then they must be max 22 and they may be easily intimidated, especially considering this is the scandal with the most attention right now due to that actress being involved.
2. But again, that may be so, but if the company says, 'we met with this person, they have no evidence, Soojin said she barely had any contact with this person, her friends barely remember this person, its a big school, and kinda random we already met with this person and now they are trying to start all kind of rumours AFTER we investigated thier claims privately and found nothing' then what does it seem like to the public? For them they may try and reveal this info afterwards but they already lost public sympathy and interest. They will just look like an anti who is trying to start something, and all the fans (and likely the public too) will say sue this person for their nonsense (and considering you can sue even if its true thats a risk).
Sure I agree it doesn't exactly seem like alot of these people really want an apology, they may also want revenge. But these companies are messed up and have entire media teams working for them (though it barely seems like it most of the time), with huge amounts of money and huge amounts of money invested in these idols having squeaky clean images and that can push them to do some bad things. If they treat thier own idols with the power of huge fanbases like crap what makes you think they will treat a threat to all that money they are making any better? What makes you think they will actually allow Soojin to meet with them and give them an apology? Didn't we hear a couple days ago about a company threatening the people who went to school with that Actor in New Zealand to keep thier mouths shut?
Sure there are instances where they have pre-meditated these things (wasn't the whole Taeyong thing already done before it broke since he met with and apologise to the actual girl and made friends long before someone tried to make it a thing?) but thats not exactly normal since it means they will have to admit to thier past and most companies just want to deny it instead. Not to mention I swear Taeyongs apology was done by his own initiative not at the behest of the company. Likely if SM had thier way they would pay them off or ignore it.
3. True, but by then its a war of words and credibility. If just 1 person came forward then the company says they've already investigated it and said its false who is going to believe this person no matter what they do or say? especially if no-one else joins them in the claims and the company manages to get friends to defend the idol. By then they will have lost credibility (especially if public sympathy is with that idol) and they will just be waiting to get sued.
Also how do you have so much faith in these companies to not lie? and CUBE of all the companies? Or am I the only one who remembers when CUBE denied Hyuna and Dawn were dating then had to backtrack when they came out? Then there was a whole mess about them kicking her out, then back tracking, then discussions till the contract was finally terminated. Realistically these companies have been caught lying, from big ones like with BAP to smaller continuous ones like with BLackpink's comebacks. Companies have even lied about thier artists getting DUI's and it wasn't until the video came forward that they had to admit it. If they don't think they will get caught, they will say anything and realistically if its thier biggest money maker they will do anything to protect it.