at what point is it too late

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at what point after getting to know a person is it too late to ask them out ?

at what point has it been sealed permanently as friendship and it becomes awkward to ask for more ?

well luke danes took 8 years to ask lorerai gilmore out, so if there are still feelings and both people are still alive its never too late

hmm I don't think it's ever too late

Based on personal experience

I think it'll never be too late if both can understand each other well

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technically its not but you risk losing a possible good friend too

If they are a good friend they will understand?

I have a friend I know for the past 12 years

he asks me out every couple of years I turn him down and we go back to our usual friendship lmao

I don't think it's ever too late if there were even ever a possibility.

Just as you can develop feelings at any time, that person also can.

It's more of a question of if that ever happens.

The person may see you strictly as a friend from beginning to end, or they may eventually grow feelings.

Either way, if you confess without a clear indication of their feelings, there is always a chance the friendship will crumble in response.

its never too late but, like twice the great philosophers of our time once said, love is timing

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it depends i rejected my good friend and we haven't been talking to each other for months now

I have a male bff. He is the only guy friend I would continue to hang out alone with if he confessed. Only because I can't live without him at this point. It'd be awkward, and I don't think I would be able to do certain things with him like I used to, but he's my bestie. I can't lose him.

Any other guy, I'd probably avoid being alone with.

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it depends i rejected my good friend and we haven't been talking to each other for months now

To me if someone treats you different bc they can't have you, they are not a good person.

It has happened to me too when someone was super nice and the moment they got rejected they became an asshole. To me those people are not great personalities and don't deserve my friendship.

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but what if that feeling develops later, not from the start

That can happen ttoo

Love takes time anyway

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aww ur fondness for him is so cute

Yeah, we've been through a lot with each other, and we've confided in each other about things we've never told anyone else so. He's like family at this point.