why do people care so much about bullying rumours

this goes to both people who get hyper defensive and hyper aggressive

no one knows if they are true or false and no one ever will because no matter what, the accuser has everything to lose and will probably back off against the law or money

but

who

the fuck

cares

who cares if they stole a pen or drew dicks on the board or hung out with degenerates or made someone feel unwanted or whatever these people come up with

those are petty things teenagers in every school around the world do and all of those are experience that make people grow

no more penis memes tho

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Some people just want to drag other people down

If it is their faves, ofc they think it's their obligation to defend them

faves?

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I personally don't give a crap but seems perfectly fine if some people do and wanna know an idol they might stan was a bully. I luckily never went through that but i know how harsh it can be and fuck you up for life

the kind of bullying that kills people and pesky teenage stuff are worlds aparts

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I dunno - I care more about how someone acts and comports themselves in the here and now, but then again I'm also one of those people that don't see the point in holding eternal grudges. If you've changed, you've changed. If you haven't, then I still won't give you the time of day, but you can do you somewhere away from me, I don't care. Very easy. The only time I would actively take a stand against it is if they are harming someone in the present.

the picture of penises is harming children's eyes

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tw

the nerves in my left arm and hand are messed up because when i was bullied in 2018, i pretty much cut daily after a bad incident happened (talked abt it on here before) that caused everyone to avoid me.

i went from having a group of friends to having no one.

people who i didn't even know where calling me a whore.

no one was talking to me. i mean no one.

not to mention the lovely social media posts where people ridiculed me and the school did nothing when i complained.

by the time people stopped caring, the pandemic hit, and i graduated.

but yeah, my left hand is significantly weaker than my right bc the nerves are absolutely scrambled from all the s.h.

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in another thread (about bullying) i talked about how almost immediately after this incident occurred, i kicked the shit out of the girl who started all of it and that was the only good that came out of this.

so it really depends. there's a fine line between bullying and the ridiculous teen stuff that happens that people call "bullying"

most of this lesserafim stuff isn't even in the realm of what many others have experienced and maybe the victims are right, but why didn't they try to punish the members before they got famous? if what they did was so bad, why not punish them then? why not take that picture and show it to the school sooner?

it's interesting.

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that's not a fine line that's a big fat road

and sorry that happened