I go with the flow but to be honest it's hard when the other person is shy or doesn't ask questions back. It starts to feel awkward and like a job interview....
I go with the flow but to be honest it's hard when the other person is shy or doesn't ask questions back. It starts to feel awkward and like a job interview....
if the other person doesnt show interest and treats it like a one way interview, i think its best to assume they are just not interested
not saying there arent people who can be awkward like that, but in that case, it wasnt meant to work anyway
some people are only comfortable with being friends first
Never thought about it
Might be a good idea to memorize some in case the awkward silence becomes too awkward
Just go with the flow.
The typical questions come up. Asking about jobs, family, what school they went to, how their week went.
Stuff like that. It's pretty mundane and basic, but it's a good indicator of chemistry for me. Like, if I can enjoy having a basic white bread conversation with you and find it exciting, I must like you.
i don't really get why anyone would want to have pre-set things to ask a date like a script.... obviously you ask questions but it is 100% better to go with the flow of conversation and build off of the things the other person is talking about or things they ask you.
the best way to tell if a person is worth dating is the vibes they give you, not the answer to some random questions they could lie in answer to anyway if they arent serious about you. js.
Just go with the flow.
The typical questions come up. Asking about jobs, family, what school they went to, how their week went.
Stuff like that. It's pretty mundane and basic, but it's a good indicator of chemistry for me. Like, if I can enjoy having a basic white bread conversation with you and find it exciting, I must like you.
i don't really get why anyone would want to have pre-set things to ask a date like a script.... obviously you ask questions but it is 100% better to go with the flow of conversation and build off of the things the other person is talking about or things they ask you.
the best way to tell if a person is worth dating is the vibes they give you, not the answer to some random questions they could lie in answer to anyway if they arent serious about you. js.
im not talking about generic questions
more like instinctive ones
for eg :
are you more of a dallaaaa~ girl
or a majaaa~~~ girl
I go with the flow. Plus I never go on a first date with a total stranger. I atleast need to know before hand if you’re employed, age, city you live in, if you have your own car…
like i would hate to go on a blind date and find out the person has been unemployed for 5 years and can’t drive…. uhhh yeah we’re wasting our time here.
It depends on how long we talked beforehand. Like my boyfriend now we only talked for about 2 or 3 days before he asked me out. I knew he was a welder when we first met. I knew that going in, but I didn't know why he chose that job, what company he worked for, or the specifics of what he did every day.
I knew nothing about his family or the school he went to because those things were not important to me at the time. It wasn't until the first date that I found he had a sibling and other things about him.
The basics of what I need to know going on a first date is if the person is employed, do they respect me and my time, and do they seem like an overall nice person. I can find out the rest by feeling them out on the first date. I spend that time getting to know them. I also make it a point to always have first dates during the day in public areas, so yeah, that's my system.
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