why is meanness so attractive

  • A bit of edginess is something a lot of people are into even if they won’t admit it. It’s not something everyone realizes consciously.


    Don’t mistake this for being a terrible or evil person. Not the same thing.

    ah yes edginess is a better word


    but i mean a lot of edginess


    the edgier the better

    cutting thru your feelings like a knife POG

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  • I don’t want to use real-world examples, so here is one. I think that’s why people love Sae-byeok from Squid Game. She’s mean as hell, but has every reason to be.


    People are attracted to people with interesting backstories. That person is so mean. They must have an interesting life story, right?


    So many other fictional characters are like that, even Maleficent or The Joker. When we see it in real life, it becomes something of a fantasy.

    i havent seen Squid Gaem but yeah something like Maleficent ig


    i also feel like emo/goth culture goes hand in hand with this which is why i like them both


    Joker is a bit more fantasy than reality


    i mean, I've grown up around some real edgy people so I've gotten so used to them I dont even see it as mean anymore

    in fact, someone too "well-behaved" seems extremely boring in comparison

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  • They just come across as extremely confident, and confidence is attractive. It’s what everyone aspires to be — a confident person who won’t take shenanigans from anyone.


    It’s why some of the humblest, nicest, sweetest people listen to badass songs from girl crush groups, for instance. You know how it goes!

    hmm ig


    i hate most girl crush songs though


    but thats more because of execution than concept i think

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  • there's actually a kink for that and there's people who enjoy roast me sessions but couldn't be me.. if irl someone says something mean to me I'll remember that on my deathbed :pepe-notes:

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