girls come here

I don't think we send mixed signals, I think that some people just don't understand subtlety. I can understand right away if my friend is upset, even when she says she's fine. Honestly some people only understand things when they're cut and dry

Girls dont give mixed signs more than guys do. Guys simply are more cautious nowadays because everything can be construed as some form of harassment against them clouding their (males) judgement.

I think it's the other way around lol

I realized that i can't be friends with men anymore because just by doing simple stuff like talking to them, laughing, or looking in the eyes is considered "flirting" so i only do that to close people or the ones i find attractive now. Sadly it is how it is, men can't be friends with women unless it's very clear for both that you're not each other's type.

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really?

that's extreme

It's because Ive been in many unwanted situations because of that. I feel very uncomfortable when people I'm not interested start looking at me that way and asking me to go in a date with them just because they thought i was available cause i was being friendly. So it's better to avoid the headache. It feels really weird when you realize people think you like them just because you're being yourself. Honestly, the biggest hint that someone likes you it's when they're nervous next to you, sometimes not even that.

if i like a guy, i'll act super nice to him and laugh at everything he says

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i must have been lucky to meet mostly pretty real people

What do u mean

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I realized that i can't be friends with men anymore because just by doing simple stuff like talking to them, laughing, or looking in the eyes is considered "flirting" so i only do that to close people or the ones i find attractive now. Sadly it is how it is, men can't be friends with women unless it's very clear for both that you're not each other's type.

Lol this is real af