Do you ever have the urge to prove your haters/bullies wrong? How'd you let go of it?

  • I don't even like them but it's weird like they are my target audience in all my daydreams. The people that fkn traumatised me. i don't remember my classmates who were nice to me the past few years but i can name every fkr from that hell hole class almost a decade ago. Everytime I get a Pat on the back I wish there was someway I could show them. I didn't want to be a part of them. They were gossipy and fkd up I just wanted some humanity and their respect. Whenever they heard about my achievements or someone complimented me. They'd ignore it or roll their eyes or claim it's false.


    They made my name sound like a bad word in school. I keep looking at myself with their eyes. I have a good life rn but people's validation is like a review I wanna wear for only THAT specific group of people to see but maybe they'd pretend not to see it even if it was on a billboard infront of them.

    Desbundar

  • Idek how ppl be letting go

    If someone mess wit me I’ll pop them, so if you don’t wanna get popped don’t be musty crusty dusty, periodt



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  • As someone who's family treated them like shit unless they were somehow better than normal kids. It was always what do others think at every step. I find it a bit hard to understand this.....so if I may ask... What's your philosophy on being ok with being underestimated or misunderstood?

    I have high self-esteem as well as delusions of grandeur. Plus I tested as gifted and was constantly called cute and pretty by people within my cultural heritage. It was usually the outsiders who underestimated me. They just saw a cute, petite doll who got good grades and didn't see the cold, self-assured evil inside. They judged a book by it's cover with their own prejudices.

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  • I have high self-esteem as well as delusions of grandeur. Plus I tested as gifted and was constantly called cute and pretty by people within my cultural heritage. It was usually the outsiders who underestimated me. They just saw a cute, petite doll who got good grades and didn't see the cold, self-assured evil inside. They judged a book by it's cover with their own prejudices.

    Thanks for the reply. I guess we were from two different worlds then...



    No, I just ignore them as attention is what they thrive on.

    Hmmm that's actually true as well. What about similar people within the family? How would you deal with that?

    Desbundar

  • Thanks for the reply. I guess we were from two different worlds then...



    Hmmm that's actually true as well. What about similar people within the family? How would you deal with that?

    I only have my older sister left in my family as both my parents are gone. I do the same with her as we have an estranged relationship and haven’t spoken in five years. She decided to wipe me. She bullied me for most of my life.

  • I only have my older sister left in my family as both my parents are gone. I do the same with her as we have an estranged relationship and haven’t spoken in five years. She decided to wipe me. She bullied me for most of my life.

    I'm sorry you had to go through that elf! I kinda have the similar situation...


    I have high self-esteem as well as delusions of grandeur. Plus I tested as gifted and was constantly called cute and pretty by people within my cultural heritage. It was usually the outsiders who underestimated me. They just saw a cute, petite doll who got good grades and didn't see the cold, self-assured evil inside. They judged a book by it's cover with their own prejudices.


    Hey I'm sorry I didn't mean to offend you or anything by my reply since you left the read thingy. Your expirences are valid and im sorry for any misunderstanding that I caused by my statement... I meant two different worlds since I suffer from the opposite of your experience. Low self worth and it's the outsiders that have seen more worth in me than my so called friends and family.

    Desbundar

  • I don't even like them but it's weird like they are my target audience in all my daydreams. The people that fkn traumatised me. i don't remember my classmates who were nice to me the past few years but i can name every fkr from that hell hole class almost a decade ago. Everytime I get a Pat on the back I wish there was someway I could show them. I didn't want to be a part of them. They were gossipy and fkd up I just wanted some humanity and their respect. Whenever they heard about my achievements or someone complimented me. They'd ignore it or roll their eyes or claim it's false.


    They made my name sound like a bad word in school. I keep looking at myself with their eyes. I have a good life rn but people's validation is like a review I wanna wear for only THAT specific group of people to see but maybe they'd pretend not to see it even if it was on a billboard infront of them.

    yes but i have already done that in life...I went back to the primary school where i was bullied about 10 years ago and asked the teachers that still taught there (there was one of them there) what happened with the former students and did they return/visit to get an insight as to what went on and so forth...


    lets just say i was satisfied with the answers he gave

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