Do you ever have the urge to prove your haters/bullies wrong? How'd you let go of it?

Idek how ppl be letting go

If someone mess wit me I’ll pop them, so if you don’t wanna get popped don’t be musty crusty dusty, periodt

I just breathe and walk

Not really. I'm aware that I am underestimated.

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As someone who's family treated them like shit unless they were somehow better than normal kids. It was always what do others think at every step. I find it a bit hard to understand this.....so if I may ask... What's your philosophy on being ok with being underestimated or misunderstood?

I have high self-esteem as well as delusions of grandeur. Plus I tested as gifted and was constantly called cute and pretty by people within my cultural heritage. It was usually the outsiders who underestimated me. They just saw a cute, petite doll who got good grades and didn't see the cold, self-assured evil inside. They judged a book by it's cover with their own prejudices.

it is a waste of time

i have many incel haters in forum

they know plenty of men in forum and outside forum who like me yet they keep saying that i am ugly and unwanted

No, I just ignore them as attention is what they thrive on.

Yes because in the past I feel like a Hero of justice but now I'm wise old man who knows that it's a waste of time

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Thanks for the reply. I guess we were from two different worlds then...

Hmmm that's actually true as well. What about similar people within the family? How would you deal with that?

I only have my older sister left in my family as both my parents are gone. I do the same with her as we have an estranged relationship and haven’t spoken in five years. She decided to wipe me. She bullied me for most of my life.

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Hey I'm sorry I didn't mean to offend you or anything by my reply since you left the read thingy.

No offense taken! I totally got what you were trying to say. I just use "read" when I don't have anything else to add. It's to show someone I'm not ignoring them.

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I don't even like them but it's weird like they are my target audience in all my daydreams. The people that fkn traumatised me. i don't remember my classmates who were nice to me the past few years but i can name every fkr from that hell hole class almost a decade ago. Everytime I get a Pat on the back I wish there was someway I could show them. I didn't want to be a part of them. They were gossipy and fkd up I just wanted some humanity and their respect. Whenever they heard about my achievements or someone complimented me. They'd ignore it or roll their eyes or claim it's false.

They made my name sound like a bad word in school. I keep looking at myself with their eyes. I have a good life rn but people's validation is like a review I wanna wear for only THAT specific group of people to see but maybe they'd pretend not to see it even if it was on a billboard infront of them.

yes but i have already done that in life...I went back to the primary school where i was bullied about 10 years ago and asked the teachers that still taught there (there was one of them there) what happened with the former students and did they return/visit to get an insight as to what went on and so forth...

lets just say i was satisfied with the answers he gave