Have you ever been told you're intimidating?

I remember having a DM conversation with someone on Discord from this forum and they said that they were nervous to talk to me because I'm "popular".

Me intimidating? Lol. I don't say boo to a goose half the time so I'd hardly think people would find me intimidating or threatening. I'm so meek.

When I don't fcking know what to do I default to blank slate.

When I default to blank slate in a formal meeting etc, I put both elbows on table, lean slightly forward, pick up nearest document with my right and prop up my head with my left, ya know the fist to mouth propping up thing

I've been told that I look like I'm about to end someone's career by preparing to shoot holes into their topic or presentation or smth.

Other than that I used to be maknae-like before I graduated HS.

only other thing people have said that I'm pretty tall and if I stand close to the person in front of me in line they get the feeling that I'm looking over their shoulder.

no, I don't look intimidating at all

Yeah, I'm not a person who smiles and talks a lot so I'm often told that I look serious or grumpy. In truth, I'm just awkward.

On internet, many times.

In real life, never.

no I give off happy go lucky vibes mostly

a couple times, I think it's because irl I don't talk too much and look a bit serious around people I don't know well

Not yet

They haven't said that..exactly. They've said more like "unapproachable", complex (only the smart ones), or I can feel some of their fear or insecurity because, when I'm serious, I have "king of swords" persona energy.

Not really. I'm not sure if I am or not. On one hand, I can be cold and standoffish, so maybe? On the other, I'm small and look like a teenager, so maybe not?

My mom likes to tell stories about how I could look at other kids and they'd do my bidding (mostly uptight rule following lol)... I don't remember this and clearly, it did not continue past childhood.

I've been told that i look like i wanna beat them up when people flirt with me