If accusers want an apology from the idols who were accused of bullying.....

But the attention tho

Nah, it's the 90's way of doing things what you sayin, bruh! Shit's outdated, bruh!

It's obviously better to make a public shitshow out of everything! You such an old ass boomer, bruh!

everyone likes

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Because they want to ruin the idols' career/source of income and their entire life

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akp users should use this too...

settle things privately before making it a big drama everywhere

but that's exactly the point...the point is to harm the other party as much as possible...

why would i settle for an apology when that's not the goal in the very first place...

REVENGE is a dish best served cold and the best way to do it is when the other person has the most to lose...

the long game!!!!!

Yep. The problem is that not only the idol who is accused is destroyed, but also their whole group who are innocent. So sad.

lmfao 🤣🤣you really expect victims to shoot the idol a text or a dm? They likely don't have their contact info and DMs are buried and ignored

but 1, how would they even get into contact with the idol and 2 even if they managed to get into contact whats the incentive to apologise? Not to say these idols are bad people or anything, but unless they genuinely feel sorry and remember that person who they bullied they may just ignore a random message like that asking for a meeting. After all, it could just be a fan, an anti or a reporter wanting to meet them to start something.

and most importantly 3, if they do meet with them, then the company then knows who they are and if they are unsatisfied with how the meeting went and go to the media the company can just release a statement painting them in a bad light and can the sue the person even if what they say is true. Most companies likely wouldn't let them keep thier phones in case of recordings etc since the only reason that stylist was able to record Irene was since she was staff so trusted.

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lmfao 🤣🤣you really expect victims to shoot the idol a text or a dm? They likely don't have their contact info and DMs are buried and ignored

They're former classmates, not internet randos. Plus, everyone knows idols' workplace. As a former schoolmate, if you have a score to settle, you could at least try to do it like a real person in the real world. Then if you get denied, you have a legitimate reason to bring the issue onto the social media and make it public.

they want to revenge

they don't care about apologies

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They're former classmates, not internet randos. Plus, everyone knows idols' workplace. As a former schoolmate, if you have a score to settle, you could at least try to do it like a real person in the real world. Then if you get denied, you have a legitimate reason to bring the issue onto the social media and make it public.

Why would they have a bully's phone number in their contacts?? Literally who in their 20s has all their middle school classmates in their contacts?? Yeah I'm sure they could just waltz into the company and get all their demands met instead of getting escorted out by security guards...y'all are delusional lmao did the few sane AKP posters leave when the forums migrated?

Nothing comes out of it. The victims want to expose the bully's bad behavior to the whole world. The bully's true nature will be out infront of everyone. The hurt and destruction the victim went through the bully will now feel a part of it. U can't just always privately meet and resolve everything. And why will i want to meet my bully to resolve anything? U think they'll ever apologize? They feel sorry? They don't.

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Why would they have a bully's phone number in their contacts?? Literally who in their 20s has all their middle school classmates in their contacts?? Yeah I'm sure they could just waltz into the company and get all their demands met instead of getting escorted out by security guards...y'all are delusional lmao did the few sane AKP posters leave when the forums migrated?

Oh but I totally agree that an adult in their 20's shouldn't concern themselves with schoolyard stuff that happened a decade ago. You're right, it was such a long time ago. So why even bother?

I never said they should enter the company's building. They can casually wait outside in the street and catch the idol when she comes or when she leaves, introduce themselves as their former schoolmate, have a little chat and maybe get the apology they wanted. Granted It's not really convenient, as they don't know how long they gonna have to wait. But hey, if it's not worth the trouble, why even bother with the issue in the first place? Just move on.

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Nothing comes out of it. The victims want to expose the bully's bad behavior to the whole world. The bully's true nature will be out infront of everyone. The hurt and destruction the victim went through the bully will now feel a part of it. U can't just always privately meet and resolve everything. And why will i want to meet my bully to resolve anything? U think they'll ever apologize? They feel sorry? They don't.

The problem is that when the idol clarify all the accusations, why don't they reply? They even don't give any proof (they said they have), just keep silent. So the idol gets hate and destroyed career for baseless nonsense accusations (like distort money, join gang, steal stuff, slap friends...). That makes fans unsatisfied.

Mina and Jimin were co-workers, they were on the same level professionally. I can understand a former victim not wanting a rich idol decked out in Cartier and Gucci strutting into their home. It's a big power imbalance.

Actually now I think of it, there's a risk that accusers who want to meet are just crazy stans who will pull anything to get face to face time with their ult. Taeyong jumped through multiple hoops and it didn't satisfy his informant - even though she was actually lying. So I'm not sure that helps.

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You think if the accusations were true soojin wouldnt be sorry and want to appologize. If soojin is really like that then she plays her role well. She needs to go work for the cia as a spy

Well i don't know if the accusations r true or not. If they turn out to be true she'll have to apologize as she is being exposed.Will it be a genuine apology? Doubtful about that.

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So it's true I guess, they aren't looking for an apology they just want to expose and make them suffer

Obviously. Why else r they exposing after they become famous? Revenge is everything atm.

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The problem is that when the idol clarify all the accusations, why don't they reply? They even don't give any proof (they said they have), just keep silent.

That's why I wouldn't call soojin as a bully as her alleged victim isn't coming out with her side of the story. Only writing secretive messages isn't helping anymore. The actress needs to come out with her side and then things can conclude. If she doesn't come out soon it's fake i guess.

It doesn't always work out. Hyorin's victim tried to contact her privately for a long time but was ignored. Hyorin only responded when the victim made it public.