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    Well that sounds like a vicious cycle - she doesn't think you like her, so she actively dislikes you which makes it hard for you to like her...


    What do you think she is telling your friend? Has she told other people this?

    Basically! :mads:


    Well my friend told me they both came to the conclusion that I was acting this way, but again I feel like there was input from B.. She sent me a meme two weeks ago, on a Friday, and we talked normally. Never mentioned anything about her feelings or problems


    Yeah they've talked to other people. Idk how many. She told me they're not the only ones who've noticed my supposed "gestures" or my "new behavior".. :|

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    Update so we are officially not friends anymore :pepe-life-support:  Ves  selfmate



    Well not officialy but like she has no intention of considering my friendship again and no matter what I do in this situation she'll still rather be with B, so yeah I guess it's back to sitting alone at recess..

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    Update so we are officially not friends anymore :pepe-life-support:  Ves  selfmate



    Well not officialy but like she has no intention of considering my friendship again and no matter what I do in this situation she'll still rather be with B, so yeah I guess it's back to sitting alone at recess..

    There are some friends you are better off without. All relationships take work, but the part that makes it a friendship is what good it gives you. When it's nothing but grief, it's not a friendship you should want to continue. All the same, I'm very sorry :(

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    wow some friend that turned out to be...

    hope you are doing alright mate


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    There are some friends you are better off without. All relationships take work, but the part that makes it a friendship is what good it gives you. When it's nothing but grief, it's not a friendship you should want to continue. All the same, I'm very sorry :(

    Yeah i truly loved and appreciated her.. I made a few mistakes and that was enough for her to end our friendship ;( I am really really sad today.. I don't know what I did so wrong. Thank you guys for the support :pleading:

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    Yeah i truly loved and appreciated her.. I made a few mistakes and that was enough for her to end our friendship ;( I am really really sad today.. I don't know what I did so wrong. Thank you guys for the support :pleading:

    maybe it's not you my friend

    if you were "best" friends with this person and she took B's side over yours maybe that's not a friend you want to have in your corner...

    I know it's hard now but if she can do this to you now imagine what will happen later?


    who needs enemies when you have friends like these

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    maybe it's not you my friend

    if you were "best" friends with this person and she took B's side over yours maybe that's not a friend you want to have in your corner...

    I know it's hard now but if she can do this to you now imagine what will happen later?


    who needs enemies when you have friends like these

    It was all so sudden too.. I'd never expect for her to act this way. She's never been resentful or the type of person to ignore you or to get upset over small things


    I'm still hoping maybe she still wants to resolve this and I'm the one interpreting her words wrongly... But that's more wishful thinking than anything..We've known each other for almost four years now, this is really hard for me ;( I thought she would at least take my opinion into consideration... :(

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    It was all so sudden too.. I'd never expect for her to act this way. She's never been resentful or the type of person to ignore you or to get upset over small things


    I'm still hoping maybe she still wants to resolve this and I'm the one interpreting her words wrongly... But that's more wishful thinking than anything..We've known each other for almost four years now, this is really hard for me ;( I thought she would at least take my opinion into consideration... :(

    maybe just give her time I guess

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    Anyone who you considered a friend for 4 years and drops you like the drop of the hat over someone else or someone else's words and can't have the decency to have a human conversation with you about everything and their feelings, and then "tries" and then drops you for good is and never was a friend.


    someone friends with you for 4 years doesn't say you just changed and suddenly hangs out with someone else. of course, those people are negative influences in their life, THEY are the ones changing, and clearly, she's gonna make you the villain.


    it will hurt but, in my opinion, she was never a friend to begin with. It's better she turns on you now and you have time to get over it and make new friends, then she keeps stringing you along for more years. It's really hard, but you will be fine, and you will meet someone that appreciates you better.


    Communication is always key, and friends can have more than one friend. I don't like some of my besties online friends, and she knows it, but she's not gonna stop talking to them and she won't be rude to them, she also won't stop talking to me etc. anytime we haven't seen eye to eye, we get mad, we come back, apologize to each other, talk it out or forget it. that's a friend. you won't always agree with each other, but for her to find some fault in you after 4 years just seems stupid to me.


    really, she's not worth your tears.

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