If one of your best friends dated your significant other
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Cut them both out of my life. They aren't much of a best friend and S/O if they're having an affair....
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Cut them both out of my life. They aren't much of a best friend and S/O if they're having an affair....
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Cut them both out of my life. They aren't much of a best friend and S/O if they're having an affair....
same, then I'd probably cry about it
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same, then I'd probably cry about it
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at least i'm probably going to friendzone them to a low tier friend forever
at my worst, well Time for the movers. change phone, delete socials, move to the next city over. (prepping secretly and then suddenly moving out when everything is ready ofc) Probably change workplace too or just remote or try to transfer to different dept. lord knows they might try to find me at work.
That being said If I had enough money I'd probably maintain and off-the-books property, something like a small house or apt as a bug out/ disappear room just in case. I never liked being unprepared.
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kill both of them.
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That's not likely to happen as my partner is extremely faithful as I am to him.
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divorce/breakup with the SO and ditch the best friend
all the people saying kill them or hurt them - that's a crime there are much much better forms of revenge!!!
tell their parents and friends
share it on social media
share it with their work colleagues and company and boss
take out an ad in the local paper in their names!!!
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that just happened without a legit cause , both of them went on secretly until rumors spread out and you busted it.
What are you gonna do?
Realize you had read both of those people horribly, publicly dump both of them, lick your wounds, pick up your pride and then go out with one of the other guys who'd showed interest AND treats you like you deserve to be treated. Not that this ever happened to me...
Remember people, stop giving the time of people who don't deserve you and for god sakes, make sure whoever you date treats you like the queen you are. That way when you treat them like the king/queen they are, you'll know they deserve it.
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that just happened without a legit cause , both of them went on secretly until rumors spread out and you busted it.
What are you gonna do?
in my case if would be best friend and husband
If that ever happened, my head/logical side would be telling me to get both of them out of my life asap.
But my heart/my weird second chance mentality would tell me to cut the best friend and give my husband a second chance even though I probably don't actually love him.
I feel like if my marriage breaks and I get a divorce I will become 'impure' infront of my family.
I have this irrational fear of my future husband cheating and it breaking my marriage after my neighbor's daughter had a similiar experience(she had a love marriage).
The fear is gotten to the point I am afraid that if I get into a relationship that isn't an arranged marriage it might fail.
And even in the arranged marriage it might fail if my choice is based on my preferance and not something my parents choosed.
If it was someone else, I would tell them to cut both of them out of their life, but for me, I wouldn't say that. I don't know why, maybe it's because I feel like I deserve less or because of that fear.
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in my case if would be best friend and husband
If that ever happened, my head/logical side would be telling me to get both of them out of my life asap.
But my heart/my weird second chance mentality would tell me to cut the best friend and give my husband a second chance even though I probably don't actually love him.
I feel like if my marriage breaks and I get a divorce I will become 'impure' infront of my family.
I have this irrational fear of my future husband cheating and it breaking my marriage after my neighbor's daughter had a similiar experience(she had a love marriage).
The fear is gotten to the point I am afraid that if I get into a relationship that isn't an arranged marriage it might fail.
And even in the arranged marriage it might fail if my choice is based on my preferance and not something my parents choosed.
If it was someone else, I would tell them to cut both of them out of their life, but for me, I wouldn't say that. I don't know why, maybe it's because I feel like I deserve less or because of that fear.
Hard part about human is people might change, not necessarily your future husband or you.
My take would be try to live a marriage life with the one you choose before marry him, you will find out whether if and when to go further.
Hope this is acceptable to your family and social opinions where you at.
Nothing is risk free, when you get married have kids , house / car mortgage to carry it makes the attempt to divorce complicated.
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Realize you had read both of those people horribly, publicly dump both of them, lick your wounds, pick up your pride and then go out with one of the other guys who'd showed interest AND treats you like you deserve to be treated. Not that this ever happened to me...
Remember people, stop giving the time of people who don't deserve you and for god sakes, make sure whoever you date treats you like the queen you are. That way when you treat them like the king/queen they are, you'll know they deserve it.
yeah, always move forward.
Luckily drama in OP did not happen to me either, but saw that among people I know.
Takes time for all parties involved to get back on tracks again.
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Nope, is it good?
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